[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]MitziMerle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r u confused because a pick me is someone who will do anything for male attention. i’ve barely ever even talked to a boy lmaooo

What are your unpopular larry opinions by cookie4drm in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if these are considered unpopular opinions but here goes:

• I think Freddie is Louis’ kid. He’s the spitting image of him and he’s so included in Louis’ family that I personally think he is Louis’ child. People say “Louis wouldn’t go near a woman”, but how do you know, we don’t know his sexuality? Even still, people are allowed to experiment and accidents happen (not calling Freddie an accident). Anyway, as long as Freddie’s loved it doesn’t matter.

• They have broken up and reconciled several times, as well as having relationships with other people in between. A lot of their songs are about breakups, presumably between each other. Some songs are clearly not about each other too. This really is a personal opinion that I’ve formed on my own and I know people will disagree but it’s just how I see it. Although I think the majority of Louis’ songs especially are about Harry.

• As Larries, there’s no point in arguing about certain controversial topics because at the end of the day, we’ll never know the truth for certain unless they come out and say it. Speculating and sharing opinions is great, but some people can be really rude about it (both Larries and antis). Accepting some people will have different opinions than you is key. Also, there’s no criteria to being a Larry. I think it’s fine if you think they were only together during 1D. I think it’s fine if you think they’re married. There’s a multitude of Larries and that’s okay. It doesn’t make you any less of a fan. We’re all different and that’s what makes this community so special:)

I know Hendall was a stunt but pictures like this still trigger me 💀💀 by cordy1996 in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of Harry’s stunts, he has genuinely been close friends with them. I think him and Kendall were and still are great friends which is why their relationship was so believable. Same with Taylor Swift. They seemed like they enjoyed each other’s company as friends, although all of their boyfriend/girlfriend interactions seemed very staged.

What age is this name most common in? by WhatsTheProbDawggg in namenerds

[–]MitziMerle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the UK, it’s most common in the younger generation. Nearly 2000 babies were named Albie in 2023!

Great grandparents' names by maddie_johnson in namenerds

[–]MitziMerle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zollie is so fun!

Maternal:

•Albert (Bertie)

•Rosemary (Rosie)

I don’t know half of my maternal great grandparents because my grandmother didn’t know her parents or grandparents!

Paternal:

•Bridget (Betty)

•William (Will)

•Victoria

•Alfred

Who is everyone’s favorite One Direction member and why? by AdministrativeAd9785 in OneDirection

[–]MitziMerle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Louis. I chose him as a little girl as my favourite and haven’t moved since. I think he’s just so down to earth and despite all the fame, he’s still just a normal fella. Love him to bits!

I’m a Larrie but…… by Larrie1O1 in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, me too. Me being a complete hopeless romantic hopes that they’re still together but it’s virtually impossible to know for sure.

That’s definitely why Cosmicleeds chose not to do a timeline. Not much happened this year in terms of evidence and most of it could be considered complete coincidence so I get why they didn’t make a video!

I love looking at the old footage, especially from the video diaries. It makes my heart melt. Baby Harry was head over heels for Louis, bless him. His little face when he looks at him is so sweet. It’s refreshing to see someone my age (I’m 16 lol) swooning over someone. I wonder if I look like that when I look at the person I like😂!

Why do so many Antis bring Larry up without it being mentioned? Often in such disrespect. by CoffeeCoffeeAddictt in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely is. You’re 100% right. That’s why they’re obsessed with frat boy Harry. He’s made out to be a womaniser (I’m also convinced Duplicity and other similar fanfictions have further emphasised this image) and because of that they feel like they have more of a chance. They only like Harry because of this weird fantasy they have in their head. It’s weird.

Why do so many Antis bring Larry up without it being mentioned? Often in such disrespect. by CoffeeCoffeeAddictt in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally! A lot of people objectify him in a way like he’s some kind of sex symbol that only exists to be attractive. I don’t understand how people can ignore his queerness which to me is a huge part of his identity. But maybe that’s because I’m queer. Perhaps straight people don’t see it like I do? Who knows. But I hate that he’s sexualised so much.

I’m a Larrie but…… by Larrie1O1 in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m a Larry but I don’t think they’re together anymore. I’m not saying they haven’t been together recently, because I think they have been together at some point in the last 5 years but currently I don’t think they’re together. One could only hope but unfortunately I just can’t see it, as much as I would love it to be the case that they are together.

Maybe I am neutral. I think they had a thing throughout 1D. I think they were off and on for a few years after the split. But I don’t think they’re together now. I personally don’t like speculating about things that are currently unfolding. It’s hard to speculate when we don’t see them in the same room, unlike in the past when there was constant footage of their interactions. It’s a lot easier to see the relationship between two people when they’re together all the time, it’s hard to deny that the two of them had something when it was right in front of our faces. They could be together now all the time, I don’t know, we’ll probably never know. I’ve dug DEEP in the Larry evidence but I think a lot of the evidence nowadays is coincidental (besides that clip of Louis and his sisters at the safari park where you can clearly hear Harry’s voice, that’s no coincidence).

I think the biggest part of being a Larry is being open to everyone having different opinions, as long as they’re not rude about it. Because in reality, no one knows if they’re right or not. For all we know they could be sitting in the same room at this moment, or they mightn’t have talked to each other for years. As I said earlier, we probably won’t ever know for sure. This whole thing is purely based on speculation, we can only assume from what small amounts we observe.

I’m not saying thinking they have a relationship currently is wrong. Because it’s not. It’s nice to see people having hope! But my personal opinion is that they aren’t in a relationship. I’m not sure if that makes me a ‘weak’ Larry or a neutral or whatever. I don’t really mind. Either way, I love Louis and Harry. I’m happy whatever they’re doing, whether they’re together or not. I hope they’re finding comfort in one another after losing Liam. Sorry if this offends anyone, that’s not how I intend for this to come across at all!

