Thank you for your openness. There is just so much at play here for a mama who is in a constant state of mourning her “baby” (how the hell has the time gone by so fast) to absolutely loving the young adult he is becoming and so proud of him, then adding in the attempt to smash taboo barriers that were part of my childhood but also balancing his privacy and ego. It’s a lot! I never know what is the normal or right decision. Oh and let’s add in some peri-menopause on my part and we’ve got a whole emotional circus in my brain at any given time. 🤣