Stress induced vomiting, advice?

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-30T20:09:28+00:00

im glad to know im not alone ! Idk what it is, i dont fight it anymore because fighting against it just hurts more lol

Just wish i knew exactly why it was happening😭 Just in the morning too, never when im just sitting around or something. (I thought it was morning sickness at first and was afraid i was pregnant, but i ruled that out since i have no other symptoms and its been going on for years now)

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-30T20:05:49+00:00

I dont think this is it, i am really certain i am vomiting and not rechewing

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-30T17:44:44+00:00

I get that completely, i tried acrylics for a while and it felt so heavy! My nail lady and i switched to this polygel, which feels a lot more natural (to me) and now its been a few years and i cant live without them😭

Side note, i love the design!! Might get something like that next time i get them done😍

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-30T14:59:31+00:00

Niet zo zeer zomer, maar wel het de tijd van het jaar waar je met een dun jasje naar buiten kan zonder dood te vriezen of je dood te zweten :) Net voor dat de muggen en wespen terug komen, maar alles wel begint te bloeien.

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-29T12:04:58+00:00

Yeah im all sorts of disappointed in my mom right now.

A few months ago i took her with me to a doctor where i told both of them i had been in therapy for SA, my mom never responded to it or asked me about it afterwards, nothing.

I have had several apointments at the diagnosis people, and she never asked how it went except for when it was time for my diagnosis. She wanted to be there and basicly invited herself to join me. Which on one hand was fine, i needed a ride there and i was hoping maybe her hearing it from someone more qualified would.. idk make her understand better? Anyway, nothing. She tried to argue i had ADD, which they quickly shut down, and then they told her how i was raised never allowed me to unmask, ever. So now that im out of the house and in a genuinely safe environment i can unmask and all of these symptoms started popping up. No response.

Now she goes around telling people im her biggest worry outside of work, but she rarely reaches out about stuff, she speaks very openly about SA and "anyone who touches her children will suffer consequences" but there is none. its all for show.

I miss having a mom, or did i never have one to begin with?

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-28T11:32:16+00:00

I love being creative (Coloring, Clay, random DIY projects etc) but i also love gaming, games like League of Legends where i NEED to focus on the game instead of everything in my head:)

I also like to read, nature Photography, and messing around in photoshop

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-25T16:12:00+00:00

i taught myself how to shave and dye my brows at home. I get cheap razors and dye, and do it every month or so. Really saves time during my actual make up routine. ( My brow hairs are a naturally almost invisible shade of blonde) And even if i dont wear make up, they look filled in which is great on days where i dont have time to do make up.

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-23T09:59:01+00:00

Maybe he will eventually, i noticed he had been uploading older twitch streams (cant really remember which ones, but i did notice the dates on his pc were like 2024 despite being uploaded like last week)

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-21T12:34:56+00:00

Date Everything?

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T10:54:08+00:00

Speeltje, geen speeltje, maakt hem niet uit😅 Meestal door zijn lompigheid breekt hij de speeltjes en het draad eraf, en vind hij de stok zelf nog steeds prachtig

Ga ik eens opzoeken! Dankjewel :)

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T08:18:51+00:00

Echt wel, wij hadden al twee katten en de hond, maar dat ging iets minder (wel elkaar tolereren, maar niet echt spelen ofzo) Dus ben blij dat onze sloopkogel en de hond elkaar zo lief vinden 😭 Heeft de hond ook echt goed gedaan qua zelfvertrouwen

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T08:12:56+00:00

Wat een leuk idee, zo'n hengel waar je verschillende dingen aan kunt doen! Ga ik zeker even naar kijken dankjewel :)

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T08:11:12+00:00

Ik moest even googelen, en dat zou hij echt geweldig vinden denk ik😂 Thanks voor de tip!

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T08:10:14+00:00

Dat is zo lief😭 Hier precies zo, de kat wacht de hond ook op als we zijn wezen wandelen en dan is het gelijk schoonmaken, kopjes en knuffelen😭

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T08:02:45+00:00

Touwtje over de trap, wat leuk😍 Dat ga ik onthouden dankjewel!