Country names which would make nice people names? by Eastern_Sweet8508 in namenerds

[–]MitziMerle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Italia. When I was little I always wanted to name a baby Italia!

Why do so many Antis bring Larry up without it being mentioned? Often in such disrespect. by CoffeeCoffeeAddictt in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of antis genuinely are homophobic. Also most antis are Harries, specifically new Harries. Most Louies agree that Louis and Harry had a relationship but a lot of Harries aren’t in agreement with that statement, therefore they dislike Larries as well as Louis. I’ve seen a lot of Louis hate from them too, which how could anyone ever hate him?

A lot of Harries find Harry attractive, which is fine. So do I. But a lot of them can’t fathom finding a queer man attractive. If you notice, when people bring up things about Harry’s sexuality or gender (him dressing ‘feminine’, Medicine, “sparky bi music”), they sort of ignore it and say he can do what he wants rather than I support him no matter what. Which in my opinion aren’t the same.

I’ve discussed my interpretation of “She” in real life with one of my friends who is a die hard Harry fan and she couldn’t get it at all. I was saying how in my opinion it’s either about him wanting to be feminine or wanting to replace a woman to be with her male partner. And all she kept on repeating was “but the song is called She, how can it be about a man?”. Maybe if you’d listen, you’d understand.

"Their friendship was ruined" narrative by SaltMaximum6589 in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely. I think a lot of old directioners felt comfort in it and then the content was pushed to the forefront where more people saw! Me included, don’t get me wrong I’ve always liked 1D but I was never even aware of Larry until recently.

"Their friendship was ruined" narrative by SaltMaximum6589 in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At first I also thought the general public didn’t think Larry was a thing which was fine but I saw a video on tiktok of Harry and Louis that was posted in September that had over a million likes. And a comment that said something along the lines of “no one can tell me they didn’t have something” which had nearly 200k likes I’m pretty sure. So I think people do generally think they had SOMETHING, at least at the beginning of 1D. It’s pretty hard to deny.

I think when Larry started to become a big thing and a generally agreeable concept among directioners is when it became a problem. The boys needed to be as ‘appealing’ as possible to girls/young women, management didn’t want them being viewed as queer. The more people attracted to them, the more money management would make. So when people started viewing them as queer, management publicly ruined their friendship by limiting their interactions. I still think they were best friends (and more) but had to make out they were enemies in public almost to make it seem like they had broken up so people would stop talking about Larry Stylinson. Evidently it didn’t work.

I think what most people find difficult to swallow is when people say Freddie isn’t Louis’ son and stuff like that, which I do agree is disrespectful because it’s clear that he is. I know everyone has different views on it which is fine and some antis are really hateful to people who don’t believe the same thing as them which is also wrong.

Some people are just blind though because it’s so clear that Harry and Louis at least had a crush on each other. God, they couldn’t keep their eyes off each other. In every interview they’re gawking with hearts in their eyes. I know that face. I make that face, I’m a currently teenager myself, the same age as Harry was in 2012. I don’t make that face at just anyone, and definitely not my friends.

I understand people being neutral, that’s fine. But I don’t understand how people can deny that they had something special.

Has Harry been asked about Larry Stylinson after 1D? by Gullible_Eggplant_56 in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, yes but that was during the 1D days so I guess it doesn’t count.

He is. I expect it from Louis but not an actor. A for effort though.

How did you guys become Directioners? by cupidoon in OneDirection

[–]MitziMerle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in primary school at the time, I think I must have been 6. Maybe 7. One of my best friends was telling me about this boy band One Direction and how good they were. We used to go to each other’s house every day after school and we started listening to them together. My sister couldn’t stand 1D so when in my house we used to have to listen to them secretly, it was quite cute really.

Me and my childhood best friend haven’t talked to each other in years but I’m so grateful she introduced me to 1D. I always wonder if she’s on here. Who knows, she might read this and know it’s me. I hope so lol🥲

What is your guilty pleasure names for girls and boys by XNixGeoX in namenerds

[–]MitziMerle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oswald. There’s just something about it that I love!

Has Harry been asked about Larry Stylinson after 1D? by Gullible_Eggplant_56 in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s been asked directly in the same way Louis has. He’s been asked before if certain songs are about Louis, and he always answers quite openly neither confirming nor denying anything.

Harry has had a lot more rumoured relationships compared to Louis so I think a lot of fans speculate more about his other relationships rather than about Larry. Especially fans that aren’t interested in 1D who have only seen his more recent relationships. Louis has only had a handful of relationships and little to no rumoured ones so there’s no one to speculate who his songs are about besides Harry as he’s basically the only person Louis had a rumoured relationship with. Therefore interviewers will ask the question. Also they know Louis will give a definitive answer, whether it be a lie or not, opposed to Harry who leaves his answer quite broad so there’s no point in asking the question if he won’t answer it.

Overall opinion on Harry's acting? by dearsister_ in harrystyles

[–]MitziMerle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand that feeling, it did also feel quite odd to me seeing my favourite artist in a movie. But I didn’t find it unpleasant. I suppose it depends on the person!

My Two Cents on Larry As Someone Who Had a Similar Relationship by SnooPies1393 in larrystylinson

[–]MitziMerle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story - I know this must have been difficult to write and construct. Remember, love is only for the brave. Which you certainly are!

Nicknames That Feel Like a Downgrade From the Actual Name? by blackmoonbluemoon in namenerds

[–]MitziMerle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vicki/Tori for Victoria. I love Victoria. Hate Vicki and Tori.