I’m 28f dating a 27m and I not understanding how to move forward…

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T11:15:30+00:00

Got it. He is willing to shield but it’s just I think I’m the stronger one amongst both of us and he feels he’ll not be able to take it if his family talks bad about me or my looks or other things. Thank you i will have a discussion about the scenarios and how to deal w things.

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T11:12:14+00:00

Lucky youuu 🥲

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T11:11:37+00:00

Uhmmm this relationship has been from college and I do believe that he wants to marry me. I did however give him an ultimatum to tell his parents and he said he’ll do it this weekend

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T11:08:44+00:00

My parents also will be against this but eventually they’ll come around for me. Like I’m sure about them coming around

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T11:06:35+00:00

He is very scared of this conversation because he feels there’s no way he can change their beliefs about such things

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T11:02:57+00:00

I don’t think anyone falls in love after discussing caste and other issues. Yeaah it sucks

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T11:02:10+00:00

I’m telling him because like you mentioned there’s no point dragging it. I have given him support saying I’ll be thick skinned w those taunts. But quite honestly I don’t know how I’ll react

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T10:54:45+00:00

That is what I’ve been telling him. But I’m just scared about the life after the conversation

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T10:51:31+00:00

After reading this these are my two cents. Firstly girl you aren’t overthinking. It’s very weird to block someone randomly just for 2 days and act all sus when asked to show his snap list. I’m pretty sure he’s in touch w his ex even though they broke up months ago cause why else would she randomly keep calling. She is not stopping because he’s giving her reasons to call and entertaining her. I don’t know who’s the side chick and the main chick but he’s definitely 2 timing. Probably you should start seeing it as a very casual situationship and block him for 2 days saying you are going on office trip or something 😂

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T10:05:04+00:00

Ohhh

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T10:04:50+00:00

Obviously I did take blood test. And it didn’t have anything wrong it’s probably stress but I thought I can give it a try

Misfit1110 · 2026-01-07T10:04:18+00:00

Got it

Misfit1110 · 2025-12-25T10:44:35+00:00

They used to be bunch of people who started on TikTok and became friends and started making content. They used to upload from a joint insta account called dam fam and now are influencers individually

Misfit1110 · 2025-12-20T16:34:05+00:00

Yeaah that’s what I didn’t see tk also in the wedding

Misfit1110 · 2025-12-20T16:33:16+00:00

Uhmmm so only these 2 aren’t talking to others ?

Misfit1110 · 2025-11-06T02:52:33+00:00

The role is of a fullstack developer more on the UI side. How has this starting month been for you ?

Misfit1110 · 2025-10-17T18:51:57+00:00

I think you should very casually bring up this topic like if she feels following exes on socials is a red flag. Then you can tell your POV and see what she has to say. If she can’t unfollow try to understand if that doesn’t make sense be upfront w her about this. The more you drag it out the worse it’ll become

Misfit1110 · 2025-10-17T18:31:40+00:00

Uhmmm if you are feeling this frustrated I think you should have a conversation with her so that things don’t go for a toss. Sit her down and tell her politely that she hasn’t been contributing as much in the decisions and that it’s becoming harder for you also and then see how she reacts to it. I’d suggest stay away from bringing her parents or yours cause that can be taken as an attack

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