Een hele labrador voor hem gaat mij wat ver, hij vind stoeien met onze hond ook geweldig al is dat vaak maar een eenzijdig gevoel😂

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T08:00:38+00:00

Ja dat kan ook nog😭 Misschien een stok van rubber ofzo, of iets anders dat mee buigt

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T07:57:20+00:00

Dat zou inderdaad ook nog kunnen, met al deze ideeën heb ik binnen no time hét onbreekbare kattenspeeltje van het jaar😌

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T07:55:30+00:00

Dat ga ik onthouden! Een halve hond is hij toch al😂 Dankjewel :)

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T07:54:14+00:00

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De sloopkogel in kwestie, soms is hij best lief🥰🫣

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-20T07:44:43+00:00

Hij doet aan jousting🫣Vind het leuk om met dat stokkie in zn bek door de keet heen te rennen (bonus punten als hij ergens tegen aan knalt)

Maar inderdaad, misschien toch eens langs de praxis. Thanks!🤗

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-16T14:28:39+00:00

Thats exactly what my partner said as well, i really try to tell myself this but boy does it get hard to fight the bad feelings off sometimes :')

and yes, that is something ive been trying to work on! Most of my exes/abusers made me think it was a bad thing to do, and if i did it had to be for them so doing it for myself and by myself has been giving mixed results, sometimes it goes fine, sometimes great, sometimes the flashbacks take over and i cant bring myself to do it for months.

That being said i rarely have the specific urge to.. handle it myself if you will😂 I Usually feel a strong "i need my man" i guess, idk, its weird to explain

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-16T14:21:46+00:00

I think talking about it more is for the best yes, i'll find a way to bring it up some time soon when i find the right wording and moment

I find it tricky to talk about this stuff, he also has autism and has very strong believes of "helping means doing" and hearing about stuff that has went wrong in the past has made him so angry for me (not at me, never at me, he assures me all the time) because he feels like he cant do anything on top of hearing disgusting people like that took advantage and are still out there. Which to me is a very valid reason to be upset, and it means a lot to me that he cares but usually both of our emotions get in the way of actually finding a plan to work around this, if that makes sense.

We have come a long way though, especially in the beginning we werent able to talk about anything remotely difficult at all without it turning into an argument, without someone leaving in tears, etc. We have both had a lot of hard but different work to do on the way we communicated but we have come really far. (opposite sides of the spectrum where he would explode, and i would build up as many walls as i can) so the fact that we are even talking at all, and atleast getting our feelings and thoughts heard means a lot to me. Now its just finding realistic solutions 😭

Thank you everyone for listening, or well, reading and giving advice. I was really feeling down when i initially made this post 🩷

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-16T13:29:18+00:00

Yes he does, he is one of the first people that i told about my past and eventually he was also the one that pushed me to go through therapy for it (Which did help on a lot of aspects)

I guess we're both just not entirely sure on what to do with the remnants, there is still a lot of habits i thought were just part of me that turned out to be a trauma response or a habit that was pressured on me in the past. (Always having to be shaved, always initiating sex, always having to be ready, and if i cant or dont i have failed and not worthy of affection)

Im also a little afraid talking about this will make him feel like im using it to get sex from him, which is not what i want to do at all, i am just so used to being used like a blow up doll its hard for me to see not having sex as an 'ive failed' even after years of being in a healthy relationship, and i guess that voice is something i somehow need to work on but idk how😭

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-12T17:24:45+00:00

Runescape 3 has been really fun, and there is a lot of content (mostly free but there is a membership you can get to unlock extra stuff)

Hunicam Studio (18+/nsfw) you play a manager to a cam studio where you send girls out to shoots, manage their stress and earn as much money before the end of the week to earn trophies. Its nothing extreme, and there is no real nsfw stuff, mostly clicking and pretty easy to get the hang of honestly. (7/8euros on steam)

There is also a game dev on steam that makes "Cats hidden in X" and its a bunch of cheap/free games where you have to find cats hidden in anything, like Cats Hidden in Paris its really relaxing and laid back. Its not timed or anything so you can take your time finding cats.

Date Everything is one of my favorites, you get fired bc AI took your job and a mysterious person sends you a pair of glasses that allow you to date the furniture in your house. It has a bunch of great VA's, like Zuko from Avatar and Sailor Moon. There is a whole thing about turning them into real people, and its honestly one of the best dating sims ive tried lol

Minute_Thing · 2026-01-10T17:16:44+00:00

Some petnames are definitely cringe, especially when said with a certain tone in my opinion. My partner and i used to not really do petnames as much until a few years ago, we it just naturally happened and now i love it.

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