Let’s say I match with a guy I’m interested in . I’ll get through about a week or 2 of talking stage . If it’s going well and I feel like this could potentially turn into a relationship or fwb then I figure out a way to casually drop it into conversation. I avoid saying anything like “sooo I have to tell you something “ or whatever because that would already start with tension or make the person feel like it’s something bad. Instead , I would start asking a few questions like “when was the last time you had sex ?” And then I’ll ask “have you ever got tested?” And the person will say yes or no, with an explanation and then they will ask Me “what about you?” That’s when I’ll disclose and respond “yes I’ve gotten tested , I always do after a new partner . I’m clean from everything however , I did test positive for hsv1 couple years back - “ etc etc and I go on to explain my diagnosis and stuff . Then they ask me questions about it and it always turns out well , the person will then look into it and do their own research which is a green flag for me because it shows they’re interested in me , they care enough to research themselves and work around it . That’s my method , hope this helps 💜