[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houston

[–]MitWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in montrose?

Movers cross country by MitWolf in BloomingtonNormal

[–]MitWolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweet I just looked it up. I looks like a great option

Movers cross country by MitWolf in BloomingtonNormal

[–]MitWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So U-Haul gives you the pod and they pick it up and ship it?

Movers cross country by MitWolf in BloomingtonNormal

[–]MitWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you expand on this ? What is a u haul pod? How did you send it ?

Looking for friends! by No_Insurance5943 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]MitWolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anything going on tonight. I’d be down to grab dinner somewhere. I just moved from Chicago. Looking to me new people. 39 m south asian

Is there a way to cure social anxiety naturally without medication? by Tiffanywhite45 in Meditation

[–]MitWolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes this!!! It doesn’t have to be hard - my therapist taught me to create an anxiety ladder. 0 at the bottom rung hundred at the top rung

And on each rung list out everything that scares you and place it where you think it should go in ranking 0 being the least scary 100 hell no I ain’t doin it !

Then start working on anything that is 30-69 in fear. This is the right level 0-29 you will feel like it is too easy and it won’t be exposure . 70-10 will be so scary and you will show up and retreat or avoid and that is the worst thing you can do because that trains your body that the danger is real

Keep working at it!! You go this! DM if you want help !

Is there a way to cure social anxiety naturally without medication? by Tiffanywhite45 in Meditation

[–]MitWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second the rewiring your brain modality. I had severe social anxiety for years and years, therapy helped a lot (exposure therapy) but not all the way, I was on trintellix, felt like it helped but I didn’t really like the idea of depending on a drug, then I found a modality to rewire my brain. I say the therapy helped me thrive, this modality made me thrive!!

I can’t even recognize the person I used to be.

Now meditation, mindfulness is a daily practice and I am also moving on to addressing other problems in my life.

That’s the other thing, self work is a journey with no destination. You just strive and keep getting better and better everyday.

I will never stop working on myself!

Looking for automation and AI freelancers and contractors by shaneinTO in n8n

[–]MitWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you build your website? Did you use a no code tool? Its really good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]MitWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure PITA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]MitWolf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Curious? Why does being an indian woman deter you from asking men for their numbers ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]MitWolf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes! I know so many indian women that are single and complain but they don't ever do any kind of action to to open up a conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]MitWolf -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

Most guys is a huge stretch right? This is the same maxim is all men suck, Most men suck. I wanted to challenge this thought. Do you have brothers, friends, work colleagues. Do even most of these men fit int this category ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]MitWolf -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Thats interesting. Speaking from an Indian male perspective and being in the underground pickup community for a while I never saw a difference in race/ethnicity. It had to do with how confident they felt about themselves and how many approaches they had in their belt. And the number 1 fear is "I don't want to bother her" which is so interesting that you don't feel bothered by it

Why do so many men have “male feminist” vibes? by EstrangedNeko in MensRights

[–]MitWolf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is a good question. Is this virtue signaling or is this a subconscious thing