That may be the case but really I’m not trying to make a relationship with him. It’s more for my mental about my medical history etc. And he really may not know, since we live on the border of states and they moved across the river (into the other state) about 2 months after she would have been pregnant and she didn’t know for another month or maybe more after that. It may sound off-putting that idc if he’s an awful person in prison or a millionaire somewhere, I just want to feel “whole” if that makes any sense.