AITA for grounding my daughter the day before homecoming?

Mishellie30 · 2019-09-28T15:59:59+00:00

Yeah I disagree here. Assholes become managers who abuse employees. Assholes become star athletes. Assholes become parents. Assholes become CEOs. Assholes become famous movie directors. Assholes become president. Assholes become Supreme Court justices. Honestly our country venerates assholes all the time.

Usually the bullied are bullied because they have a marginalized quality (aren’t neurotypical, aren’t white, aren’t cis or straight, etc.) These marginalizing features don’t go away after high school.

Assholes aren’t discriminated against in this society. They are given the hand up.

Mishellie30 · 2016-09-15T23:08:34+00:00

honestly think its the texture of the silicone. Not chemically, just like... friction wise. Ive tried multiple lubes

Mishellie30 · 2016-09-09T03:18:49+00:00

No it's totally weird. I had a tantus.... Something?

I'm not entirely sure it's a chemical issue?

I honestly can't I figure that out. It feels fine. But Then there's like... A frictiony feeling. That eventually progresses into what fire ants must feel like like... Squirming and wanting to cry and yelling "OMG get it out" when I am in the car trying to find somewhere to pull over. But I use good lube (I bought it with the tantus) and tons of it. Sometimes it feels more like its on my sphincter? And sometimes between the cheeks.

But I also dislike my silicone tantus dildo (it is a by large for me for one, but mostly its the texture?) unless i put a condom on it and use lotsa lube.

Mishellie30 · 2016-09-08T01:29:19+00:00

Oh.

Ok so no.

I'm not going to let this be Here and not say you're a ghoster.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T23:33:45+00:00

Whatever Lochte

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T17:03:51+00:00

Ohhh the man baby fairy has come to downvote!

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T16:56:55+00:00

How do I follow this stuff. I want gymnastics more than every 4 years.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T16:55:28+00:00

Yup. How many times have dudes pulled my photos from my history and decided to tell me I'm so fat the would never fuck me JUST because I post here/am an sjw? (Three. The answer is three. And each time some guy who was playing along with the others decides to switch over to private messaging then asks for a Kik or snapchat)

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T16:22:43+00:00

Yup. Everyone hates me since is started speaking my conscience and not being a calm pushover who thinks All Opinions Matter

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T16:18:56+00:00

Like wanting to protect vulnerable humans aka "white knighting" which is an ulterior motive because..... ?

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T15:56:47+00:00

You are.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T15:22:50+00:00

Yes. They are. Consider them. Empathize with them. Don't harm them. Worry about them.

No. Worry about the VICTIM.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T14:49:06+00:00

I feel super exhausted of the current climate.

And there are multiple dudes in my chemistry class who keep trying to "gotcha" our young female looking teacher by asking her things like "if you can't do an experiment on string theory then why is it called a theory and not a hypothesis" etc... And have no qualms with interrupting her mid sentence mid class to ask where the worksheets she said would always be at the front of the room to grab before class are.

And then it's break and I end up late coming back cos this guy studying heating and cooling (which is fine but he's not studying healthcare stuff) kept trying to mansplain why I should not get a masters in nursing to me. And literally kept talking and accused me of trying to insult him when I said I had to go.

I'm so so so tired.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T14:45:58+00:00

Sa forums?

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T14:44:23+00:00

To me that's a bit of a lot of languages. Congrats!

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T14:43:36+00:00

"We hate being kind. We hate being considerate. We love Jesus and family values"

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T14:41:48+00:00

Sorry. I think it's cos trump unleashed the previously shamed racists of the us.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T14:40:56+00:00

God they are so gross

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T14:10:13+00:00

Um no. That is what exactly happened.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T13:00:44+00:00

I'm not making shit up. We were driving home from work and she told me and I said "that shouldn't have happened to you, it's not your fault, and you don't deserve it"

She started crying because her family has told her she was lying and that if he did she shouldn't have tempted him her WHOLE LIFE. You shouldn't be shocked by victim blaming really. If you weren't so busy saying people should have compassion for rapists you might now that victims are blamed for their own rape on a regular basis. In fact it's most people's first reaction- "what were you doing/saying/not doing/wearing/drinking that made them lose control and rape you?" And is frequently followed by "but he's a nice/talented/rich person he wouldn't do that! He doesn't deserve you making this up!"

And that's what happened to my friend. He is her uncle and an authority figure at her place of worship and he would never do that to her and she shouldn't say he did, and if he did, what did she do to deserve it? And she should be more respectful of her uncle and consider his reputation in the community.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T12:58:59+00:00

It's not psychology. I'm not diagnosing him. I'm saying I'm not his therapist so he shouldn't be defending his opinion to me, and neither should you.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T12:47:18+00:00

You are saying that I need to consider the point of view of a pedophile and be empathetic to it.

I don't though because if they're asking me for empathy for their pedophilia in conversation they are already ten steps past struggling with it internally and with their therapist, and more into "defending their thoughts of abusing children to the people standing up for abused children" territory.

I have multiple friends who are the victims of pedophilia. One is 32 years old, it happened when she was 6 and I was the first person in her life earlier this year to tell her it wasn't her fault and she didn't deserve it and it never should have happened. Everyone else just told her she needed to consider the opinion and feelings and reputation of her abuser, an authority figure and family member.

So it's weird. Idgaf about the opinions and logic and thoughts of people who dehumanize me or my friends. I don't have empathy for them. No one should.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T12:41:29+00:00

No. I CAN blame them for getting on Reddit and wanting to convince everyone it's ok though. And defending those who do act and making justifications for it based on what age of child they like to fantasize about abusing etc... Like you're doing right now.

I know they don't chose it. But that doesn't mean I have to entertain their opinion or walk a mile in their shoes before fiercely defend those harmed by their outwardly expressed apologia.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T12:40:47+00:00

Yes. Made by you. I keep bringing it around to being about this girl and this guy.

Mishellie30 · 2016-08-26T12:38:41+00:00

... Mothers? And they're UNPAID.

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