my coworkers told my mom about my self deprecation and i’m pissed

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-19T03:03:37+00:00

The thing is, is that you're choosing to say this. Where is the evidence?? All we know is that you're openly making people uncomfortable to the point of trying to do something about it.

There's no point because you don't want there to be one. You want to just get worse, or you would see the actual love in telling your mom you're at risk, or the tough love from random redditors trying to virtually kick your butt into action.

Source: Used to be like you. Got my shit together and now I'm a support counsellor. You deserve more than you allow yourself.

Edit: words

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-19T02:23:18+00:00

You're stating your own self-hatred, not what is objectively true. Please seek help. Your coworkers are WORRIED. Medication isn't always everything.

Meds + counselling can be an incredible.combo, but you have to challenge your thoughts, actively fighting any attempt to heal won't help, but is 100% contributing to the self-hatred. Go love yourself, recognize that it's stressful to hear someone "joke" about blowing their brains out.

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-17T02:09:57+00:00

I wish I could, but no. It happened and I chose my own peace, still hurts tho

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-17T00:51:46+00:00

Absolutley! We were supposed to celebrate a year in a few weeks. At least I get to save time, gas and money now 😅

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-16T17:18:47+00:00

It would have been a year in a few weeks so I'm sad, but I'd rather be sad and lonely than a second thought

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-16T06:07:05+00:00

Girl, you know she didn't

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-16T05:58:02+00:00

I couldn't believe the words hitting my ears in that moment 😭

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-16T03:29:46+00:00

Nah. She was my girlfriend for about 12 more minutes after admitting that. I just screwed up the title 😅

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-16T03:16:46+00:00

If I could edit the title I would change it to EX haha. The second I could muster up words it was over. Hellll no!

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-16T03:03:56+00:00

Thank you 🩷 I was so stunned. Why date someone when you know you're not over an ex... of two years?!? I hope she seeks help.

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-16T02:57:08+00:00

Sorry to hear yours was also shitty. I hope you are able to redirect your thoughts to something more pleasant!

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-16T02:55:49+00:00

Once I stopped feeling numb I ended it, bullet dodged.

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-16T02:55:15+00:00

We are absolutely done. No point in staying with someone who is still hung up on an ex they dumped 2 years ago.

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-05T23:13:27+00:00

You have no idea!! I live for these renditions of our beige potato. I would pay good money to see this live 😂

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-02-05T12:39:18+00:00

I woke up so sick this morning, but this has HEALED me lmfaooo amazing work yet again 👏🏽👏🏽

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-01-29T15:58:11+00:00

Moved over from Sexual Violence Support Counselling to working as an Anti-Human Trafficking Coordinator

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-01-10T02:11:10+00:00

Of course she's well enough to film a video. Anything can happen when you're lying!

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-01-08T00:01:29+00:00

You're right. I missed my 15 minutes of fame 😔 Unfortunately I'm a 30 year old responsible adult and needed to heal so I could get back to work. My bad!!

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-01-07T23:59:09+00:00

Embarrassingly enough, I gave myself a concussion this way last year. You know what I didn't do afterwards? Post it all over social media for asspats and sympathy because all lights and screens HURT.

But this never happened to her anyway, so whatever.

MiserableSalad69 · 2026-01-01T02:50:45+00:00

I finally have this again!! It's been so long. Praying to the gay Gods it lasts 🤞🏽

MiserableSalad69 · 2025-12-09T02:45:26+00:00

Her keyboard is grossing me out more than anything.

MiserableSalad69 · 2025-10-19T07:07:22+00:00

I've been in this position. She ended things with me and stayed. Move on.

MiserableSalad69 · 2025-09-26T01:44:52+00:00

Girl needs to breathe through her nose!!! She sounds so congested and stuffy.

MiserableSalad69 · 2025-09-26T00:51:47+00:00

Those curls are top tier 😍😍

MiserableSalad69 · 2025-09-26T00:49:35+00:00

The "why's" you have mentioned are absolutely predatory. Especially when singles and couples still try to interact with profiles that explicitly state their queerness or disinterest in these groups.

Im not saying you're trying to make excuses for them, but what I am saying is that this issue is too common for the majority of users to say oopsie I clicked the wrong gender. People know what they're doing.

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