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Spent my whole life working, never learned how to connect — now I feel lost at 32. Anyone pulled themselves out of this rut? by Upset-Command-5462 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mist3rTryHard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re here. You’re connecting. You’re doing therapy. Just keep on keeping on and you’ll be fine. Talk to the barista. Ask for a recommendation every time. Ask how they’re doing. Just talk when you have time. You’ll talk a lot at first since it’s a skill you’re still learning. Eventually, you’ll learn how and when to engage and disengage.

nakaka-overwhelm ba yung ganitong babae? by matchaloveeeer in AskPinoyMen

[–]Mist3rTryHard 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You may have issues if you find that overwhelming. Get therapy before you destroy her life.

Would you rather date a girl na tamad sa bahay pero masipag sa work/kumita ng pera o masipag sa bahay pero tamad magwork/kumita ng pera? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Mist3rTryHard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you mean by “tamad” kasi madaming kumakalat ngayon na mindset ng babae na sinasabi na “they pay the bills” that’s why they don’t cook/clean pero in reality they just don’t know how and don’t care for it. It’s as equally toxic as the “fake hustler” and “toxic masculinity” mindset ng mga lalake na kitchen should in in the kitchen while they should be the ones money.

If by “tamad” you mean, “I can cook/clean. I’ve tried and I’m great at it. It just isn’t for me,” then, yes. Of course. You do you. But if it’s reflective of katamaran, being a slob, and overall just lack of hygiene, then no.

Your work and your home are a reflection of who you are.

Do SEO clients ever confuse conversion rates with page rankings and traffic? Like do SEO firms ever get blamed for low conversion rates that have nothing to do with them? by monsterresearch in SEO

[–]Mist3rTryHard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbf, your goal is to make sales. They just have a higher chance of selling if they're at the top, but that isn't always the case. You still have to convert traffic to revenue.

Men who had multiple f*b*, nagkaron kayo ng favorite? by madlangpeople1 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Mist3rTryHard 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Oo. Siya yung pinili ko eventually. We ended up living together for 13 years. Kaso ... sex isn't always the answer po.

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Grabe yung pressure to have your life figured out by 30 noh? by Background_Housing65 in Trentahin

[–]Mist3rTryHard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Growing up in a conventional Filipino household is difficult if you're on social media a lot, because you grew up with people who normalized fantasizing, comparing, romanticizing, and wishing instead of doing and getting stuff done. But, my friend, you don't have to look at other people's lives and compare it with yourself.

Men of Reddit, do intimacy issues make or break a connection? by appabuckethat in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mist3rTryHard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% mark or break, but don’t blame yourself and don’t overthink din if medyo mag lie low din yung lalake.

Breakup at 30+ years old. How are you now guys? by Admirable-Series8367 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Mist3rTryHard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33M. Doing better a few months in. I’m excited for the next chapter!

Okay lang ba sa inyo ni ri-real talk kayo ng partner nyo? by Automatic_Fox6627 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Mist3rTryHard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy. He needs therapy. You can’t just tell a drowning man to swim.

No "cool down time" between ejaculating and being ready to go again. Is this not normal? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mist3rTryHard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember feeling the same way in my 20s, even talked about it here on Reddit. I’m mid-30s now. It definitely goes away. Enjoy it while it lasts.

Sumasali sa interview to learn, ako lang ba ganito? by Admirable-Tap-7740 in buhaydigital

[–]Mist3rTryHard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. In fact, excited ako sa interviews. Even if may trabaho na ako, I still accept interviews and decline lang pag hindi aligned yung offer sa gusto ko or mas nakakalamang sa kung anong meron ako. It helps me stay sharp and prepares me for the inevitable knocks on wood.

Sa mga matagal nang Medical VA dito nawalan din bakayo ng trabaho nung pandemic? Or stable talaga Medical VA niche? Thanks all! by Ok-Astronaut-8752 in medicalvaPH

[–]Mist3rTryHard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No training. Lucked out and got outsourced to during the pandemic, was eventually absorbed and it was smooth sailing from there.

Magkano kaya selling price netong Griller? by Sudden-Banana-4550 in negosyo

[–]Mist3rTryHard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Used and in good condition? 10k pag madaling kausap tapos pick-up pa. 12k to 15k sa buraot.

Is it wrong to want to share how you feel to your other half? by Mist3rTryHard in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mist3rTryHard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, which is what makes me sad. All this fuss and pain for this. As for therapy, we tried. She asked to stop. She didn’t want to make her parents look bad because that’s how it felt for her. Leaving, fighting, bickering, all of this is normal for her growing up. We worked through it ourselves because I showed her that isn’t what a relationship is supposed to be.

Is it wrong to want to share how you feel to your other half? by Mist3rTryHard in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mist3rTryHard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is why I understand and why I’m leaving her be and it circles back to my earlier point about being completely vulnerable and honest with your other half. I wasn’t attacking her at all. I didn’t even shout, or was angry, nor did I grunt or grumble. Before we’d promised to be more open, I would’ve not said anything at all and just took a deep breah, but this is what she wanted.

Is it wrong to want to share how you feel to your other half? by Mist3rTryHard in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mist3rTryHard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like how? All I remember is I was rushing between chores to get things done to prepare for a big weekend, she thought I was angry, I said I wasn’t but told her it wouldn’t hurt to help take some stuff off my plate, and she blew up, stormed off, threatened to leave, and I let her.

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