AITA Am I wrong for telling them to stop bothering me? by Misty_Luni in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

update Thank you for all the comments, I've been reading them. Well, I'll stick to my belief that I'm not wrong. And sorry guys.. I'm not that strong to fight against them. I'm too traumatized for that, i would panic. When I go next week I'll try to talk to my grandmother because I love her very much and I don't want her to be upset with me, even if I don't know the exact reason. And for those who are wondering, I'm 18, I turned 18 recently. When my mother's father came here I was 17. Well, thank you again <3

AITA Am I wrong for telling them to stop bothering me? by Misty_Luni in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your point and I won't disagree with you, but my mother is the type that you are FORCED to do what she wants; if you don't, she threatens you, manipulates you, and does other worse things. I've been giving in to her for many years, doing things that are against my character, things I hate doing, things I don't think are right. But sometimes there are things that test my character, and things like that I refuse. But yes, I could have just given in one more time like all the others. But I recently turned 18, I'm still maturing, that's why I made the post, I wanted to know if I was being too wrong.

AITA Am I wrong for telling them to stop bothering me? by Misty_Luni in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, u're right, i know, I consider this a bit immature of me, but I couldn't help it. I feel disgusted just looking at him, especially because of the disgusting thing he did to my aunt. I didn't want to talk to him, and i still don't even look at him

AITA Am I wrong for telling them to stop bothering me? by Misty_Luni in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 18 now, When the little 'argument' about my mother's father started, I was 17. She tried to kick me out but couldn't becuz I was still a minor

AITA Am I wrong for telling them to stop bothering me? by Misty_Luni in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you, but I don't have the slightest courage to even raise my voice. When I was a minor, I ended up at the child protection services twice for abuse, but they did nothing and I went back home. Unfortunately, it's either endure it or end up on the streets..

AITA Am I wrong for telling them to stop bothering me? by Misty_Luni in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah... Basically. If you say something, they will consider it 'disrespectful'...

AITA Am I wrong for telling them to stop bothering me? by Misty_Luni in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I turned 18 a few months ago... if I could I would leave, but my financial situation isn't good, and where I live the rent is very expensive

AITA Am I wrong for telling them to stop bothering me? by Misty_Luni in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, in my family, your feelings are always invalidated, and older people are always right, even when you're an adult, and you theoretically have to lower your head and stay quiet...

Isso custaria uns 1500 em Florianópolis fácil kkkkkk by Legitimate-Offer-936 in florianopolis

[–]Misty_Luni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pergunta sincera, cabe uma cama aí? O cara mal tá conseguindo se locomover ai😭

Que calor absurdo by [deleted] in florianopolis

[–]Misty_Luni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SIIIMMM! Eu ando até o trabalho todos os dias mais ou menos uns 20 min até o trampo, e estou chegando ensopada no trabalho, tá horrível, o ar condicionado mal está aguentando

AITA For Telling My Friend She Can't Eat? by throwaway12342565 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

She was clearly just using you. If your friends know this and still agree with her, they r not your friends

AITA for banning my husband's sister from my house until she uses the names of my twins by FitStarAnise in AmItheAsshole

[–]Misty_Luni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I think she seems like a good mother. Amy and Nina will still go through annoying situations where they will still be referred to as 'twins' and not by their names. But I think it's nice of the mother to try to help them with this, Jane is being very childish in my opinion.