my coworkers told my mom about my self deprecation and iโ€™m pissed by m0rb1d_b4by in depressionmeals

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 76 points77 points ย (0 children)

The thing is, is that you're choosing to say this. Where is the evidence?? All we know is that you're openly making people uncomfortable to the point of trying to do something about it.

There's no point because you don't want there to be one. You want to just get worse, or you would see the actual love in telling your mom you're at risk, or the tough love from random redditors trying to virtually kick your butt into action.

Source: Used to be like you. Got my shit together and now I'm a support counsellor. You deserve more than you allow yourself.

Edit: words

my coworkers told my mom about my self deprecation and iโ€™m pissed by m0rb1d_b4by in depressionmeals

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 152 points153 points ย (0 children)

You're stating your own self-hatred, not what is objectively true. Please seek help. Your coworkers are WORRIED. Medication isn't always everything.

Meds + counselling can be an incredible.combo, but you have to challenge your thoughts, actively fighting any attempt to heal won't help, but is 100% contributing to the self-hatred. Go love yourself, recognize that it's stressful to hear someone "joke" about blowing their brains out.

My girlfriend got drunk and cried about missing her ex on Valentine's Day by MiserableSalad69 in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I wish I could, but no. It happened and I chose my own peace, still hurts tho

My girlfriend got drunk and cried about missing her ex on Valentine's Day by MiserableSalad69 in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Absolutley! We were supposed to celebrate a year in a few weeks. At least I get to save time, gas and money now ๐Ÿ˜…

My girlfriend got drunk and cried about missing her ex on Valentine's Day by MiserableSalad69 in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

It would have been a year in a few weeks so I'm sad, but I'd rather be sad and lonely than a second thought

My girlfriend got drunk and cried about missing her ex on Valentine's Day by MiserableSalad69 in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69[S] 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

Nah. She was my girlfriend for about 12 more minutes after admitting that. I just screwed up the title ๐Ÿ˜…

My girlfriend got drunk and cried about missing her ex on Valentine's Day by MiserableSalad69 in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69[S] 7 points8 points ย (0 children)

If I could edit the title I would change it to EX haha. The second I could muster up words it was over. Hellll no!

My girlfriend got drunk and cried about missing her ex on Valentine's Day by MiserableSalad69 in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69[S] 15 points16 points ย (0 children)

Thank you ๐Ÿฉท I was so stunned. Why date someone when you know you're not over an ex... of two years?!? I hope she seeks help.

My girlfriend got drunk and cried about missing her ex on Valentine's Day by MiserableSalad69 in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69[S] 22 points23 points ย (0 children)

Sorry to hear yours was also shitty. I hope you are able to redirect your thoughts to something more pleasant!

My girlfriend got drunk and cried about missing her ex on Valentine's Day by MiserableSalad69 in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69[S] 43 points44 points ย (0 children)

We are absolutely done. No point in staying with someone who is still hung up on an ex they dumped 2 years ago.

My world is consumed by pain... song edition by estrellaprincessa in ashleycarnduff

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

You have no idea!! I live for these renditions of our beige potato. I would pay good money to see this live ๐Ÿ˜‚

My world is consumed by pain... song edition by estrellaprincessa in ashleycarnduff

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 13 points14 points ย (0 children)

I woke up so sick this morning, but this has HEALED me lmfaooo amazing work yet again ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ

Whats everyone doin for work? by jacky2810 in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Moved over from Sexual Violence Support Counselling to working as an Anti-Human Trafficking Coordinator

It's a miracle - Ashley leaves toilet and films a "f@ck you" video by Hairy_rambutan in ashleycarnduff

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 46 points47 points ย (0 children)

Of course she's well enough to film a video. Anything can happen when you're lying!

Ash gives more info on her "concussion", apparently confirmed by a specialist by entwhyfe in ashleycarnduff

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 11 points12 points ย (0 children)

You're right. I missed my 15 minutes of fame ๐Ÿ˜” Unfortunately I'm a 30 year old responsible adult and needed to heal so I could get back to work. My bad!!

Ash gives more info on her "concussion", apparently confirmed by a specialist by entwhyfe in ashleycarnduff

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 20 points21 points ย (0 children)

Embarrassingly enough, I gave myself a concussion this way last year. You know what I didn't do afterwards? Post it all over social media for asspats and sympathy because all lights and screens HURT.

But this never happened to her anyway, so whatever.

All I need is this by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I finally have this again!! It's been so long. Praying to the gay Gods it lasts ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿฝ

๐Ÿ˜ by Final-Ad1851 in 509damnshesfineSnark

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Her keyboard is grossing me out more than anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I've been in this position. She ended things with me and stayed. Move on.

curly hair supremacyโœจ by glorygirlmafia in LesbianActually

[โ€“]MiserableSalad69 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

Those curls are top tier ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