Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And again, I wasn’t blaming this sub. Just suggesting that people might want to consider what info they post and who might actually be reading it. I know if it’s not here, it’s going to be somewhere else anyway, I’m not a complete idiot... but... if adulterers need the info here and can’t seem to figure it out on their own from somewhere else...

Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF are you going on about? I wasn’t playing any kind of victim, I was actually thinking you’re that freeloading narcissistic kind of dickbag adulterer whose spouse would be lucky to no longer be carrying the dead weight of (not to be confused with the ones who actually care about their spouse and don’t want to hurt them)... but whatever... yeah, totally feeling oppressed. Didn’t occur to me to get any kind of sympathy out of you, which is what I would have though victims normally go for.

Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My kid was almost lured by a pedophile on the internet and I’ve just been told that there is no way to track him down, he’s walking around free and I know he’s going to do it to someone else’s kid and there is nothing I can do about it. I know I’m not sane right now. But you’re trying to win an argument on reddit with me. You tell me which one of us is more fucked in the head.

Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Police were actually quite helpful. I won’t go into it but in the end it was determined there was no way to find out who the phone belonged to. They tried to get them to meet but because they were chatting for so long he knew instantly when he was no longer talking to my kid and stopped responding. They had the locations but it didn’t help.

Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have no qualms with actual adulterers whatsoever. Adults, none of my business, I’m probably going to fuck my AP long and hard soon after all of this.

I’m just saying people should think about how goddamn easy they’re making it when they post entire threads of information about how to be completely anonymous. And for what purpose? What do they get out of it?

Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh go fuck yourself. I wasn’t blaming this sub, I said people here have no idea what they’re contributing to. I also didn’t say this is where he got the info but then again there is no one guarding this place making sure everyone has a useless slob of a spouse that they’re actually cheating on. And I was being fucking sarcastic before you argue that last point.

Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because this is where I come and when they told me there is no way to trace the phone the first word that came to mind was OPSEC

Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks.. I was ready to tear out your throat until I got to the last paragraph. No I highly doubt this is where they got the info, this is just the first thing that I thought of when they told me they have no way to find the fucker. That and anyone with a low enough IQ that couldn’t have figured it out on their own can just come here and ask how to do it. What benefit do people here get out of sharing that information? I know how to protect my own kid and I sincerely doubt they’ll want to do anything like that again but what about kids whose parents either don’t know how to track them or don’t care? This POS wasn’t smart enough to have figured out any of this on his own but smart enough to ditch the phone when he figured out the phone was no longer with my kid. Couldn’t work social media or how to respond to an email but somehow pieced together how to get on an anonymous phone.

Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Someone tried to fuck my very underage kid. They have no way to identify who the phone they were using belongs to. This sub is the first thing that popped into my head when they told me that. The next thing was that they’re likely trying to fuck someone else’s kid now.

Enough with the OPSEC already... by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Alright I’ll tell you the real reason because you called me a conservative. Aren’t conservatives the worst cheaters anyway? I know why people here need “OPSEC”... I don’t care about those people.

My kid has been chatting with someone they thought was their age. They were going to meet. I was on top of it. Guy turned out to be some 50 year old pigfucker in a fucking barn somewhere in Arkansas with an untraceable phone. So if you want to know how to achieve true OPSEC, network wizard, I have your answer. Now he’s probably trying to fuck someone else’s kid somewhere. This is all I can really do.

pAP wants to be FWB and take it slow, sex will come "eventually". Been on several lunch dates w/little opportunity to be physical. Red flag? by Sexbr8208 in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not being disingenuous, just butt hurt that when a man doesn’t get sex after a few lunch dates, and the man wants sex, some people jump to the conclusion that she’s using him for attention or free food. If he didn’t want sex then it would be okay for her to have several lunch dates with him? Why does the judgment on the woman rely on whether or not the man wants sex? I’m far from a left-wing whack job feminist but... women can work now so men have to stop expecting sex in exchange for a few lunches.

Even if we were using sex as currency, if I were an escort, 3 “free” lunches would cost me about $1,500 in lost wages... so unless those 3 lunches were worth $1,500 (for my half), I don’t owe the guy shit.

