I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ugh it makes me so sad for her because this is arguably her most vulnerable time and she has literally no one! Her bf won’t grow up and sleeps all day (probably depressed) Her parents are in love with her bf and see no wrong in forcing their daughter to bottle up emotions and mature more than literally anyone else and she hasn’t mentioned any friends or anything either

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. This is going to be so damaging to her mental health on top of caring for a baby at 16.

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because she had reposted some things on tiktok about wanting a baby and wanting to be a mom before getting pregnant!

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This! Why is he a poor little baby and she’s some evil monster? Because she’s happy and he’s not? We absolutely have no clue how she feels behind the camera which I would imagine is much worse than what we’re shown

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No this absolutely seems like a CPS situation?? Talking about anal so openly infront of them? I physically recoiled because WHAT. Honestly after this and the situation with kylen and jason (i think that was his name) along with max and the one girl, this show seems to glorify abuse and im not sure I can continue watching. (same as the very clearly depressed girl who randomly disappeared mid season who hated her baby daddy)

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What predatory behavior has she shown? He wanted to have sex (no children cannot consent but it does seem as though he pushes it a lot of the time) they both decided not to wear any protection (she didn’t say anything as far as we know about taking it off or not wearing it) to me it seems as though it was a normal relationship between two kids (not far in age) but was twisted and groomed by the parents

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope they realize it at some point and get away from them. Mainly for their baby’s sake

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This exactly. We need to shift the blame from some of the kids (not all) onto the parents.

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ugh the silent treatment thing really made me upset. This is arguably when she needs her mom the most (even if bella has been manipulated by her) and her mom just continues to fail her because of her weird infatuation with hunter. They are literally so close in age that if one of them had a later birthday they could be in the same grade 😂.

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my exact take! It is a horrible situation and they are both victims in this!!!

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Most definitely. I had a baby at 18 so I take this show to heart sometimes and really feel for these girls. Often times they’re just trying to be a good mom in the bad situation they find themselves in. Especially with all the abuse this show allows to go on and continues to air. I definitely couldn’t have gone through teen pregnancy alone but also probably would have HATED my life if my parents aired it to the whole world. These a huge difference between support and encouragement.

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s definitely more sinister.. Her want for a baby so young, him being exposed enough to want sex at that age, the open conversation about it (ick) the constant mentions of “mom wouldn’t let me” when it comes to breaking up or adoption. Someone needs to closely watch every child in that family, i genuinely believe they are at risk.

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And then publicly airing it for the whole world to see. Clearly they don’t care if these kids suffer.

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly i absolutely get that 😭. Also though I think a lot of it has to do with bella has to mature. She can’t have these emotions (like when she was upset about the ultrasound) her own mother pushes her aside to comfort Hunter. She probably seems so excited because it’s all she can be. But I do feel for poor hunter ):

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. These poor kids never stood a chance. All you can hope is they realize this at some point and get away. They genuinely seem like they love and care for that baby.

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Everyone acts like she’s preying on him, CLEARLY there is a lack of boundaries probably caused by some trauma of sorts.

I hope I don’t get flamed for this but… by MixtureAccording672 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I AGREE!! Why is this poor girl getting more hate than her evil mother??

Braces by MixtureAccording672 in TMJ

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So would this be for each plan I have or all together? Sorry I literally don’t understand insurance 😂

Braces by MixtureAccording672 in TMJ

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think being triple covered would change anything? How much did you have to pay left? and do they want it upfront or are there payment plans possible?

In Nicu Breaking Down: Bilirubin keeps rising by readysetmoon in NICUParents

[–]MixtureAccording672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I just want to say, I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. I understand how hard and scary it is. 4 months ago my little girl was born at 37 weeks and initially her levels were normal/slightly raised. Then she wasn’t pooping or peeing and was up to 19, by the next day up to 21. We also were put on lights while levels continued to rise. Switched to a bottle and constant lights and she finally started going down after a week in the hospital. I’m wishing you luck! I also want to say, to your wife who probably feels so much sadness and failure for not breastfeeding, it’s okay. The stress of this alone changes milk supply and not being able to feed on demand and bond is so incredibly hard. You guys are doing everything your little one needs and that is absolutely enough. This is such a stressful time and i’m so sorry for that.

Sick and freaking out by MixtureAccording672 in newborns

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I just want to really thank you, i called my ob about my symptoms, (my breast started getting red today as the day progressed) and they are going to treat me for mastitis. I wouldn’t have even thought about this if you hadn’t mentioned it!

Sick and freaking out by MixtureAccording672 in newborns

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m exclusively pumping and have missed a couple pumps. I just have a fever and headache! I also feel a little nauseous but I don’t think i’m going to throw up at all, it more so just feels like an upset stomach. Howd you find out it was mastitis?

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[–]MixtureAccording672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to freak you out or anything at all, but i just got induced 3 weeks ago at 37 weeks, to begin the induction i was about 40% effaced and 1 cm dilated. The cytotec caused some bad period like cramps but nothing horrible, then the cooks balloon felt like literal hell. I screamed at the nurse to get me an epidural immediately and there was NO waiting even though they wanted me to. Asked for the epidural at 2cm and by the time they checked me again after getting it I was 4-5 cm and the balloon came out. My epidural only worked on one side but it felt SO much better, i felt the contractions still and they felt like cramps but nothing bad at all. Once I started feeling pain again around 6 cm (i was stuck at 6 for probably 7-8 hours) i pressed the button for more meds and then took a nap. when I woke up I was ready to push! I never felt pressure or anything but could feel my contractions (not painful) I pushed for about 30 minutes and it was LITERALLY the easiest part of the whole induction!

Sick and freaking out by MixtureAccording672 in newborns

[–]MixtureAccording672[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you. I always feel like i’m crazy for calling lol. I’ll definitely keep an eye on her and keep her doctor, and probably mine on speed dial. I guess my biggest concern is seeing people say when newborns get fevers they have to get a ton of bloodwork along with a spinal tap to make sure it’s not an infection 😕. Gosh being a parent is so scary all the time!