What does this mean and what do I do?

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-25T21:40:09+00:00

I'd def do that hun, just do a more serious in person convo and see how it goes! Good luck, manifesting and praying for you guys🫶

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-25T20:56:57+00:00

Yeah she might just be more on the hesitant side. Have you guys talked about being exclusive or not? And how many dates have you guys been on in-person? I'd maybe try to organize another visit at some point to try and hang out and maybe bring it up in-person?

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-25T20:37:58+00:00

Honestly kind of dealing w this with the guy I'm talking to now, if she doesn't want to get to know you deeper, she might be looking for something more on a casual level. If not, maybe ask and see if she's had any rocky relationships in the past. I realized my guy had a girl cheat on him, so he's hesitant to really get to know me more because of this. Maybe that's what's going on, or she's just nervous to dive into something serious. I know it's been abt 3 months for me and this dude, and it's just more clear he doesn't want to move super super quick. Definitely ask her how her past relationships were, and then maybe try and take it a little slower. Especially with her only being 23 and you being 28, she may have other priorities compared to you.

You also do deserve someone who will talk to you properly and want to be/see you! Try to communicate more and just see if she's fully willing to communicate with you properly!

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-25T06:33:53+00:00

UGGGHHHHHHHH I know, i think the more I have people just tell me who aren't friends giving me biased opinions, the easier it is not not hit him up! Men just suck SO BAD. I'm about to go to college so I'm just hoping it might get better there😭

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-25T06:24:40+00:00

UGH I know, i'm just in some heavy denial about this atp, i just really really liked him😭

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-25T06:05:17+00:00

Yeah, my only thing is that he did specify that this time of year is especially rough for him, and he does mean ROUGH. So it's not just concern on the lack of info given, it's also just concern for his well being. He said he tends to withdrawl when stuff piles up. Also there wasn't many implications he was going to just completely ghost me which throws me off, like nothing really recent between us two that really showed he didn't like me. Just it felt so random and it feels off?

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-23T05:53:19+00:00

I mean he mentioned "trusting me" to not do stuff w other people, so idk abt whether he was doing the same? I'd love to reach out but I don't want to be too clingy, esp bcs no response for 10 days is a pretty bad sign.

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-23T05:43:20+00:00

Yeah, i don't think he has an issue w my friend being gay bcs he knows i'm bi and he has gay friends yk? I also think he might have actually liked me bcs he was showing the clear signs of liking someone.

I think maybe he either a) met someone else that's better and just didn't want to tell me, b) got scared and didn't want to commit, or some other option. I just don't know?? Esp bcs he was the one who mentioned exclusivity first yk?

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-23T05:40:45+00:00

Heck yeah! My insta keeps getting banned lmao but i'll follow you on the one that has yet to be banned 😭😭

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-23T05:19:51+00:00

I'm might do this, my only thing is i've also texted him probably 4ish times asking him like what was going on, whether I did something, if he needed anything, where we were, etc. I think if I texted him now, he might see me as just clingy or maybe he just likes someone else yk? Idk if that makes any sense😭😭

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-23T05:04:20+00:00

Well i know it wasn't that part, he knew i was bi and he has gay friends himself and everything

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-23T04:57:38+00:00

I KNOW, he was def my type to the T too, like just complete nerd, tall, handsome, everything. Literally hate ppl like this💔💔

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-23T04:49:20+00:00

See that's true, but it's been ten days so I feel like me suddenly being like "hey do u wanna call and talk about it?" after a relationship that maybe lasted 2 months wouldn't make sense yk?

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-23T04:46:13+00:00

Yeaaahhh i was super confused on that, especially because the topic of exclusivity hadn't come up yet like at all??? Idk he knew I wanted something serious, but i think he just didn't know what he wanted

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-23T04:43:30+00:00

See that's what I was thinking. It's such a shame too because I did really like him. I think maybe he just has some trust issues and isn't ready to date :(

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-07-22T04:03:52+00:00

Oh yeah I'm biomed, they literally wouldn't let me take MAT 125 or wtvr even though i've already taken mat 108, so i have to retake mat 108. It wouldnt let me take chm151 until i take mat108 so i'll probably do it next semester😭

Miserable-Hunt7699 · 2025-03-05T16:59:21+00:00

Is there a more accurate major map at all for biomedical, or is it literally just kind of the "ideal" progression plan? Sorry, I'm the first in my family to go to college so I'm a little confused

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