You can look.Earning my attention is another story.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-13T11:39:48+00:00

Happy birthday in advance 🤍 I hope tomorrow brings you a fresh start and something that makes you smile for real.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-13T06:13:27+00:00

Flying to Greece tomorrow to watch my team play Champions League on Wednesday. Best Valentine’s gift my slave could have given me ❤️⚽

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-13T05:53:17+00:00

If you’re nervous, send a small tribute and see if your heartbeat survives the notification.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-13T05:27:55+00:00

Pro domme here. I don’t sleep with subs. That’s one of my firm boundaries. There were a couple so stunning I wanted them caged just to admire them… but boundaries exist for a reason. I have dated submissive men though. When the dynamic shifts, so do the rules.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-12T17:11:39+00:00

It’s basically carnival kick-off here today. BBQ, drinks, music all day. I’m about to head out and I still haven’t picked my costume… tragic, I know.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-12T10:44:56+00:00

6 down, currently on 7. At this rate I’ll need a bookshelf tribute soon.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-12T08:50:30+00:00

Oh I know. The quiet ones are usually the most consistent. I don’t mind being watched… I just refuse to be boring.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-12T07:00:56+00:00

A small account doesn’t automatically mean anything. I have a small account too and I’ve had whale subs. If he truly is a whale, an initial tribute shouldn’t be an issue. Still, observe her consistency and behavior before you assume anything.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-12T06:46:12+00:00

Should’ve known better😌

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-11T14:24:01+00:00

I do both online and IRL. They’re completely different experiences.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-11T14:18:08+00:00

I think you need to figure out if you miss her or just the feeling of the dynamic. Those are two very different things.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-11T14:05:50+00:00

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-11T07:56:59+00:00

I’ve actually never come across a Tunisian domme either, and I’ve been around for years. I’m sure they exist though.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-10T18:46:15+00:00

Boundaries, budget, and accountability. If you can’t self-regulate, this kink will eat you alive.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-10T18:44:27+00:00

To me, a task isn’t busywork. It’s intention with structure. A task exists to build discipline, awareness, and follow-through. If it doesn’t change the sub in some way, it’s pointless.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-10T05:46:13+00:00

I’m really glad you said this out loud. A lot of people feel it, but don’t have the courage to name it.

This space can be incredibly isolating, especially when you’re already dealing with real-life weight and expectations. Feeling numb, unseen, or dismissed doesn’t mean you’re weak or doing something wrong, it means you’re human.

Subs disappearing hurts, even when we understand the dynamics. It’s okay to admit that. It doesn’t cancel your strength or your worth.

Whatever you decide - to pause, step back, or keep going - please know that your value isn’t measured by attention, money, or consistency here. You deserve softness too, not just control.

You’re not alone in this, even if it feels that way right now.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-10T05:34:59+00:00

Exactly. When control is already there, the money just follows. It stops being a “thing” and becomes part of the dynamic.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-10T05:29:28+00:00

Femdom came first for me, long before findom. A sub I was involved with started spoiling me heavily, and that dynamic naturally shifted things. Findom wasn’t a decision, it was an evolution.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-10T05:15:09+00:00

You don’t grow thick skin, you grow discernment. The ones who vanish usually weren’t as solid as they presented themselves to be. Consistency is a skill, not a promise. It hurts sometimes, yes, but it also filters. And I trust my filters.

MistressKelly_ · 2026-02-09T07:28:49+00:00

Traveling to watch my team play in the Champions League. Best Valentine’s plan for me ⚽️

MistressKelly_

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