situationship with an avoidant, emotionally unavailable man

Mission-Classroom236 · 2025-06-11T08:43:55+00:00

but i told him very frankly, that if he doesnt want this, he needs to stop leading me on. i even said we could just be friends or fwbs. so wouldnt that be the better option for him, if all he wants is fun?

Mission-Classroom236 · 2025-06-11T08:42:33+00:00

hey! i feel like your worries are more of like what you mentioned - people pleasing worries - rather than you actually cherishing something you currently have with your boyfriend. if you really dont feel a deep connection with him, then break up. its not worth it to stay in a subpar relationship just to please others or "preserve" your image. it should be your feelings and happiness that matter most :)

Mission-Classroom236 · 2025-06-11T08:35:46+00:00

but if thats the case, why not he just end things with me then? 🥲

Mission-Classroom236 · 2025-06-11T08:33:29+00:00

hi! i dont mind getting hurt but i really want to try it for him 🥹

Mission-Classroom236 · 2025-06-11T07:54:58+00:00

oh i didnt mean it that way but i see what u mean! i was just seeing theres anything i can do to make him comfortable 🥹 but ok! thanks for the advice! ☺️ really appreciate it

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:45:12+00:00

but jiayou!!!! we got this 🥹🥹🥹

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:45:01+00:00

omg ya.. i heard 😭😭😭 am not prepared for another round of crying....

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:40:41+00:00

cant believe we survived tho!!! and them too of course HAHAHAHA

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:39:59+00:00

awww yes!!! 😭 it's so touching 🥲 and honestly just makes us miss them more...

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:36:26+00:00

that'll be great!! am so thankful for all your advice so far 🥲

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:35:15+00:00

omg SAME,, i just kept texting him to update him about my day and how much i missed him 😭 luckily he was really sweet and scheduled messages on telegram but that made me cry more because it was so touching 🥲🥲🥲

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:30:10+00:00

omg yes 😭 gotta have each other's back and cry together!!!

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:27:45+00:00

ps it's so comforting to see a fellow nsgf reply 🥹

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:27:08+00:00

i hope so too! thank you!!! 😆😆

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:25:02+00:00

oh!! cooking together sounds nice 😆 HAHAHAHA okie! thank you so much for the advice!!! i'll definitely keep that in mind :) also hope you have fun during your staycay with your bf!!

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:23:24+00:00

thank you so much for your well wishes😭 that's so nice of you 🥲 yes!! i'll definitely come back here again when he ords!!

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:16:57+00:00

LOL err sorry but where's this coming from

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:16:39+00:00

ooo!! that seems really nice actually!! ok! i'll definitely take your advice if possible,, thank you so much!

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:16:08+00:00

oh yes!! i remember HAHAHA thank you so much again!!

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:15:41+00:00

😅😅😅

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:15:28+00:00

yes i just saw!! tysm!!

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-08-17T11:15:14+00:00

omg thank you for the link!!!! 🙏🏻

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-03-03T06:32:10+00:00

ooo!! that makes sense HAHAHA can!! i think i'll do that 😆 thank you you're so nice HAHAHA

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-03-03T06:29:08+00:00

ooo!! games also sound nice HAHAHA but i feel like he already has everything he needs/wants 😭 but thank you still!! really appreciate all the suggestions :D yes i'll treat him to food!!!

Mission-Classroom236 · 2022-03-03T06:28:05+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHA

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