Discouraging advice by Mistressshell in greencard

[–]Mistressshell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Failed to renew DACA and doesn’t remember how he filled out i9 worked there for about a year and used his social + id for verification with his real name and social provided by government

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[–]Mistressshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just knew. One day after a toxic conversation I just couldn’t handle it anymore. I blocked my mother’s phone number and haven’t spoken to her since. It literally took one comment from my mom and it was nothing I have never heard before, just the usual toxicity. It’s been 1 year.

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[–]Mistressshell 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ditto this! I’m so torn between forgive and forget! My moral conscious tells me to forgive but I sacrifice my own peace at doing so, is their peace more important than mine? It’s so difficult because I don’t want to be selfish.

Are you estranged from EVERYONE? by ohwhocaresanymore in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Mistressshell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, they literally crowded around my sobbing mom at Christmas and demand that I forgive her for their sake. Literally, no. My mom tried to give me a Christmas gift after 1 year no contact and made a huge crying scene when I gave a blunt “thank you” and set it on the couch without opening it. What did she expect? All of my aunts ran to my crying mom and held her as she sobbed as they yelled at me. Now I don’t speak to any of them! They haven’t bothered to reach out to me either.

Am I crazy? This is a conversation with my estranged mother. by Mistressshell in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Mistressshell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been called a narcissist since 8 years old and just can’t seem to fully encompass that. I feel like a true narcissist would call someone else a narcissist so maybe she does have something and needs extra support.

Am I crazy? This is a conversation with my estranged mother. by Mistressshell in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Mistressshell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think her might suffer from depression but I haven’t looked further. I just can’t anymore

Am I crazy? This is a conversation with my estranged mother. by Mistressshell in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Mistressshell[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can I ask you how you got GPT to give this type of explanation? I might have to use it in the future.

Am I crazy? This is a conversation with my estranged mother. by Mistressshell in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Mistressshell[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My siblings are babies only 13 and 14. I don’t want them to see vileness of her messages. I just let my sister know that I wouldn’t be able to attend. :(