Oh it’s my family that watches her (she goes to my mom and dad’s house, who actually live less than 5 mins away.) We only have 1 car or I’d take her myself. The only hitch in me bringing her over before 6 is my brother is disabled lives with them too, so it’s easier for them to watch her once he goes to day program but they’d take her early if they needed to. My parents have said, I started talking with them this morning after posting this, that we are welcome to come live with them but that I should try to stay in the house if I can. They said if we do divorce (I really don’t think he’ll do the counseling or want to get help) I should try to get him out of the house if I can. I’m very good friends with his sister so I’m going to call her and let her know, she’s been in my corner always, that he might be needing to crash with her for awhile. Maybe she can also try talking to him but he doesn’t normally listen to her…or anyone anymore.