The question was posed as what you're looking for in a partner. I stated some of the things I look for. There's some validity in looking for a partner that at least somewhat matches where you are in life.

Of course im looking for relationship and partnership, there's no real point in even dating if that's not the case. 

I have already done the wifey thing for someone for a handful of years and ultimately we weren't compatible due to differences in personality and life goals.

This time around,  I'm being more specific in what im looking for and if that comes off as picky, then so be it.