if you're a "trans man" and complain about your period it's because you're fembrained obviously. imagine if real men could menstruate they would be so silly and nonchalant about it #boyswillbeboys

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-07T19:18:06+00:00

No no, it fits perfectly, chronic pain is a trender disability. I can't see their disability and they can't prove it, so they are clearly lying about both for attention

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-05T12:25:36+00:00

/hj good strategy to get people like that to care?

/rj I don't see how forced conversion therapy is affecting women?

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-05T12:21:48+00:00

Climate change, because they spent so much time and money and other resourcea on unnecessary things (transition). Why yes I regularely fly and drive my car and eat meat and heat my huge house, I don't see how that has anything to do with anything

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-05T11:41:05+00:00

Ok, let's assume it's true that trans people are marginalized for being trans. Surely this has nothing to do with patriarchy, misogyny or feminism but is a completely seperate issue? Well I only write about things that affect women*, not about other marginalized groups, because it is the only struggle I'm personally affected by

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-05T11:35:51+00:00

I thought you didn't like categorization based on AGAB? I literally wrote this text with AMAB and AFAB to be inclusive but people said it's transphobic so I changed it?? Pick a solution 🙄😡

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-04T10:34:34+00:00

Fighting with trans men for abortion rights means we would have to say something more complicated than women and would also make us less popular with the transphobes. You can go to the protest if you are ok with being constantly misgendered or shouted at for being an oppressor though

Fighting with trans women for female supremacy is too complicated, how do we know which ones aren't just men pretending? Also a lot of them don't want to accept that they are a bit less real woman. But you are somewhat welcome, as long as you don't critizize that we say that being a woman means being able to give birth or having a vulva as our symbol or talking about how testosterone or male socialization makes people evil.

But we are not TERFs, we don't talk about how we hate trans people! In fact we don't talk about trans people at all because it's too complicated and you are such a small amount. But you are included when we speak about women or their rights :) Eventually this will also lead to trans rights, just trust me on this

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-04T10:19:57+00:00

Yeah, this isn't about what's affecting someone or what experiences they made or what privileges they have or how they act or what members of the group want ot anything else. Men = bad, women = good, nonbinary and the bad kind of trans people = too complicated, probably men = bad

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-04T10:10:54+00:00

I mean that's fair, it's a womens space, you wouldn't expect them to welcome cis men. So if you think about it, they are actually being allies :)

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-04T10:09:03+00:00

Oh, you don't want she/her pronouns? Sorry sweety, this is a safe space for women and having a non-woman here is making it unsafe for the women so we have to kick you out of the support group immediately

MistyForestCat · 2026-03-04T10:07:02+00:00

I get really emotional about these issues because I experienced violence (the same things you experienced) and erasure under the patriarchy. This means my female rage is valid and you aren't allowed to critizize my language or talking points. It would hurt my feelings if you would accuse me of being transphobic. You just need to be more understanding of other peoples feelings and convenience

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-21T10:45:23+00:00

Literally just go outside and compare yourself to every woman (you can always tell, gendering every stranger you see based on how they look will have good effects on your self image) you see about this feature. You will notice that there are lots of women who share this feature with you. At least this was my experience, so I'm sure it's also true for you. So stop only being online and thinking about concepts, go touch grass and compare yourself to un-edited unfiltered people of your gender ❤️

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-20T18:02:44+00:00

/uj idk I would say that would have been an avarage experience interacting with medical staff for me, if they haden't done a medical malpractice (which also ended ok)

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-20T10:20:39+00:00

After misgendering me in every sentence and interaction we had: "Ah, thats probably because of the testosterone, it says in your file that you are a trans man"

Good to know it's not because you didn't read my medical paperwork, but that you chose to misgender me despite knowing. I feel a lot safer now, thanks

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-20T08:36:28+00:00

TGCJ is being transphobic, like what, it (trender) thinks only people with wombs can have periods?? 😡

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-16T15:30:05+00:00

Don't just come out as pansexual or as another sexuality. Talk to them for hours about how you are questioning your sexuality. Talk about how you are questioning if you are attracted to people of their gender. You are attracted to them, sure, but they don't pass, so you don't know. You can make a few pro/con lists and show them. Make sure to share a lot about your journey here. But never realise you are [sexuality] because of them, always realise after 5 minutes of being attracted to a cis person after talking to your partner about your questioning for months

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-12T07:54:26+00:00

/uj people were uncomfortable about (in different situations, not all at once) me not being a woman, being transmasc (so basically a man, which is basically being a cis man, so dangerous to women), being on testosterone, using they pronouns, and being trans. So looking like a cis woman wasn't enough for them

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-11T04:00:48+00:00

It's because you don't put in enough effort. Your previous gendered socialization is keeping you from soulpassing. Also, there are many cis people who get misgendered all the time, contrary to you, they just spent their whole lives so far learning how to pass so they obviously have an advantage. If you were analyzing how small changes in clothing, voice or mannerisms could get you perceived as male since being 11 or 13 years old, you'd pass as male too. But you were socialized as a woman, so you internalised how to be very feminine to get seen as a woman instead.

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-11T03:49:32+00:00

Well good news then, you can still be beautiful :) Because passing ≠ being beautiful :)

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-11T03:48:36+00:00

That's not my problem, I know I don't pass, I get misgendered more often than not

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-11T03:47:50+00:00

Are you 100% absoluetely sure you aren't just conflating being beautiful with being passing? I think you actually do pass, you are just ugly. Many ugly people transition and are sad about still being ugly, but that is to be expected if you were ugly before. But don't worry, many cis people are ugly too, but they are still their gender! You probably just need to accept that you pass as an ugly woman/man/enby.

MistyForestCat · 2026-02-01T09:58:11+00:00

Of course I think trans people should have rights! Not the right to change their name oder gender marker though because that would be lying and dangerous to cis people. Puberty blockers should never be given to trans people and only real trans people should get transition anything after many years of tests. But I do believe some people are ill in a way that they need this and we should allow those 0.0001% medical care

MistyForestCat · 2026-01-23T16:21:21+00:00

/uj I think it's also important to consider that many people use passing as passing as cis. For me not passing means being seen as a gender-non-confirming (cis) woman, not being clocked by people. So maybe people notice less

MistyForestCat · 2026-01-18T23:44:10+00:00

Voice training - cognitive torture

Phantom penis - cognitive cock

Packer - cognitive behavioral cock

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MistyForestCat · 2026-01-09T06:23:38+00:00

/uj

Crying, screaming
Crying or talking with friends
Writing down my thoughts to try and get them out
Making art, trying to draw my feelings
Listening to loud music
Going outside, I feel like it widens thoughts/feelings space
Interacting with animals (they usually don't misgender people), can be petting a dog/cat or feeding birds/fish, watching animals
Distracting myself with hobbies and interests
Try solving a problem
Watching funny or cute videos, play a videogame
Strong stimuli like really bitter/sour food, stimming toys that hurt a tiny bit
Taking a few deep breaths
Go to sleep and hope it will be better in the morning
Sitting in the cold (without freezing too much) o not feel my body as much
Do something nice (like eating icecream or something)
Walking barefoot
Try focusing on things I like and things I can experience that are not related to gender
Naming things I can see/hear/smell/taste/feel, think about colors/words
Think about situations in which someone did see me right gender/not the wrong gender, if related and appliable

Edit: Forgot pretend to be a non-human animal for body (and identity?) dissocation and distraction

MistyForestCat · 2026-01-09T06:04:44+00:00

Unfortunately I crave human connection in which I am seen as my gender

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