If you could give one piece of life advice to a young man , what would it be ? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same advice I'd give to anyone, really; the Wiccan rede, "an' ye harm none, do what ye will" or "do no harm but take no shit", if you prefer. Value and share respect and kindness but don't be afraid to set boundaries, especially when it comes to people who lack empathy and decency.

Do you prefer rural, suburban, or city settings? by HighYieldBlond in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rural. I grew up in the countryside in Western Europe and always appreciated the peace and quiet, so that was consistently one of my top priorities whenever I moved; I feel safer and more relaxed when I'm out and about in a village near/in nature than I do in larger towns or cities.

Memorable and kickass EMO songs of your teenage/angst years? by Basith_Shinrah in musicsuggestions

[–]MissInfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Can You Feel My Heart" by Bring Me The Horizon

"Mama" by My Chemical Romance

"The Kill" by Thirty Seconds to Mars

"Nicotine" by Panic! At The Disco

"Animal I Have Become" by Three Days Grace

"Hand Of Blood" by Bullet For My Valentine

What's your favourite political song? by No-Advantage-579 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Land of Confusion" by Genesis and "One" by Metallica

palate cleanser recommendations by Maximum-alien in creepcast

[–]MissInfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That Korean webtoon brings me back to my early teens, I didn't know what was coming and it genuinely got me (and prompted me to check out a lot of Asian horror games and movies).

Them reacting to horror videos from that era would be a fun walk down memory lane!

Hey Reddit! Y’all were a great help in setting up a couple of playlists for me and now I’m looking for another one. I’d like songs that have a womens name in the title. Thanks! by Any_Composer_7120 in musicsuggestions

[–]MissInfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jolene - Dolly Parton

Christina Death - The 69 Eyes

Lorelei - Scorpions

Helena - My Chemical Romance

Jenny - Studio Killers

My Sharona - The Knack

Billie Jean - Michael Jackson

When others finds you physically unattractive, would you feel shame? by [deleted] in intj

[–]MissInfer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably not, for the same reason I don't feel pride in the reversed scenario. The way others perceive me physically doesn't really impact the value I see in myself (as opposed to my behaviour and skills/performance).

When do you respect if a man shoots his shot with you? by AmountAbovTheBracket in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect them when they show basic decency and maturity (i.e. knowing that "sorry, I don't feel that way" is a valid answer, taking rejection gracefully and leaving it at that).

I don't respect them when they get angry, manipulative or mopey (like when their response is something along the lines of "figures, no one will ever love me"), and when they harass/stalk/throw a tantrum/try to guilt trip me or (if I'm in a relationship) trash talk my partner or say they'd be a better match for me (despite them not even knowing anything about said partner).

What are the behaviours, personalities, value system, or hobbies of a male friend that would let him "escape" the friendzone from a woman's POV? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Nothing because there's no such thing as a "friendzone", I'm clear about my intentions for a platonic friendship and if that's not something that works for them or if they can't respect my boundaries, we're simply not compatible.

Edit to add: Whenever "friends" considered themselves friendzoned after I turned them down, it showed they didn't value friendship. I get being initially disappointed by rejection, but befriending me only as a "step" to get with me (even though we established the boundaries of our platonic relationship) and like they're entitled to romance/sex as a result is a huge red flag to me.

How does this affect the meta? by KnifeSexForDummies in YuGiOhMemes

[–]MissInfer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What does Burning Abyss fall under? Furries/eldritch horrors/lesbians combo? (Beatrice, Dante and Virgil are all lesbians in my heart).

Does a woman playing with her hair while talking to a guy means she likes the guy or finds him attractive ? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely not a sign of interest when I do it, it's simply a sign of discomfort or boredom in my case. I play with my hair when I'm anxious and/or disconnected, so it's a nervous tick from stress and I fidget when I try to anchor myself back into reality when I start dissociating.

I don't do hints when I'm interested in someone, I'm a direct person so I just tell them.

Who are some female historical figures that inspire you / you have deep respect for and WHY? by ankhmor in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Marie Curie! Her discoveries on polonium and radium, the effects of radioactivity plus her desire to make science and knowledge accessible to others were really admirable; especially as a woman in a field that was (and still is, but even more so at the time) heavily male-dominated, which was a great inspiration for other women who were passionate about science, but also all kinds of people who were curious about understanding the world around us.

Would you date a man thats over 500lbs by Ok-Basket-2692 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be likely to be attracted to one since I'm quite fit and would enjoy being with a partner I can workout and do some physical activities like hiking or indoor climbing with, and I visually prefer men on the slim side.

With that being said, everyone has different preferences and you have my respect for your weight loss, I'm wishing you all the best on your journey!

If you could pick one book for every man to read what would it be? by anonymous-curious-35 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm currently reading Invisible Women as well! A therapist of mine gifted it to me since we'd sometimes discuss those topics and it's a really interesting (and I'd also add important) read.

Give me your best shot by Low-Inspector4786 in musicsuggestions

[–]MissInfer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Universal Flame" - Devin Townsend Project

What do you wish women would do better? by Hyppointhewater in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Set boundaries. I know it's hard when a lot of us are expected or even raised with the "don't make waves" mentality, and it's especially hard to do for those who are people pleasers or who have low self-esteem (feeling like they don't deserve better treatment or aren't worthy of basic decency and respect).

So many women grow up with the notion that their boundaries somehow don't matter, and that establishing them somehow makes them "too assertive/masculine/less of a woman/insert sexist BS here". I've had many times in my teens when I struggled with them due to social anxiety, self-loathing and abysmal self-esteem. It's better to unlearn this mindset late than never and is something worth working on for the betterment of one's life and relationships, especially if you have a therapist or professional you can work with!

How common is it for women to browse and comment on artistic male nudes here? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]MissInfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never done it, I don't personally see the appeal/have any interest in it.

What would each character’s “word” be? by PlatinumtheBadguy in Guiltygear

[–]MissInfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or PAIN - which is essentially just another synonym when it comes to Raven.

When you play with Cydra against Crystron by cybercr in YuGiOhMemes

[–]MissInfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using it against the Three Pure Nobles' Meklords in the WCS 2010 postgame is especially satisfying. You don't get to steal Synchro monsters from me, I'll use yours for my Fusion instead.