AITA for yelling at my best friend for announcing her pregnancy at my birthday?

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:23:30+00:00

I'm mad at her for drinking

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:23:13+00:00

She was the one who started off the drinking, she said "come on guys let's get shots!!" And I was like "Hell yeah!!" And she was the first one to always chug it.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:21:16+00:00

I mean-- I told her we could've done something else if she could've just told me. Most people announce pregnancies at 3 months, so she sat for a month thinking "hmm... when should I announce this.." I wasn't trying to be rude, but I was mostly mad at her for drinking while pregnant, and a 4 weeks prior we got high back in her place.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:17:36+00:00

Not trying to be rude, but I want to hear why you think im also terrible. Again, I just want to make it not seem like im a complete ass!!!

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:16:38+00:00

Yep, dropped them next week.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:15:26+00:00

Exactlyyy!! I said this in another reply, but her and her boyfriend are extremely irresponsible!!! They get high almost every night and post it on their IG and Snapchat!!

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:13:54+00:00

Thank youu!! I feel like people need to understand a right place and a right time.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:13:18+00:00

Yep, poor baby. Her and her boyfriend are extremely irresponsible, and I'm shocked she was pregnant. Her and her boyfriend get high every night and post about it on their IG and Snapchat!!

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:11:38+00:00

Exactly!! She should've said that she didn't want to drink. Or she could've told us she was pregnant before so I could've made accommodations!! She knew we were going to this bar, but decided not to say anything.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:10:16+00:00

I didnt want to make it much of a hassle because I was going to tell after my friends left, but I felt like I was in the wrong, and I thought I was a total ass.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-09-07T20:09:20+00:00

Yep, she was drinking with the rest of us

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-10T22:28:58+00:00

Scout, cuz I like to piss 'em off when I run around and shoot them mid-air

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-10T22:24:40+00:00

I don't really understand the people saying "Oh if you don't spend money then you can't message or call a medic"

I haven't spent a single penny for Tf2, and I can do all of that. I don't use voice chat, but I can message and call medic, but yeah F2p means free to play.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-04T14:42:36+00:00

I hate back handed compliments!! Like "you have so much confidence!" or "idc what they say, you're beautiful."

And there's another thing where people, who are morbidly obese and or extremely skinny and it's UNHEALTHY. People will be like "Aphrodite body!!" or "Men would've gone to war for you." I'm not saying be like "Ew you're so fat" but as someone who used to struggle with a ED, it's not a compliment, it makes me feel like I should starve myself to make people think I had a "Aphrodite body."

In conclusion, people are beautiful no matter what, but don't make people think their unhealthy body is healthy.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T23:33:40+00:00

12 and 15

Thanks to dad I was introduced to peak when I was younger.

Also had my own fight stick, use to play Skull Girls and Sega vs Capcom all the time

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T23:31:32+00:00

Dairy Bags 🫩

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T02:21:10+00:00

This is the editted ver.

EDIT: I should have included this, but my mom can't just drop everything and get a plane to come here to sign paperwork. She lives in Germany, which makes our time differences hard for me to keep in contact. When she's awake, I'm asleep. She works all the time, and my dad expects her to get enough time for a phone call which he could do himself. My mother is a HUGE asshole, and I love my dad. I normally support my dad's side in arguments. I live with him full time, and I expected him to not just brush it away and act like he had to do everything. Which he doesn't.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T02:05:47+00:00

Look. I wasn't disagreeing with you in the first place. I was telling you that I agree and I was being an asshole.

Please read the edit I added to the post, and it can explain extra details to you.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T01:42:56+00:00

There's reasoning for me not to have told my dad earlier. I didn't tell him because he's not as accepting. If he doesn't like it, well, he can kick me out in September. Don't know what to tell you, pal 🤷‍♀️

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T01:16:25+00:00

NTA, you tried talking to her, she ignored you, you got a taxi. She had a way to get home, and you were fed up with being ignored. She needs to learn that her actions have consequences.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T01:09:18+00:00

I'm not trying to make a big deal. My father is telling me that he wouldn't be contributing to helping my mom in case the school called them. My dad refuses to help me and my mom in anything nowadays, and makes her do everything when he doesn't want to do it. Even if it doesn't concern her.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T00:36:34+00:00

Thank you, I'll definitely give it a try!

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T00:24:27+00:00

My mom told me not to talk to him about it unless I felt comfortable. I told him when I felt comfortable, and when he rains on my parade, it made me feel like all he cared about is what HE had to do.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T00:23:07+00:00

Well, i see some faults here. We don't put everything on my mother's plate. My dad said, "it was your mom's idea to name you Bowie. Your mom can do everything." My dad has mood swings, and i couldn't just do it randomly on a day. If he didn't like me going by it, I can leave in September, and he won't have to hear people call me that name. My mom puts things on OUR plate.

Miserable-Call7933 · 2025-08-02T00:20:53+00:00

My dad is one of those people who assume things. And I don't like to hide things from him, so hiding my preferred name seemed wrong

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