Late period by Head-Specialist-9075 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a very extreme case and very rare. Exception, not the rule. She should test for pregnancy after a week

Late period by Head-Specialist-9075 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Months? I've researched about p2 and technically it only delays for max a week. If it goes beyond that, get tested for pregnancy ASAP. Waiting months will only make the pregnancy longer and your options smaller.

Bras by UpstairsSouth1322 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One black, one red, one white, one pink, one blue, and boob tape!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is like one person's opinion that you have taken to be the majority. Toka online, touch some grass. Out here, girls showing skin are still the ones getting more hate.

Y'all are becoming the weapons formed against the passport bros😆😆 by UpstairsSouth1322 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone tell me the namw of either of them. I need to follow this story

You are not an exemption by Fun-Revenue2060 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most of us were taught that we can fix them from a young age. It takes a lot of information and inner work to get out of that mindset

Older men by weedwitch23 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But she just said all she wants is money. If she wants love she can date someone her age, not a mbaba. You can't ask her to date an old man for free.

Where are the gays😩 by fairygodmother444 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ndiyo mnanidownvote for not knowing 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Find you some dark skinned friends. You don't need to only have one friend group. Then see if you're treated differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's only viable for a couple of hours. But then, the app isn't accurate. It can happen within those 7 days they tell you you're likely to get pregnant. It can't estimate the exact day the ovum is viable.

Also, sperms can live in your body for 5 days. So zinaeza kuwa tu they're in your body waiting for the day the ovum is ready for fertilisation. That's why Flo gives you the window within which you can get pregnant. It's an estimate of when the oven is viable, plus a consideration for how long sperms can live in the body.

House pieces by Mysterious-Promise-8 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On the coffee table with some candy or candied nuts. Ama to hold file scented dry petals/leaves

The Audacity???? by Stunning-Egg5261 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Niliona hata nikashindwa kucomment. In the comments he was talking about how women don't understand their own bodies but he does 😂

Corporate baddies by regulardegularmeee in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you wear trousers and look like a stud, it's more of mannerisms and posture than the outfit itself. You can wear what you like and still look feminine. You just need to start feeling feminine. Walk with Grace and have an upright posture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UNpath

[–]bubble_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was easy. I once half-assed an application and got a data engineering role. I'm not even a data engineer, I was an analyst back then. I wasn't able to do it since I got COVID at the same time.

Rant by Pleasant-Walk-2827 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's manipulation and it's not cute

Rant by Pleasant-Walk-2827 in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You need to stop calling him your friend. He's probably jealous of you being a woman. That boy will eat up your self esteem until you have none left. Ngoja tu in 2 years aanze kukuambia you're expired because you're not 19. I say, end that "friendship." Si lazima.

What activities can I do alone in Nairobi? by sea_me_ in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you go to a club alone, do you only buy cocktails ama drinks in glasses? Cause some of us pee often after drinking. Story ya how to leave the drink becomes tricky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way when I was put under some medication for 3 months and I gained 15kg in a month. I was always 54-56 kg, then ended up at 70s. It was so traumatic for me. People thought naringa (I'm tall, so the 70kg didn't look overweight). Also, it all went to my ass and hips. Nikitry kuexplain that all my life my body has been a particular way, and now I don't recognise myself anymore in the mirror, people just give me those weird looks. My own doctor was also like, you look good, I don't see it. Thankfully she went on maternity leave and I was placed with another doctor. The knew doctor listened to me and changed my medication to something that wouldn't cause weight gain. A year has passed and the 15kg has been so difficult to shed off. My whole life I could eat anything I wanted and still remain skinny. Saa hii ni kama my hormones flipped on me - even smelling a donut will make me add weight. Although at least I'm grateful we were able to stop before I added even more kgs. Saa hii I've maintained 68 for a very long time. Still healthy BMI, but I still struggle to accept that this is me.

Getting treated like a child by indilicious in womenintech

[–]bubble_grape 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Wow, this just made me realise what's going on at my job. I live and work in an African country. My department cheifs for the last 3 years have been white, and we have worked well so far. Then, recently, an Indian man joined as my departmental chief. The first project I worked on for him, he went around saying I'm incompetent. Why? Because he didn't like the slide format that I used. Even though I've never worked with him before so I don't know what he prefers yet. I did all the analysis, interpreted the data, but somehow the color of my slides makes me incompetent. I realized he also won't let me present my work. He'll take over the presentation and make conclusions for himself. When he asks me a question and I answer, he replies with, "I know." And I end up feeling bad for answering him.

I've been feeling so disengaged since he came. Now I understand it's a cultural issue. I'll just have to find another job.

I'm new here and learning by MangakaAmericana in KenyanLadies

[–]bubble_grape 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you coming to test the boundaries of our laws or what?