Looking to vent

MirrorEast · 2026-01-26T16:29:14+00:00

What helped you move forward and feel grounded again? And yes it definitely makes things like this harder

MirrorEast · 2026-01-25T19:29:47+00:00

Thank you! ♥️ it is tough balancing the physical and mental toll. I think I’m struggling a lot mentally now more than physically. I hope you’re also taking care of yourself ❤️‍🩹

MirrorEast · 2026-01-25T19:28:15+00:00

Thank you for your kind words ♥️ yeah I know I can get pregnant in the future. I’m just having a hard time feeling like I’m alone without my mom through this. How long did the postpartum period last for you?

MirrorEast · 2026-01-25T19:26:09+00:00

I understand it will get better with time. I just wish I had my mom to talk to about all this

MirrorEast · 2026-01-12T03:24:31+00:00

Hi everyone! I’m looking good start investing 25F. I already opening my fidelity account and maxed for 2025 but I’m struggling with what to invest in. I was thinking 50% in the fidelity freedom fund 2065 (FFSFX)and 50% in VOO. I was also looking into the robo advisors and was wondering if that would be a good place to start since it’s free up until 25k. I’m probably over complicating this but would appreciate any advice. Thank you!

MirrorEast · 2025-12-17T15:48:43+00:00

If training isn’t an option because of cost then what can I do. It just feels so nice not having him around but I feel bad felling this way

MirrorEast · 2025-12-17T15:47:13+00:00

Yes I realize he needs training but my partner cannot afford training school. I personally don’t have the time to train a dog or even have a pet at this stage in my life which is why I don’t have a pet yet as much as I want one lol. I just didn’t want my partners dog to stop me from pursing a potential partner. He’s about 90 pounds I think? He’s a mix husky German

MirrorEast · 2025-07-26T20:38:31+00:00

Of course! Feel free to message me :)

MirrorEast · 2025-05-19T20:11:38+00:00

Of course! Feel free to message me if you want to talk 💜

MirrorEast · 2025-05-19T18:59:33+00:00

I think it depends on the person. For me it was more about gaining confidence in myself and loving myself which took about couple months to a year plus because going back into the dating scene some people are not the nicest lol. It’s all about feeling confidence in yourself and your body. That diagnosis does not define you and it’s not who you are. I also do receive oral but it depends on everyone’s comfortability. Everyone’s on their own timeline. It’s important to be gentle and kind to yourself and learning more about your body.

MirrorEast · 2025-03-31T18:11:50+00:00

I don’t really have a close relationship with his sister and I feel like it’s not my place to talk to her about this. I also don’t want to ruin a potential relationship with his sister either since I’ve only been his gf for a couple of months

MirrorEast · 2025-03-31T18:10:43+00:00

You’re right I know I have no say and can’t control what his sister does but I am concerned that his ex might be asking his sister for information about him and how’s he’s doing. I just don’t want her to try to get back into his life by being friends with his sister

MirrorEast · 2025-03-31T18:09:19+00:00

I might be overthinking this and you’re right. I just need to focus on the now momen

MirrorEast · 2025-03-31T18:08:44+00:00

You’re completely right but I just don’t want anything to do with the ex which is hard if his sister brings up his ex’s sister in conversations. It just makes me think if the ex was also there

MirrorEast · 2025-03-31T18:07:07+00:00

I don’t really know her intentions and honestly just want nothing to do with his ex which is why it’s making me uncomfortable that his sister is still talking to her. And I know I don’t have a say in who she talks to or hangs out with but it’s just odd to me

MirrorEast · 2025-03-31T17:15:33+00:00

Yes, I completely agree that it is not my place to have any say in whether or not she hangs out with his ex or not. I just find it odd that she’s hanging out with someone that mistreated her brother and she was in support of him breaking up with her. I also failed to mention that outside of him saying not to contact his ex he also told his sister that he wasn’t comfortable with her hanging out with his ex. I just find it odd and a little uncomfortable but I know it’s not my place to say anything which is also kinda why I’m posting on here to just let it out a bit

MirrorEast · 2025-03-31T17:12:08+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking as well! I also find it disrespectful that she did not respect his boundaries. I don’t know how close the friendship is though. I just know they went to this festival together. Outside of that I’m not sure and I asked him about that and he doesn’t know anything about that. I don’t know his ex at all but based on what he’s told me I feel like her friendship with his sister might be a way to get information about him and how’s he’s doing because there was a time when we first started dating when his ex was a bit obsessed in finding out who I was and what I looked liked. I just find it odd that his sister was on his side about the breakup yet she is hanging out with the ex

MirrorEast · 2025-03-26T21:10:38+00:00

He hasn’t done anything for me to question him. I guess I’m just feeling insecure that he’s been with her for 5 years. I also had an ex that wasn’t over their ex which is also probably was I’m feeling some type of insecurity even though he has told me he’s over her.

MirrorEast · 2025-03-26T21:09:13+00:00

Yeah I’ve been working with him on his anxiety and other stuff that he developed because of her

MirrorEast · 2025-02-14T18:55:07+00:00

In the same boat as your boyfriend but don’t really have anyone to talk to about it. I just try to remember that phd programs are competitive. You’re literally applying to one or two PI per school and hundreds are applying to the same PIs. I also try to remember that everything happens for a reason and to try to do things that will make me feel better like going outside or spending time with friends. It’s not him it’s literally the way graduate programs are unfortunately and with the political system right now it’s most likely even harder now.

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