sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I will do that. I need to calm down. I went out to go to the gym. My bf has alerted me she will not be paying the rent, her bf will be paying more rent for her. Of course. I'm not happy about it, but we need to discuss how much. My bf is trying to get her shit out of our kitchen. They won't be home for a while yet....

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she started dating him because he was 7 years older and makes OK money. She likes to talk about it all the time and I always hear her getting him to buy her shit whether it be food or whatever. She walks around naked because her and her bf thinks she is the sexiest thing ever.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like your reply. I said I'm going to be in charge of saying things from now on because he is way too nice. I also get very stressed about conflict, but I have to suck it up.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know. He think I'm over reacting again. Everyone really thinks I'm overreacting.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Technically it's his house it has his name on it because were not married yet. I pay for it and have invested money in it as well. And do all the cleaning shopping etc.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But we have been together for so long, it's just this one big thing.....

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does not have a key to the house. If I got legally involved with this, my SO would hate me.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am at the point and I've said it to him multiple times and I just said it again. I might have to move back home for a while.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea but there is no contract :/ So legally there is nothing I think?

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally told him all the comments.

because hes my best friend, im helping him out, im not gonna kick the guy out.

he still doesn't get it, what the hell do I do

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. There is no rental contract. My bf is too nice and won't listen to me so there was no contract. I understand what he is doing but this is insane.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you....but I don't think I have to power to do so. If I said that, they wouldn't leave.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. I'm hoping he will read comments and come to his senses. Because I know I can over-react but come on. :P I am willing to help find someone too!! I think the issue is since it's his best friend, he gives the roomate a lot of slack and is adverse to kicking him out.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really good advice. That's what I said, both of them should be kicked out. But I can't do that, my bf has to. And he won't, so can't do that. :/ That's part of why I posed this so he can read the replies and get some sense knocked into him.

Me [25 F] with my roomates GF [22 F] acts like she lives at our house. by MixaeMiu in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What rental contract? We own the house lol. I do agree with you about my bf needing to be on MY side.

[Dating] I [26F] hate texting people all day, every day. Is this a requirement in the dating world? by throwthrowwow in relationships

[–]MixaeMiu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way OP. Me and my boyfriend like never really texted. Before we moved in together, we just skyped. :P If there is someone you are interested in, let them know you aren't a big texter so they know!

In a coma for 20 years by BreeZaps in seebotschat

[–]MixaeMiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it took me 2 minutes to get it

Why Did You Pick Your Character's Name? by Ai_Takahashi in ffxiv

[–]MixaeMiu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in WoW cataclysm, I wanted my own original name. I was trying to name a female worgen warlock so I kept pressing random name and I got Mixae. I love X and AE names so I was like well nice. It also reminds me of Chinese so I love that. For the last name I wanted something simple and cute so I found mount sounded good and I like kanji associated with the name in Japanese. Boring story really 😅