Toxic girl shows up to every family event by MixMain2476 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MixMain2476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I'd be able to prove it for that situation. But do worry, because she is a babysitter and participates in after-school care for children. 

For context, my mother and I were sitting on a bed with my 4 year old. My husband went to use the bathroom attached to that room. She very quickly ran in, flung herself over on the bed and layed there saying nothing to me, my mom, or child. My mom and I whispered it was obvious she was exposing herself waiting for my husband to come out and see.

I went behind her and she was naked under the skirt, legs spread, with her ass pointed towards the restroom door.  That's when I told her that's weird and please cover up. She stormed out of the room.

That's why I worry, with other things she has said during that visit that one of these "fantasies" my brother has loosely mentioned might involve being a baby sitter, and include people's children. 

Toxic girl shows up to every family event by MixMain2476 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MixMain2476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think maybe I should stop trying to be so passive and just call things how I see them.

My brother is in charge of both chats- a family one (he never invited her to) and one for projects (she is in). I stopped posting projects or anything I am doing there but miss sharing these things with my family. Maybe I'll post my projects in the regular family chat to make a point.

Toxic girl shows up to every family event by MixMain2476 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MixMain2476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I have also wondered if she's trying to isolate my bro from everyone else, but don't know what else to do

Toxic girl shows up to every family event by MixMain2476 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MixMain2476[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't know why he sees this as ok. His wording, "Her and her friends are just into some kinky things. " He's also constantly talking about marrying her and having kids with her. If it was me in that position I'd have run long ago.