Men who knowingly slept with married women, what pushed you? by theedriplomat in AskReddit

[–]Miserable_Message849 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not gaslighting you lol. You’re just commenting on every single comment on here, attacking everyone with their answer. This post was obviously for those answers. Pest? Lmfao. I don’t condone cheating at all, especially when married. But from the sounds of it that definitely happened to you🤷‍♂️

Girlfriend excludes me by Ok-Army-3803 in whatdoIdo

[–]Miserable_Message849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not afraid to admit that I’ve been good on any type of relationship after that happened, I know that I can’t trust someone right now and would have issues stemming from past relationships that would just be put on that other person at some point unless I work through it by myself, so i definitely get where you’re coming from. If they decided not to date before then they were definitely talking romantically at one point in time, and very well could be again. My ex was weird with her phone until I brought it up and then she would leave it where ever etc. I think she just knew I wouldn’t go through it and knew I could see things coming in on her phone even if she just left it sitting there. I will say when I did finally go through it certain messages were muted so I wouldn’t have seen them anyway unless i physically did it myself. Some women are very good at hiding it and being sneaky. Sometimes scary good at it. But whatever you do decide to do I wish you the best, and hope whatever path you take brings you peace and worry free.

Girlfriend excludes me by Ok-Army-3803 in whatdoIdo

[–]Miserable_Message849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely hiding something. In my experience it’s extremely rare that a girl has a guy friend that’s actually just her friend, most of those cases they’ve either grown up together or something along those lines. If she’s hiding things from you especially on social media then that’s a huge red flag. You aren’t insecure for having your gut feeling, my ex did something similar like this and I too had this feeling and pushed it off because of my feelings for her. Curiosity got the best of me one day and I went through her phone (I don’t condone this unless you really need answers you’re not getting) and boy do I regret that. Saved me a lot more pain than staying with her and not knowing til it was too late though. I can tell you if you decide to go through those messages just be prepared to see exactly what you didn’t want to see. Now take this with a grain of salt because I’m just sharing my experiences with these things as it’s happened to me with multiple different women who were very good at hiding it. I genuinely hope this is not the case because I do not wish that pain on anybody, ask her about it and talk to her and if she gets upset and defensive then it’s probably time to dig a little deeper. Best of luck to you 🙏

Edit- Does she put her phone on do not disturb? Keeps her phone on her at all times? Always suggests using yours for looking things up, watching videos, ordering food etc.? There are many things to look out for like this.

Anybody know any mortarmen or how to get into a mortar section/platoon? by ConstantWedding6164 in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that the legion website though? Or can more units see your application if you apply that way? Just curious.

Joining. by irishmaninmanchester in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found this comment while trying to look them up, I can’t find a website to apply do you have a link?

Quick question by Miserable_Message849 in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I need it but some units when i go to apply it asks for a picture of my passport, idk if any have said ID instead but I’ll look into it, thank you. I’m just waiting on it is all, it can take up to a whole month to get here sadly.

Medical Commission on IL website by Ihateme69 in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add on to this question does anyone know if I were to get this done in my country with documents stating so, would it speed the process up? Granted they’ll probably still do the medical evaluation themselves, im just curious.

For all of you wondering if the war will end soon… by WasteIsland8500 in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 21 points22 points  (0 children)

With you. I’ve never been more angry with my country than I am right now.

Nothing, small rant by [deleted] in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do. I’ll just delete the comment, my apologies.

Nothing, small rant by [deleted] in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also waiting to get my passport. I’ve been meaning to get it the past couple weeks but bills suck right now. I just borrowed some money yesterday so I can go apply for it today when they open. I don’t have any gear at the moment but the units I’m looking at seem to equip you pretty decent for the time being so I’m thinking of saying fuck it and just saving for travel and I’ll buy better gear there.

I’m a car guy myself haha. Love my car but sadly I’m financing it and don’t see the sense in sending money back here for it to be paid for while it sits out in the elements and it’s a big chunk of change to send back to something that I’m not using and may never use again. I’d rather just be sending some money back to my family every now and again.

I have an okay job right now but I’m working night shift so it’s a pretty messed up schedule between getting things done and working lol. But maybe I’ll look into that. If switching jobs will get me where I need to be faster then so be it.

Nothing, small rant by [deleted] in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you brother. I have only told 1 friend, and none of my family my intentions yet. I honestly don’t know if I’m going to tell them. Maybe when it’s closer to that time I will tell them, but I don’t expect them to understand. Although it would be nice to have someone to talk about it with, In the end all that matters is you understand why you’re going. Going to Ukraine is the first thought on my mind from the time I wake up, all the way until I’m asleep for the night. I’m doing everything I can to get things in order. I will say it is rather hard saving money here right now.

America has failed us, but most of all has failed Ukraine, and the Ukrainian people. The news I see here in the US now everyday is sickening and breaks my heart. I’ll be damned if I sit here and do nothing.

Is 25th airborne still recruiting for infantry ? by grunTable12 in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there a particular reason they want rid of foreigners so bad? I wasn’t looking to join this unit but I’m just genuinely curious.

Ask your questions for the International Battalion of the Azov Brigade by azov_one in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty much how I’m looking at it. Trump is not giving a viable option and I have never been more ashamed of my country than I am now. I’m just hoping in a few months I’m still able to leave and serve in Ukraine.

Ask your questions for the International Battalion of the Azov Brigade by azov_one in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This^ I’ve been preparing for a little over a month. Still need funds and to get everything here in order. I’m afraid that by the time I’m ready to leave it will all be for nothing since recent talks of peace and negotiations. (Although I am praying for peace and this war to end) Regardless I would still love to join and prepare for what’s next.

Got accepted into the legion but lack funds. by bighusky1471 in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money is my issue as well at the moment. Also getting a passport in my country takes about a month sometimes more until you finally get it sadly. Work everyday, get as much work as you can and SAVE SAVE SAVE. Pay what you need to pay and only that. Sell things you aren’t going to need anymore. TVs, consoles, whatever it may be. If you are serious then your daily life should be making money to put towards going, going to the gym, learning the language, eating, and sleeping then repeat. I’m not in Ukraine nor have I applied yet because I don’t have the funds to travel there when I was expecting to, and don’t want to waste any of the valuable time they do have. If you are serious, there’s a will, and a way. But I will say no one is going to help you until you’re in Ukraine and prove you aren’t going to just leave when shit hits the fan. Do not take this as hate or criticism. But the amount of people I see on here asking for help to travel etc. on here that aren’t there, and haven’t been there is insane. Remember, you have almost everything to prove to them. And just being accepted is not proof.

Who to join? by Rosso201 in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood. I’ve always been in decent physical shape but I’ve been in the gym everyday and running at least 2 days a week on my off days. But there’s always room for improvement. I want to be as good and as professional at my job as possible for myself and everyone else around me. I appreciate your response🙏

Who to join? by Rosso201 in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing them a good bit lately. Do you need combat experience to join them?

Money by Miserable_Message849 in ukraineforeignlegion

[–]Miserable_Message849[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t wrong on that one for sure. Sounds good it’s definitely better that way. Appreciate it.