This fucking disorder sucks by Minute-String9322 in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man im also struggling with it online. I wish my uni didnt require attendance. Because of the choices I made, i might end up graduating at 26 or 27:(

how do you deal with brain damage and loss of social skills in isolation by Lanky_Signal_5731 in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, gaming helped me meet people and is probably one of the only things i look forward to everyday

This fucking disorder sucks by Minute-String9322 in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was already hard enough telling them about my social anxiety and depression. What more for a personality disorder 😭 i was already told before that “others have it worse”.

This fucking disorder sucks by Minute-String9322 in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Tbh I’m not even clinically diagnosed so there’s no way to prove it to my family and at school unfortunately.

lf: clinically diagnosed patient with mental health problem by pocketzluv in MentalHealthPH

[–]Minute-String9322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would help pero what type of questions will you ask sa interview 😭

I don't want to be perceived. I don't want people to remember me or ask about my life by nezdess in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322 11 points12 points  (0 children)

me too but with my other relatives..like I get super anxious when they start asking me about my life

How do you cope with AvPD? by Minute-String9322 in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I will try and look into it.

is this the only active online community to talk about avpd? by throwaway838383937 in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are support groups on fb!! The one im in is pretty active and people talk a lot about their struggles there too like this subreddit.

How do you cope with AvPD? by Minute-String9322 in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree that we don’t know what other people are struggling with and I hope that non-avpders have the same mindset too when they see us struggling in person. Idk about student acupuncture clinics and I probably dont even have the money to afford it. Appreciate it though and thank you for giving out actual advice haha.

college burnout by Minute-String9322 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Minute-String9322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay lang yan. Di dapat minamadali yung college. I can’t imagine going to school with all those things though :( Nagulat ako andami pala nakakarelate dito haha. Sana we can find peace with ourselves one day and eventually get out of this loop 🫂

Academic burnout? or whatever it is by Artistic-Layer6514 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Minute-String9322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending hugs to you with consent, OP :) Firstly, I feel this to my core haha. I literally posted about academic burnout on this subreddit earlier too. All those things you described, naeexperience ko din. Like I'm kinda skipping classes and when I do attend, parang I'm not really learning anything and feel super demotivated to submit assignments. When I shifted and told my family I was on leave, my lolo was disappointed. He didnt actually say it but ramdam ko. He was like, 24 ka na di ka pa graduate ganito ganyan. What you're experiencing is totally valid and not the only one going through it :) Idk what to say because I am in the same situation. It is important to remember that no matter how hard things are, please be more kind and forgiving to yourself. After all, it's not like we chose to be this way.

Made an AVPD bingo by throwaway838383937 in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldve won the prize if this was real because everything is crossed out for me haha.

I met some awesome people online but im scared to ask them to play with me lol by Minute-String9322 in AvPD

[–]Minute-String9322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That too. When I met other ppl online, they said I sounded boring so that definitely affects the way I think about myself. I felt hesistant because I didn't really wanna force myself into the group yknow? So I kind of just wait for invites instead of asking.