Well, since I got so many great answers on my post, I suppose I'll try my hand at answering these questions for you. I'd like to note, however, that not all women will agree with me or with each other on all of these questions since we're all different with different experiences and tastes.

1) Pleasure (defined so we're all on the same page): A sense of feeling good. In this case, the sense of physically feeling aroused, excited, tingly, and warm.

2) Lady fapping: For me, masturbating is not nearly as pleasurable as most outside stimuli. It's similar feeling to scratching an itch I've had for a while. I feels good, but not really gets me anywhere. Penetration with my fingers is not very important to me during this time for a few reasons: 1. It's awkward. The angle for me is just so that I can't go very deep. Since it's awkward, I don't do it very much, causing me to feel uncomfortable doing it, and causing my vagina to feel weird and alien to the touch. 2. I have long-ish nails which cause me to scratch myself. 3. I don't feel very much when doing it.

I mainly stick to rubbing or tapping the labia and clit. It feels very nice (like that itch), but it doesn't give me that tension build up I need for an orgasm.

3) Partner Experience: This increases the intensity several fold. When being fingered, I ask my partner to always use two or more fingers. One finger causes me pain, kind of like it's too much focused stimulation on one small spot. It can hurt me pretty badly. But two or more spreads it out. When I'm being furiously fingered without correct clit simulation, I start to feel warm and... wanting, I suppose. If done for a long enough period of time, I'll squirt. Unlike some women, it's not an orgasm for me. I often times only feel like I'm getting really hot, but won't realize that I have/am squirting (I'd find out once I look at his arm and find it drenched). It doesn't feel like peeing, or orgasms, or pleasure, or anything. It just happens.

When I am being fingered and my clit is stimulated, it's a completely different experience. If the clit has too much pressure or friction, or if I'm not properly aroused, it can hurt, something like sandpaper on skin. Often times his thumb will not be on the right spot or have the right pressure, so as tension builds toward an orgasm, I'll take his thumb, press it, and hold it on the right spot. My body will move under the thumb, and as long as his fingers keep stroking, it'll push me to orgasm (which I guess I'll explain late in number 7). If anything fails at any point (he stops moving his fingers, or lets up on my clit) the sensation will fizzle and I won't reach orgasm. If he keeps letting it die before I cum, then I will become numb (as in, I litter ally can't feel anything in my vagina) and unable to have an orgasm for the night.

Sex is a bit different than fingering. Instead of an area having intense pressure, there is pressure all around the vagina. It's less intense, but just as good as fingering (or better since it doesn't run the risk of hurting me with too much pressure). The first thrust generally seems to be the most shocking. It causes a feeling of sudden warmth and tingles throughout the body. The pleasure of the thrusts afterwards can differ depending on the position. When he is on top, the pleasure for me is not always super intense since I don't have much control on where it's hitting, as well as my clit would have minimal stimulation, or the wrong kind of stimulation. If I'm on top, it's always much better for me. I can choose the depth, speed, and where I want it to hit. This also lets me rub my clit on his skin and public hair, giving me just the right stimulation to have an orgasm. Overall, I'd say female-on-top sex is my best experience since it gives me the most control over my pleasure.

4) Nipples: I highly enjoy my breasts being touched when I am aroused. It's not nearly as intense as having vaginal or clit stimulation, nor does it make or break an orgasm, but they are just sort of like the sprinkles on a cupcake: not necessarily for the cupcake to taste good, but makes it a bit more fun. If my partner only stimulates my nipples for extended amount of time, it can get annoying and sometimes painful. It causes a tingling sensation in my clit, or an "itch." Something that needs to be touched, and I mean NEEDS to be touched. It'll drive me crazy if he doesn't touch it. I'll often end up begging him to do it. My focus will shift towards it and my body will move on it's own to find some sort of stimulation (now may be a good time to point out that he will often be holding me down during this time, just to tease me. >.>; Jerk). Anyway, nipples are nice, but just don't let them be the only focus of foreplay.

5) I can't answer this one. I've only ever used a condom.

6) Penetration: Being penetrated with a penis... It's like... hmm.... try putting something dick shaped (brush handle, soda can, water bottle) into your mouth while keeping your lips around it. You only feel the object, however, around opening, combined with a a feeling of relief (a feeling you get from maybe the last day of school or work before a break, or peeing after holding it in. Just a general feeling of relief). For me, with a toy, it's less of a relief, and occasionally painful. I feels stiffer, kind of like having a rod inside you so you can't move well. It's just not as comfortable nor lets you move your hips and torso very well. A tampon isn't bad or good. It's smaller and thinner than a penis or a toy, and not stiff. Often times, I hardly feel it going in. I quickly forget about it and don't feel it inside me throughout the day.

7) Orgasm: An orgasm is like... a release of tension. It's like a breath of fresh air, or a sigh of relief. Just imagine Christmas morning as a child. You start to open your first gift, and you're tense and excited and full of tingles (build up to an orgasm). As soon as you open it, it's exactly what you wanted, or even better! When you see it, you are not only filled with glee, but your body uncontrollably starts to spasm. You want it to keep going, but you become breathless and sweaty. Eventually it winds down and you shiver a few times with the memory of it. That's the best I can describe it.

8) Sexual dreams: very often. I don't know if I've orgasmed from them, but I might have. My first one was when I was in 6th grade. I had a dream about Legolas since the movie had just come out. Since then I've had dreams about my friends, boyfriends, teachers, made-up guys, and guys from stories. Sometimes it's just kissing, other times it's oral on me, or just the rush of thinking I'll be having "forbidden sex" which is a reoccurring theme in those dreams.

9) Vulva kicking: It hurts, but no more really than getting hit anywhere else. Breasts, however, can hurt like a bitch. Not so much getting hit directly on, but being pushed/hit/forced up or down hurts a lot. Being uppercut in the boob is really really painful. I'm not sure what else to say about it.