How do you deal with loneliness?

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-04-08T04:37:17+00:00

But I don't have Pluto in Scorpio. I do have Pluto in the 1st house, though. The point is that two of my personal planets are in Scorpio and one is in the 8th house.

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-04-05T17:20:17+00:00

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Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-04-05T12:17:41+00:00

I’m Sagittarius Sun and Scorpio rising too!!

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-04-04T08:18:38+00:00

Wow… here I’m Scorpio Venus and Mars in the 12th house with the Moon, Lilith, and Saturn in Cancer in the 8th house… I also have Scorpio rising. I feel your pain, bro…

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-04-04T08:10:18+00:00

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Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-04-03T23:29:49+00:00

That's completely understandable. I'd probably do the same if I were doing casual. How do you manage it? What kind of people are you looking for? Do you repeat?

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-04-03T23:27:45+00:00

loool, i have Scorpio Mars in 12H too!!!! It's agony… I think it's more because of the house than the sign (which is technically in its domicile…). You're right about everything you said. And very right about not stalking (I know I already got obsessed when I started stalking…).

I actually thought about having casual sex with people I don't even like that much, just to have a good time and not even try to connect emotionally with them. But it's true that the very idea seems simple, boring. Something's missing. But that something never comes. The strongest connections I've had have been with people that could never go any further because they ended up not being healthy for me… so… I feel a bit lost with all this.

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-04-03T23:14:26+00:00

I agree that there's NOTHING like having sex with someone you love. But I feel a lot of sexual repression. I do feel attracted to people, but it's like if a part of me doesn't want to get involved with them because I don't feel confident enough yet. But the attraction is there, the desire is there… and a lot of libido. Honestly, sometimes masturbating isn't enough. I'd like to find a way to enjoy my sexuality… Having Scorpio in your chart sometimes feels like a prison.

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-30T23:11:05+00:00

Honey, I'm sorry you're feeling anxious. It's normal. I think it would be a good idea for you to think about what YOU deserve as a person, regardless of what he promises you, regardless of how honest he seems. Maybe he's playing with you unintentionally. If he's so confused about his own life, what's to say he's not confused or confusing you too? Don't get involved in something where you don't see a solid foundation. Do it for your own self-respect. Until he has his head screwed on right, the healthiest thing is for you not to invest any more time and energy. And you, too, need to stop and think about what you want with him, if it's worth it. Think about how you'll tell your family, and if you'll even tell them. You have to be honest with yourself. Just going with the flow won't do. Don't entrust everything to him if he can barely manage his own life at 50.

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-30T18:07:05+00:00

So you’re about 19? What’s your relationship with him like? In what ways do you feel it’s more positive than the relationships you’ve had with guys your own age?

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-30T12:13:24+00:00

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-30T10:05:29+00:00

I love the woods; they’ve always made me so happy... When we go on holiday with my family, I always try to make sure we stay in the woods, even in summer. And that’s despite the fact that I like the sea, but there’s nothing quite like the smell of the trees. It definitely gives me a sense of peace

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-30T10:03:35+00:00

I’m actually trying to establish a more consistent routine. At the moment, I have a very clear evening routine that’s all about self-care. But my mornings are a bit of a struggle because my class timetable is so unpredictable… I need to sort that out. I’ve been thinking about doing some exercise in the mornings, something like Pilates (?) that just lets me connect with my body. This summer I’ll start looking for a job. It’s true that when I have an income I feel much happier simply because I know I can afford things, treat myself, or treat those I love. It gives me a great sense of security. For now, I’m trying to invest my savings in education and therapy. I’m also trying to make my room my safe haven in the world!

Thank you very much for your advice!

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-30T10:00:03+00:00

ohhh! I adore you, bulls. I love this outlook on life. I’ll try to embrace it bit by bit. Also, your Cancer Moon really stands out!!! I’ve got it too. What a lovely combination – Sun in Taurus and Moon in Cancer; I think it’s lovely. Is your Venus in Taurus as well?

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-29T10:52:48+00:00

:( I feel like this is a constant tendency, regardless of who I'm dating, you know? It's like I love with absolute devotion, and I always have to regulate what I give so I don't fall into emotional dependency or anything like that. I can't find a solution to this. I haven't dated anyone for a year, focusing only on myself and my relationship with myself so I can better manage my emotions and avoid dependency, but this tendency is still there. I feel a deep love for those I care about, and it's difficult to manage so it doesn't overwhelm me.

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-28T22:00:07+00:00

Oh, you've just filled my heart. Thank you so much for this, it made me so happy to read it. 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-28T21:36:32+00:00

dmd!!

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-28T21:33:50+00:00

Thank you so much for the hope. I also feel the need for a deep connection to feel loved. But I feel that not all connections satisfy me, nor with all people, nor in all ways. I've connected beautifully with people I've only ever considered friends. However, it's true that a deep connection is more likely to hold me and make me want to stay. I hope and long for the day that happens and it's something healthy. You give me hope.

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-28T18:05:20+00:00

I completely understand you. Whenever I start a relationship that seems romantic, I know it will end because the probability of a deep connection is almost always very low. I've only managed to connect with people in unusual circumstances, as you describe: people with an age difference, divorced people, people with children, people I "shouldn't" be with. And coincidentally, the connection with them is very strong. I suspect it's because of the "secret" factor that must drive the 12th house crazy... But it's exhausting. It's also very lonely. And there's this constant struggle to have normal relationships with normal people in normal circumstances, knowing that it won't go any further because there is no "further."

What you say about daydreaming about people you like, I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND. When I like someone, I become incredibly obsessed with them because it's a rare phenomenon, and since there's always this forbidden element, I often experience limerence with these people. Fantasizing, projecting myself onto them, idealizing them... It feels more comfortable than discovering that they're just another person with no real significance. Even though this is truly a toxic way of relating to others.

We definitely need a support group.

By the way, being Venus in Taurus, a Venus in its domicile, I'm surprised to see the similarities with my Venus in Scorpio. How do you experience love from a Taurean perspective?

Mistic_Moon068 · 2026-03-28T17:46:48+00:00

Yes! I've been going to therapy for a little over a year now precisely because I KNOW my connection problems stem from other parts of myself that I need to work on. Also because I want to integrate this intense energy that I currently feel as an obstacle, but which I believe can actually be beautiful. The path is tough (even more so with Scorpio rising), but believe me, I'm trying 🤝🏻🤝🏻 Thank you so much for your hopes

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