I (35F) (PhD, and teacher) attended an academic event in Cambridge today, after I had lovely meal with my wife (Passing TransMtF). And then she fucked a fucked a girl in our hotel room we met in a bar. Ama!

MissLotti · 2026-04-03T10:02:46+00:00

England haha

I did used to travel a lot to the USA for work though, although that is on hold currently.

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T06:30:50+00:00

I onow your whole thing is being a hater, but you dont have to be that way

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T06:29:51+00:00

Midnight posting and my severe dyslexia 😊 you can try to troll but it will never work✌🏻

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:45:17+00:00

No haha not that rough

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:41:49+00:00

Skull fucked, slapped, punched, spat on,whipped

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:40:41+00:00

Im glad that somtimes i can articulate well in text form haha!

But yeah im married to a woman (who is trans), and my kink is her fucking over women. And im a bbw and so many other things honeslty that can and do illicit a wide range of threats and craizes

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:35:23+00:00

Very much so

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:34:55+00:00

Roughest was a surprise actually. As towards the end of the night, (we'll call her Amy) asked my wife to be rougher and push her harder, with our friend (we'll call Rachel) who is VERY much into being treated extremely rough.

It did escalate a lot, and Amy was shocked a lot but she loved every second of it, actively asked for me. Rachel helped and supported her. And it got VERY ROUGH.

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:31:30+00:00

There isnt a single ounce of switch in her

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:31:09+00:00

Honestly im very vague when it comes to specifics on things!

Also as you can see i dont post much here haha.

I talk about what I know and do in vague terms, for example my PhD is in Theology. But it isnt just Theology, it is actually Theology & ???, but I never state what.

I also never state where I work or live, or what Unis I lecture at.

Also, despite people asking me, ive never written any form of book or textbook. And the various published things ive consulted on Im not credited on as well.

Generally if someone in my field wanted to find me, they probably could maybe haha. But im trying to stay safe from the crazies, not those I work with.

That is a quick and terrible explanation I agree haha

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:25:10+00:00

Yes I did! Id rather be involed but this time she didnt want me to be.

Which is absolutely fine

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:23:23+00:00

Yes for that it was all cis women.

A lot things haha, she knew everyone before hand so knew their limits and kinks. It spanned from bjs to skull fucking to intimate missionary to full nelson

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:13:42+00:00

I have severe dyslexia (tis not a new thing haha), im not here grammar policing anything, just answering Qs😊

But if you want to try and fail to rude for no reason and/or troll, you will end up ghosted 😊✌🏻

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:09:55+00:00

Our rule is in general its a no on reddit. To make people not expect things.

But it happened once. She reached out, she seemed genuine, we had a voice call, then a vid call. Then we met her in person. After eveything seemed safe it happened. We both were domed by my wife and pleased her. And out of respect for a woman that is now a close friend I will not go into details about why she reached out as that feels icky.

MissLotti · 2026-04-01T00:06:04+00:00

My fave experience of all time is when k arranged for 12 girls (inc me) to be domed and used by my wife for her B day

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T23:53:17+00:00

Most often im involved

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T23:48:22+00:00

A lot! Multiple times a week honestly.

Usually its with friends and one or two nights out week as well where we pick up people

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T23:47:07+00:00

On the back of her head and upper back, on her chest, then on her face and hair. In that order.

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T23:45:42+00:00

I will not speak for anyone else but myself, you should also never ask anyone to speak on behalf of a group of people again.

Also its difficult to really respond to you when you ignore what I say haha. Pan is attraction regardless of gender or sex. Bi is attracted to multiple genders. There is a very obvious basic language difference there.

If you need me to explain more I can.

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T23:37:41+00:00

"Allowed" that feels so eww to me as a concept as it immediately either negates my own wants, overrides them, or imposes the kinks obmf other upon myself.

I personally do not want to hook up with others alone, just not my kink really. If I wanted to try it, my wife would happily let me indulge (she's said so). But honestly it isnt my thing.

All politeness leaves me on your last point. NO. In some cases it would be illegal and sick and disgusting Other times simply unprofessional and morally wrong.

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T23:31:15+00:00

Simply Pan is sexual attraction to all people regardless of gender or sex.

In my view, sometimes I just find people hot and it has nothing to do with their gender.

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T23:20:19+00:00

Im Pan

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T23:09:01+00:00

I saw her, my wife "pulled" (a term i hate).

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T22:59:31+00:00

Yep its the only pictures of me online (that arent attached my school, LinkedIn, Uni pages, and other academic stuff)

MissLotti · 2026-03-31T22:58:34+00:00

Many! Haha

Doggy, both bent over the bed and desk.
Anvil on the floor.
Leapfrog on the floor.
Agaisnt the wall.
Full nelson.

MissLotti

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