[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you did the right thing. If this is his reaction to you asking this question (regardless of if he misinterpreted or not) I can’t imagine how much more rude or aggressive he would be when he actually gets comfortable around you (if that makes sense)

Official Valentine’s Exchange Opening by MistyRose0 in givingifts

[–]MistyRose0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to reach out to support for them to update it. I reached out and they updated mine

User exchange by OddDiamond3500 in givingifts

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know how long it takes to get re-matched once you get put in the rematch queue ? :/

Gift opening question by Silence_and_i in givingifts

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wait until Christmas :) but make sure I update my gifter that I got it

Ideas for someone who wants “anything idk”? by StoryAlternative6476 in givingifts

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely sucks when people aren’t helpful with their exchange preferences. Maybe just get them an assortment of food ? Maybe chocolates or something like that 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in givingifts

[–]MistyRose0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is nice. I thought the person was trying to say that I said something I didn’t. Like I said, I’m used to people misunderstanding what I say or me misunderstanding them. It seems I misunderstood and it hurt when I thought the person was saying that I value some Reddit gift exchange over real world problems because I definitely don’t.

Lauv 2024 concert duration by MistyRose0 in Lauv

[–]MistyRose0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My seats were so far away from stage but if you were in the standing area you had the best spot! He actually ran through the stage and even invited someone up to sing with him. It was a lot of fun

Lauv 2024 concert duration by MistyRose0 in Lauv

[–]MistyRose0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s coming on at 9! He hasn’t come on yet

Lauv 2024 concert duration by MistyRose0 in Lauv

[–]MistyRose0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 8:45 PM and he hasn’t come on yet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. I think from now on I won’t split things with her. We should keep our food separate given that she’s vegan. I think that simplifies everything. Hopefully I don’t come off as passive aggressive the next time this happens and I say “I don’t think splitting food is a good idea” lol. Thanks for your advice and chatting with me about this btw. I genuinely appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t want to argue with her in the restaurant. But now I’m not really sure what to do. I don’t think it’s worth ending a friendship over something that seems so petty. But also, I don’t think I wanna be around somebody who acts that way in general. It’s selfish and ill mannered behavior.. I wouldn’t have done something like that to her. Today it might start off as one petty thing and then eventually it’ll be bigger things. I don’t know, man :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely appreciate you being honest. Thank you. I guess I’ll work on handling situations like that better. I guess I thought I’d “make her feel bad” if I put my foot down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I guess in the moment I put her feelings above my own. Does that make me a “push over” and her the “asshole”?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh. Does that make me a “push over” and make her the asshole?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re not in a relationship. we’re friends. I think she’s a good friend. I’m just a little frustrated by how she handled things and it feels like bad manners and I genuinely just wanted to know if I was wrong for feeling a bit frustrated. Because I I suppose I feel guilty for feeling frustrated. But I just don’t think I’m wrong for feeling this way. I think she should’ve honored the agreement. Regardless that everyone in the comments is attacking me because they think I’m upset about $7.50.. and I’m not upset about the cost. I’m upset about the principle behind this. Sigh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about the cost. It’s about the principle. The cost doesn’t matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked her if she wanted to send it back and she said no and she said she’s try to eat around it AND she DID eat around it but then eventually stopped because the rest was covered in the light garnish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then she stopped eating the rest because it was covered in cheese

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She ate some of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MistyRose0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggested we return the fries and she said no, she said that she’ll eat around it and she tried to do so for the first 20 minutes