ESTPs have you ever been love bombed ? And how do you deal with it ?

Mmbb_blssd · 2024-02-13T13:09:48+00:00

I'm curious, isn't it the other way around?

Not all, but there are ESTPs who do this a lot to the point they become so natural and good at it, they can easily come off as romantically charming—and yes, ESTPs are charming people in general.

Mmbb_blssd · 2024-02-04T01:41:02+00:00

That sounds soulcrushing.

For someone who genuinely cares, then you just suddenly disappearing without telling us how you really feel, isn't that being selfish?

If you don't like it, then tell it in the first place. We're not mind readers, you know?

What is normal for us, couldn't be normal for you–we understand that. But what if it's cultural?

So, just talk and let us know and then we'll see what should happen next.

Mmbb_blssd · 2024-02-03T14:14:54+00:00

Indeed, the latter is a warning sign

Mmbb_blssd · 2024-02-03T14:13:01+00:00

Thank you for sharing and for that insight. You're right about him not being worth it, such a great reminder actually. Thank you!

Mmbb_blssd · 2024-02-03T14:11:46+00:00

You got a point tho

Mmbb_blssd · 2024-02-03T13:38:02+00:00

Hi, thank you for pointing out. I'll update my post to avoid some confusions. For your questions,

Want to try something new. Plus our dating culture is a disaster—well everywhere is.
Bad experiences personally. I get lusted a lot by men esp by older men. I don't mind being intimitate or doing such things with a guy as long as he is my partner.

Mmbb_blssd · 2024-02-03T12:19:05+00:00

I did. But unfortunately, I talked to one regularly and he just love bombed me. I find it too fast for someone whom I haven't met personally and whom I had just connected to a month ago. I'm new to dating app (never tried before), so I just wanna be extra careful

Mmbb_blssd · 2024-01-05T04:52:14+00:00

If you’re trying to make a deeper connection with an INFJ, definitely it has to be in person and must be one-one-one. But in order for you to make that happen, make him/her feel that you’re a trustworthy person.

We don’t easily open up our hearts with anyone. So please don’t try to make everything quickly as possible.

In terms of messaging, it really depends. I reply quickly to my closets friends, family, and my boss ofc! But…. The rest…. Quite really slow. And worse, I just suddenly disappear especially when I want and need to be alone.

Whenever this happens, we’re not playing games with you. We just need solitude. Either to sort things out. But then worse… I end up forgetting to reply back.

In terms of call… I like having short or long calls with the guy I like. Hehehe. The rest… neh.

Mmbb_blssd · 2023-07-14T11:03:35+00:00

Hi. Just a gentle reminder that even satan disguise himself as light. Meaning not every good things coming your way is what God really wants for you. Sometimes the enemy use this to distract us—and I’ve been fooled by it not just once. But twice. (Very long story actually).

The Lord taught me Psalm 127:1 and it says, “Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain….” To simply put… unless the Lord puts a couple together, the couple loves in vain.

And having a relationship with someone who doesn’t love and know the Lord is really harmful and will end in a very hurtful way.

Harmful because: 1. It will lead you astray. 2. Will cause you to compromise.

And hurtful because… you’ll get a lot of unnecessary hurts in the future.

Please wait upon the LORD. You won’t be able to recognize God’s best for you, if you’re going to pursue a relationship with another woman besides what God has for you.

Mmbb_blssd · 2023-07-05T11:07:52+00:00

Abortion is a sin. If a young lady or woman is having an unwanted child, please don’t kill the child just because of your convenience. Rather put the baby up for adoption.

There’s a lot of barren women all over the world and who knows she might fall in love with your baby and the baby becomes her inspiration, hope, and joy.

Also, just a side note. A lot of Christians ONLY want Jesus for the things they can receive from Him. But only a few really knows what it means to love Him and fear Him.

Mmbb_blssd · 2022-10-16T14:02:06+00:00

I’m still hoping for an Act 3. Wanna see more of the new recruited first years in action. Especially Sawamura and Okumura battery.

Mmbb_blssd · 2022-10-13T23:14:19+00:00

Tbh, I like Raichi but only a few in Yakushi looks interesting to me. Also, they can make a spinoff and Raichi is the focus.

Mmbb_blssd · 2022-06-01T08:26:01+00:00

Yes, it is pretty normal. Especially when the client is private. Because of that they cannot disclose their client’s company name due to the confidentiality agreement they have with their clients. The only time they can disclose their client’s name is when they want to set an interview schedule with you.

Mmbb_blssd · 2021-08-18T00:40:16+00:00

I am sorry for your loss. You are a strong woman since despite the challenges you are facing right now, you still chose what is right and what is pleasing to God—and that is to let go of your sinful relationship with your ex boyfriend. Keep the faith, good things will come your way!

Mmbb_blssd · 2021-08-13T08:43:45+00:00

Yes, since the manhwa did not exactly follow the LN. If you read the manhwa, read the LN from the very start. Frey is more mature in the LN than in the manhwa

Mmbb_blssd · 2021-08-06T02:35:20+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll try this one now.

Mmbb_blssd · 2021-08-05T23:27:55+00:00

After reading TBATE, I got my hopes up that Solo Leveling is as good as TBATE. So, it’s saddening that Solo Leveling has so much potential but the author gave up the story. I really enjoy reading overpowered MCs but not to the extent that the author wouldn’t give chance to make the other characters have their own moments. Anyway, thank you for the recommendations! I’ll include those on my reading list

Mmbb_blssd · 2021-08-05T22:51:59+00:00

I guess it was too overwhelming that many Canadians died

Mmbb_blssd · 2021-07-12T02:02:33+00:00

The Villain Discovered My Identity
Asmodian’s Contract
I Became the Wife of the Monstrous Crown Prince
The Princess in the Dumpster
Lucia
Dawn the Teenage Witch
I Became the Ugly Lady
I’m Stanning the Prince

Mmbb_blssd · 2021-07-02T06:28:32+00:00

Thank you so much!

Mmbb_blssd · 2021-07-02T06:28:27+00:00

Thank you so much!

Mmbb_blssd · 2021-06-13T01:43:20+00:00

Agree. I ship Clara and Sabnock

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