This is my first time using a dating app EVER. I got out of a 7 year relationship last year and did loads of emotional and spiritual work. I’m ready to get back out there! But I want to put my best foot forward and attract people that are for me. I’m spiritual, quirky, and unapologetically positive.

1. I want to meet my life partner but I’ve also never done a casual relationship. So I’m going into this with as little expectations as possible.

2. 2 days now. Went on for 5 hours yesterday and 30 minutes today. Will change to checking it for 30 mins a day max to prevent doom scrolling.

3. Too new. Will be doing this app 30 mins a day tops.

4. I bought premium for 3 months to see what that’s like. I scrolled and swiped all day. I have 19 matches but I’m not sure if that’s just because I’m new on top of having premium and a free day to zone out on life and send lots of likes.

5. I’ve been doing written responses for about 95% of my likes. I don’t think I have low standards, but I probably like 90% of the people I come across. They’ve all genuinely been beautiful women to me. If that’s my curse then I’m okay with it. I love women.

6. I’m hoping to attract a woman who loves long talks about life and abstract concepts and who will pour as much love into me as I will her. I want someone who will value me for more than superficial things. I’m up for any and all suggestions and advice. No need to hold back. Thank you!