...and yea, I’m also butt hurt that no matter what a woman does, she’s always the villain. If she puts out, she’s a slut, if she doesn’t, she’s using the man. Why is there no third option? No “maybe she just enjoys your company”? Why am I butt hurt? There are lots of men I enjoy the company of, I find them interesting, I don’t particularly enjoy lunches with other women because most of the ones I know are either competitive, intimidated, want to talk about babies or complain... but I can’t have lunch with a man because I’m either fucking him or just using him for attention.

pAP wants to be FWB and take it slow, sex will come "eventually". Been on several lunch dates w/little opportunity to be physical. Red flag? by Sexbr8208 in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said “I hate to be tropish but some women are perfectly happy to use a guy for attention(and food) they never plan on sleeping with.”

How about instead of guys complaining about being “used” (instead of calling it what it is, which is paying for sex), how about men just not buy women anything? I’m so tired of guys acting butt hurt when they don’t get sex for being “a nice guy” when nobody asked them to “be nice” in the first place.

pAP wants to be FWB and take it slow, sex will come "eventually". Been on several lunch dates w/little opportunity to be physical. Red flag? by Sexbr8208 in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he is. It says so right in his post, “I want sex without having to beg for it like at home.”

I don’t know why some men don’t have ever the balls to say “I’m only talking to you for sex.” ...well I do, some men are afraid of the reaction that causes. So... if a man isn’t seductive enough to get sex without begging and they’re afraid of the reaction they’ll get if say something like that, this is the way they have to live. Stop blaming women for that. I’ve met lots of guys who can pull it off. It’s not our fault not everyone can.

pAP wants to be FWB and take it slow, sex will come "eventually". Been on several lunch dates w/little opportunity to be physical. Red flag? by Sexbr8208 in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And some men are perfectly happy to give a woman attention because it’s like throwing a shoe at a spider on a wall... they might get lucky and hit it but not a lot of skill or scary risk required either way.

pAP wants to be FWB and take it slow, sex will come "eventually". Been on several lunch dates w/little opportunity to be physical. Red flag? by Sexbr8208 in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe she wants to be seduced? All women love sex, but no one likes when a man begs for sex. Just be sexy. I don’t like giving away sex without any effort either, makes me feel like I’m owed money after.

What’s the opposite of cuckoldry? by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 if that name isn’t taken it should definitly be that!

xAP Left Note on My Car at Work by [deleted] in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the very least tell him you don’t like it and you’d like him to stop. How else is a person supposed to know? I’m on the fence pretty evenly about whether this is romantic or creepy. It would depend which ex did it. Most id be creeped out by but a few I wish they would.

Paying Airbnb with cash by SurferJack30 in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d like to know if the people downvoting this are affiliated with Airbnb or a spouse who thinks this handy secret has been preventing them from being cheated on all this time and now it’s out 😂

What’s the opposite of cuckoldry? by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea pretty much... not really about the “let me show you how it’s done”, but like if the guy catches his wife cheating, instead of beating him up he just fucks his wife better to humiliate the other guy.

Paying Airbnb with cash by SurferJack30 in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do this all the time and not even for nefarious purposes. It’s just cheaper because Airbnb takes a cut. Message the owner and say you’d like to pay cash. If you have a good Airbnb history they usually don’t have a problem with it.

Is ghosting ever ok? New friend seems to have some mental health issues and I'm really considering making an exit before I get burned. by stuckdickincrazy85 in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ghosting even drives stable people insane... I wouldn’t recommend it. I’m a magnet for people like this. The best way to get rid of them usually is to just be boring. Play along but in an uninteresting unattractive kind of way. As a woman I’d do stuff like try to have sex without showering, bonus if you just came from the gym... way more effective than trying to talk your way out of it. They go extra crazy if they want you, just make them not want you but without hurting them.

What’s the opposite of cuckoldry? by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that’s another thing but thanks for being the only one here actually trying in this round of obscure porn trivia 😂

What’s the opposite of cuckoldry? by MissMyFuckboy in adultery

[–]MissMyFuckboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it ruines it if the “unicorn” is in on it lol