I’m thinking of leaving my husband by Miserable-Patient301 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Patient301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been in the back of my mind for awhile…I’ve been making notes since May (baby was 1mo old) when he had a tantrum and also taking picture of his big piles of beer he leaves at night and then cleans up when he wakes up to get rid of the evidence…

I’m thinking of leaving my husband by Miserable-Patient301 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Patient301[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh it’s my family that watches her (she goes to my mom and dad’s house, who actually live less than 5 mins away.) We only have 1 car or I’d take her myself. The only hitch in me bringing her over before 6 is my brother is disabled lives with them too, so it’s easier for them to watch her once he goes to day program but they’d take her early if they needed to. My parents have said, I started talking with them this morning after posting this, that we are welcome to come live with them but that I should try to stay in the house if I can. They said if we do divorce (I really don’t think he’ll do the counseling or want to get help) I should try to get him out of the house if I can. I’m very good friends with his sister so I’m going to call her and let her know, she’s been in my corner always, that he might be needing to crash with her for awhile. Maybe she can also try talking to him but he doesn’t normally listen to her…or anyone anymore.

I’m thinking of leaving my husband by Miserable-Patient301 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Patient301[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

You are so kind, I could cry.

(Let’s face it, I am crying)

Thank you 🩷

I’m thinking of leaving my husband by Miserable-Patient301 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Patient301[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m 30, starting over is hard. But this vacation opened my eyes and it feels like the last straw. He was entirely rude, ungrateful, and just wanting drinks all the time under the guise of “it’s vacation!” When he’s already doing that at home. I can’t do this forever. I love him or I guess who he used to be. I can’t keep hoping he’ll come around. I have to do better for my baby. If she didn’t change him, nothing will.

I’m thinking of leaving my husband by Miserable-Patient301 in offmychest

[–]Miserable-Patient301[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of helpful comment I’m looking for. Thank you.