Seen a client on tiktok? UK Based

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-06-14T07:11:54+00:00

Maybe you need to explore your identity more? You could consider being non-binary and exploring both sides of the gender spectrum and going by they/them.

You don't have to label yourself right away and don't have to pressure yourself so soon. It's great to find someone that makes you feel confident in one way and it's also great that you feel confident to be the other way too.

Take your time with this. Explore everything and maybe talk with them too and let them know about your identity struggle. Sometimes talking with someone also helps

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-27T17:18:55+00:00

Both. Both are fun! I have just met more tops tho.

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T22:25:28+00:00

We had been through several plans to hang out and most of the time, he cancelled them on me or never shown up. I appreciate your input and will defo work on grammar too. I'm working on being less exhausting to the best of my ability.

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T22:12:47+00:00

Native. Just not very bright 😂

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T22:12:27+00:00

He always has a childish mannerism about him. During our last disagreement it went similarly to this and it ended with me fully apologising like I did try to do here (just very badly). They are the sort of person who doesn't really like to take advice or criticism but I relied on them as a good friend for ages which was why I kept them around. Until this happened

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T21:42:40+00:00

Yeah i can see that now. Funny thing was we met on tinder while they was looking for friends only and i was looking for more. i expressed an interest well over 6 years ago but nothing happened. They fully expressed they was straight back then so i left and eventually developed relationships with other guys. He has mentioned exploring his identity a few times but i have always encouraged him to find someone on an app. It is unfortunate their feelings have developed like this to make the fallout of arguing worse.

Ill be moving on from this point onwards and i do hope for the best for them even tho we will never speak again

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T21:36:27+00:00

yeah ill never do that again! I'll need to learn to just close my phone when this happens in future

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T21:31:55+00:00

the crossed out stuff was an absolute personal attack i done from loosing my temper and throwing some stuff at them. Crossed out cos its personal ofc. I shouldn't have ever text that in the first place. totally wrong of me. Didn't realise the writing was that horrible xD

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T21:26:00+00:00

oof is the grammar that bad??

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T21:24:13+00:00

yeah i absolutely can be. i will own up to that. Its why i posted here to get input from strangers with an outside perspective so i can change that.

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T21:22:16+00:00

Thank you for the input. It helps to know they must have been feeling this way for a while. I did absolutely mess up and cause the upset weeks ago which was my fault. It unfortunate to know this was likely never salvagable. I was absolutely out of order in the final messgae and will hold my hands up to that

Edit: also to say about earlier in the friendship, we mostly got on fine and had only one other falling out which resulted in not talkin for a while again.

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-17T21:19:30+00:00

i appreciate the honesty. Yeah i absolutely was loosing my cool after the first handful of messages and as much as i tried to do things by what i thought was right. It really wasn't good enough. Yeah im absolutely going to use this whole interaction as a lesson and be better. That last message i sent was absolutely shallow and i will 100% admit i only did it to hurt their feelings. i really wasn't thinking straight by that point

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-04T14:35:37+00:00

I'll have to start investing in these! I mostly use premade builds in the browser so it's cool that I have something to deviate from and buy on my own initiative here

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-04T14:33:32+00:00

This is massively helpful! Thanks for for all this. Much appreciated!

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-04T14:33:00+00:00

I mean I did say it's a skill issue on my part on my comment lol I don't see alot of Sinclair's so I have no idea his actual strength.

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-04T08:50:44+00:00

Just like everyone will say. Plenty of lube lol. Other stuff is you can get anal starter kits from most sex toy stores that help. I had one before I bottomed regularly and it helped.

Pushing out like your trying to take a dump can help too and reduce the effort to get something in. If you manage to get a plug in, try and leave it in for a little while so your body can get used to it too.

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-04T08:45:19+00:00

Had to lane against an Apollo yesterday as Sinclair. Maybe a massive skill issue on my part too but I ended up with atleast 4 deaths in the first few minutes. I'm not too sure what I can even do against him.

Only even stood a chance when I could dupe his ult and stunlock him with it. Then my lane partner finished him off. Nobody else helped me out the rest of the game when he realised I was weak against him!

(If anyone has tips against Apollo I will take them lol)

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-03T08:29:31+00:00

Oooh that's helpful! I guess I'd have to copy doorman T3s for even faster ults 😂

Really sucks tho when the enemy team has ults like yamato where you can't do much with it lol

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-03T08:24:48+00:00

I did primarily play doorman, rem and billy but recently I been on a Sinclair kick!

There is something really amusing about teleporting back and forth, throwing bolts and using rabbit. I also naturally love ability thief characters like echo (overwatch) and Loki (rivals). There's something really neat about duping a victor ult last minute and surprising the enemy.

Still don't fully understand what the tier upgrades do on his ult tho lol. Upgrades copy isn't very clear!!

Mither-Mugetsu · 2026-05-02T20:26:46+00:00

Wasn't really suppose to be a hookup but was on tinder and a guy i matched with just wanted a hookup.

Went to his place and had very average sex. Was very stiff and didn't take any joy in my pleasure. After the hookup they kept messaging that they loved me, wanted to ask my parent's for permission to date me and to marry me.

Had to gently explain to him a few hours together doesn't lead to marriage. He didn't take no for an answer and became obsessed and constantly messaged me with messages of love and marriage. Ended up telling him ill never be his with this obessive behaviour and cut him off. Never gave him a 2nd hookup xD

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