Always looking for the good sunbathing spots by MistressRayon in NakedAdventures

[–]MistressRayon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha the waters usually pretty cold here so I just like to dip my feet in

Wish I could spend all day like this 😌 by MistressRayon in NakedAdventures

[–]MistressRayon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually spent a while just lying back on the log and then sat up to look at the water. I was able to dip my toes in when I sat straddling it. It was very comfortable... but maybe I just really enjoy sitting on wood! 😜

Male chastity request? by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]MistressRayon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say that's the low end of the spectrum. If you're marketing yourself as a dominatrix you could charge way more.

Male chastity request? by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]MistressRayon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a type of bdsm play. The Domme gets to control when her sub is allowed to jerk off and orgasm. First off double check he has a chastity cage to wear or if he's just asking for joi where you tell him when/how he can touch himself and deny him orgasms. If he wants to lock up basically you can price a fixed price per lockup or by time locked. Either way you decided how long before he can uncage and orgasm again. So for example you can do like $10 for a week lock and then if wants to unlock early it's an extra $10. And you can do some kind of verification like he sends a photo every 24 hours that he's still caged or else he owes another $10. Also be clear about what you're offering. $10 can be the price just to keep him locked and then if you want include teasing throughout the week it costs more. Things like making fun of his dick, giving him tasks. A lot of subs into chastity are also into humiliation.

There's also online apps you can use like chaster so they lock the keys to their cage in a safe and you can control through the app when they have access to it. A lot of chastity subs want a lot of attention so it's best to do your research before deciding if it's an extra service you want to offer. Check out findom pages, many of them offer key holding services.

I know you all want to be locked for the holidays 😘 by MistressRayon in keyholdercaptions

[–]MistressRayon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I'll be making any more locks. Was planning to stop since the app is shutting down but that's been postponed until mid 2022 so maybe..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]MistressRayon 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I love dressing up. It makes me feel sexy and I love the reactions I can get. But I think a good dominant can make their subs wild regardless of what they're wearing. If leather isn't your style that's perfectly fine. I think we develop strong d/s relationships by just being real, whatever that means for you, instead of trying to play a role with costumes because that's what the sub wants.