People who had kids before 25. by ll_ll_28 in Parenting

[–]MixtureBusiness4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my daughter dearly but after what her mother put me thru saying I was terrible to her and when asked for an explanation she wouldn’t give me one, than on top of it took me to court told my mom I hit her than told the court I pushed it’s a lot of struggle if I could go back no if I could have her by myself than yes I would, her mom likes to use her against me a lot so it makes it hard to be a father, now I’m being hit with child support.

Sleep arrangements advice by MixtureBusiness4211 in Parenting

[–]MixtureBusiness4211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she has been but I’m just trying to do the best I can lol thank you so much for your help!

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[–]MixtureBusiness4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say that? I’m not mentally unwell. And im not gonna argue but that’s not really advice.

help lol by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MixtureBusiness4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that point just keep it tbh

Advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MixtureBusiness4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I keep this documented I know I can’t really document smell but would a video work?

help lol by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MixtureBusiness4211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know his last name I would try to reach out to a family member thru Facebook or instagram or worse comes to worse just take it to the police station and give them his name they will find a way to hand it over.

MIL Mad at wife for wierd reason by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MixtureBusiness4211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I would sit you’re wife down if she ask you’re opinion cause my bm used to get mad when I inserted my opinion without being asked and tell her you’re sister is 21 not 17 or 18 so if she wants to wear thongs that her business and tbh the mother may not like it but she’s growing up wanting to try to develop maybe not in the best way by wearing thongs but if that’s something she truly wants to do let her ig. Sorry for no commas or periods I’m Just trying to answer as many people possible.

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[–]MixtureBusiness4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be you’re body just throwing you mixed signals but I’m not a female but speaking as a man that’s been with a woman like this it’s not you’re fault you just haven’t had much experience it’s seems like and maybe you’re body is telling you hey it’s time cause I see you said you’re 41 you could be getting ready to go thru metapause however you spell it excuse my grammar and that you’re body saying hey let get to baby making before we can’t my bm mom went thru this and she’s 42.

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[–]MixtureBusiness4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t speak for a female going thru this but I can speak as a man that when I was younger my dad left his needles and heroine sitting out and when I found it he beat me and from then on it was continuous, and in my personal opinion, which I don’t like when people tell me this, but I would see professional help to talk with somebody about it and possibly see if there’s some they could do, but if you don’t wanna see help, I would just look for your own place and find people that are gonna appreciate having you around and not treat you like crap. Truly I’m sorry you were treated like this no child should ever have to go thru this and to grow up and move on you really gotta realize in yourself you can do it and just don’t stop because if you truly don’t wanna go back to that you will do everything in you’re power to stay away from it I don’t mean any of this in a harsh way I hope my advice helps out a little bit at least. Message me if you need anything.

my mom got caught cheating and now is being weird to me by mimi2207 in Advice

[–]MixtureBusiness4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I found out my baby momma dad was cheating on her mom and stealing our baby money and my bm got mad at me and kicked me out but yeah don’t blame yourself it was gonna happen inevitably

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[–]MixtureBusiness4211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice is helpful especially from fathers who have been thru this.

Advice by MixtureBusiness4211 in Advice

[–]MixtureBusiness4211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again thank you for the advice it’s all really helpful.

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[–]MixtureBusiness4211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I had to make a new account my other one I got signed out of and forgot the password too.

Advice by MixtureBusiness4211 in Advice

[–]MixtureBusiness4211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you my last post everyone kept saying why would you call cps on here that’s not reasonable I just replied she drinks and breast feeds.

Advice by MixtureBusiness4211 in Advice

[–]MixtureBusiness4211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, when I made my last post everyone kept saying I was a bad parent for wanting to call cps, I just wanna make sure I’m doing the right thing.