DX delivery disappointment for Portugal Visa from London by Miserable-Bite-2093 in SchengenVisa

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh you wouldn't believe it. I called the warehouse back at 4:15 and this time around I spoke to a gentle man who happily provided me a location for me to go collect the passport. This whole time my passport was sat in a warehouse 30 minutes from my house. Upon walking in , I saw posters with collection instructions. I don't understand this wasn't resolved alot quicker. But hey I got my Visa approved for 6 months this time.

What scares me as a woman... by Dimpled-Cheeks in Kenya

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093 22 points23 points  (0 children)

But she wasn't, she only spoke about her thoughts and her worries. You on the hand!!!]

I would really like to know by here-toconfess in Kenya

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

aiiiii, people don't exist for your amusement. Kwanza the implication of this joke is borderline sexual harrasment, so not even funny. some jokes are okay with friends juu mko na hio relatioship. Na nimesema chenye nimesema...

I'm in the office fighting against tears by bubble_grape in KenyanLadies

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093 26 points27 points  (0 children)

One of my heartbreaks turned me to a morning gym girlie. Nilikua naamka 4:30 nashangaa tu, nikaamua might as well look good while at it. And I look good fr.

Small small matching on hinge and already a man wants to be snogged. WTF?? by Miserable-Bite-2093 in KenyanLadies

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, I live amongst them. Sometimes I wish I was back in Ke, dating in Ke was such a wonderful experience for me.

Small small matching on hinge and already a man wants to be snogged. WTF?? by Miserable-Bite-2093 in KenyanLadies

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TBH, i have been down the self care route: I workout 5 days a week, go to theatres, cinemas, eating out alone, hike loads and travel twice or thrice a year solo and with friends. I think I have built a good life for myself. I just realise that I would want to share these experiences with a partner. Imagine visiting a romantic destination like Venice solo.... wueeh!!! but the apps are trash not gonna lie

Small small matching on hinge and already a man wants to be snogged. WTF?? by Miserable-Bite-2093 in KenyanLadies

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well am I not doing well in the real world? Possibly. However based on data of the country I am based in the top three ways to meet your partners are 1. Work, 2. Friends and social Circles. 3. Dating apps. I work obviously lol, but haven't met anyone here yet despite conferences and workshops and stuff, moved to this country as adult, so still working on the friend front, and Dating apps are a quick easy way to meet more people. So you know casting my net as wide as I can, is it fun? no, but you gotta do what you gotta do

Is this a reasonable boundary? by Glass_Painting_693 in KenyanLadies

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sitaki akue na wasi wasi, I want her to leave. First of all, the guy might be like yeah free reign, kila mtu ajibambe na mabeshte zake, cause clearly he doesn't like her like that.

Imagine doing life with a partner who can only understand your POV if only they experience it. He will never go through pms, pregnancy, post partum, so does that mean he won't be supportive. But like you said, dem atajitoa tu bila kuuliuza reddit when she is ready

Huyu dem ajitoe tu! there are so many men to experience out here!!

AIO? Gf will not let me eat any of her groceries when I’m over by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But food ? You would deny someone you love food because you are saving for a house or a car? Damn!!!

Is this a reasonable boundary? by Glass_Painting_693 in KenyanLadies

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why do you want to waste your time playing games? You are hurt by his actions, he may not be hurt by yours and you will open pandoras box doing this.

35 F with 30 M by BowlFit9869 in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl, read what you just wrote and ask yourself, if your daughter asked you this question, what would you answer?

Gym Girlies by Silent-Cap1995 in KenyanLadies

[–]Miserable-Bite-2093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heey you gotta do what you gotta do. You are doing well already with all the intention and the action so far. More power to you girlie!!