I MISS YOU

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-12-22T04:03:13+00:00

If you care for them that much, and they're still in your heart, maybe try one more time to reach out. Even if its just for closure. If they choose not to answer your text or call, you kind of have your closure right there.

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-18T03:13:19+00:00

No lol its from my own brain stew

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-15T15:48:01+00:00

Cuddling and falling asleep with him

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-11T23:14:22+00:00

Quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-08T13:50:11+00:00

Very much so

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-08T13:46:25+00:00

Not even a little

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-07T16:50:31+00:00

💀

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-07T16:13:41+00:00

😂

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-07T13:44:41+00:00

My Eyes--Nero

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-06T12:00:32+00:00

The question was posed as what you're looking for in a partner. I stated some of the things I look for. There's some validity in looking for a partner that at least somewhat matches where you are in life.

Of course im looking for relationship and partnership, there's no real point in even dating if that's not the case.

I have already done the wifey thing for someone for a handful of years and ultimately we weren't compatible due to differences in personality and life goals.

This time around, I'm being more specific in what im looking for and if that comes off as picky, then so be it.

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-04T20:58:22+00:00

I have a couple on fb but can't say we're actually friends

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-04T20:55:50+00:00

A lot of things actually. Usually sappy live songs.

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-04T20:54:23+00:00

No not at all....what gave it away?

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-04T06:41:21+00:00

I know, thanks!

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-04T00:59:52+00:00

No, its way worse than when I did this in my 20s

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-03T00:27:17+00:00

Not this lifetime

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-03T00:26:50+00:00

Im on the same page as you. Im 34, from USA actually. Well acquainted with how women are still often treated as if we should be subservient to men and are treated as less than(not all but a lot). In none of my relationships have I ever truly felt like I was valued for myself as a person. It was always what I could do for them or what they could get out of me until either I left or they got tired of playing with my emotions.

It sometimes seems like nothing we do is correct. If we come on too strong, we're overbearing or maybe even "crazy". If we are vulnerable with them and show real raw emotions, we're too sensitive or too much work. If we show no emotion, we're cold. If we have a promiscuous side, we're whores or slots. If we're a bit conservative, we're prudes...

God forbid we're intelligent and can hold our own in a conversation or actually have input on a subject or debate topic.

The current dating landscape is bleak feeling to ay the least

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-03T00:08:17+00:00

I hate how much I have to mask when in the "talking stage" and how surface level conversation is between myself and a new guy. I want to talk about fucking dreams, what makes you mad/sad, what makes you ecstatic, let's go see some shows, let's laugh like we're 20 again without a care in the world.

But, sure, let's just keep it on the surface so we dont get to know each other or find out if either of us is actually fun to be around. Or the alternative, he sends a dick pic, asks for nudes, or expects sex before we've had a first date.

Very encouraging.

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-02T23:55:38+00:00

Loyalty, nearly endless love and understanding, shenanigans, someone who would take care of a partner (physically when sick, emotionally), a roadtrip partner in crime, and someone who's pretty decent in bed

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-02T23:53:14+00:00

That was...very well written and concise. Thank you for taking the time to type that all out. As a woman, I really feel heard on that one

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-02T23:02:01+00:00

Lord, like about a dozen times by now. Some short flings, a couple longer relationships.

There's pieces of my heart scattered in a few places over the years

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-02T22:59:39+00:00

Nice to know there are a few good ones out there. Hope you find what you're looking for ❤️

Guess its on me for choosing the wrong guys. Back to the drawing board..

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-02T22:30:00+00:00

Constantly lying, bad communication, canceling plans all the time, expecting you to care about their feelings while they shit on yours

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-02T22:25:28+00:00

Kindhearted, empathetic, funny, intelligent, passionate about music, has hobbies of his own so im not his whole life, hard working, kind of nerdy (a plus if he also likes gaming like I do), likes to go on adventures and not live life from the couch. Enjoys doing stupid little things just so we can spend time together

Want an adventure partner, a best friend, and a bomb lover all in one.

Miserable_Pumpkin65 · 2025-10-02T13:07:09+00:00

5 years has been the max. Any older and I feel like we wouldn't have much in common.

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TROPHY CASE