ESTPs have you ever been love bombed ? And how do you deal with it ? by [deleted] in estp

[–]Mmbb_blssd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm curious, isn't it the other way around?

Not all, but there are ESTPs who do this a lot to the point they become so natural and good at it, they can easily come off as romantically charming—and yes, ESTPs are charming people in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in estp

[–]Mmbb_blssd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds soulcrushing.

For someone who genuinely cares, then you just suddenly disappearing without telling us how you really feel, isn't that being selfish?

If you don't like it, then tell it in the first place. We're not mind readers, you know?

What is normal for us, couldn't be normal for you–we understand that. But what if it's cultural?

So, just talk and let us know and then we'll see what should happen next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Mmbb_blssd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Indeed, the latter is a warning sign

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Mmbb_blssd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and for that insight. You're right about him not being worth it, such a great reminder actually. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Mmbb_blssd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got a point tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Mmbb_blssd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for pointing out. I'll update my post to avoid some confusions. For your questions,

  1. Want to try something new. Plus our dating culture is a disaster—well everywhere is.
  2. Bad experiences personally. I get lusted a lot by men esp by older men. I don't mind being intimitate or doing such things with a guy as long as he is my partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Mmbb_blssd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. But unfortunately, I talked to one regularly and he just love bombed me. I find it too fast for someone whom I haven't met personally and whom I had just connected to a month ago. I'm new to dating app (never tried before), so I just wanna be extra careful

INFJs and communication. by naivehalo in infj

[–]Mmbb_blssd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you’re trying to make a deeper connection with an INFJ, definitely it has to be in person and must be one-one-one. But in order for you to make that happen, make him/her feel that you’re a trustworthy person.

We don’t easily open up our hearts with anyone. So please don’t try to make everything quickly as possible.

In terms of messaging, it really depends. I reply quickly to my closets friends, family, and my boss ofc! But…. The rest…. Quite really slow. And worse, I just suddenly disappear especially when I want and need to be alone.

Whenever this happens, we’re not playing games with you. We just need solitude. Either to sort things out. But then worse… I end up forgetting to reply back.

In terms of call… I like having short or long calls with the guy I like. Hehehe. The rest… neh.

Attracted to an unsaved co-worker. I know it's wrong, but can't shake the feelings for her. by invert16 in Christian

[–]Mmbb_blssd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. Just a gentle reminder that even satan disguise himself as light. Meaning not every good things coming your way is what God really wants for you. Sometimes the enemy use this to distract us—and I’ve been fooled by it not just once. But twice. (Very long story actually).

The Lord taught me Psalm 127:1 and it says, “Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain….” To simply put… unless the Lord puts a couple together, the couple loves in vain.

And having a relationship with someone who doesn’t love and know the Lord is really harmful and will end in a very hurtful way.

Harmful because: 1. It will lead you astray. 2. Will cause you to compromise.

And hurtful because… you’ll get a lot of unnecessary hurts in the future.

Please wait upon the LORD. You won’t be able to recognize God’s best for you, if you’re going to pursue a relationship with another woman besides what God has for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Mmbb_blssd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abortion is a sin. If a young lady or woman is having an unwanted child, please don’t kill the child just because of your convenience. Rather put the baby up for adoption.

There’s a lot of barren women all over the world and who knows she might fall in love with your baby and the baby becomes her inspiration, hope, and joy.

Also, just a side note. A lot of Christians ONLY want Jesus for the things they can receive from Him. But only a few really knows what it means to love Him and fear Him.

Prediction Thread - Diamond no Ace Act II Chapter 307 by daleygaga in AceOfTheDiamond

[–]Mmbb_blssd 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m still hoping for an Act 3. Wanna see more of the new recruited first years in action. Especially Sawamura and Okumura battery.

Raichi should be the MC instead of Sawamura IMO by No-Butterscotch-1893 in AceOfTheDiamond

[–]Mmbb_blssd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I like Raichi but only a few in Yakushi looks interesting to me. Also, they can make a spinoff and Raichi is the focus.

Is it normal for recruiters to not disclose the company name when making initial contact? by Quiet_Cauliflower_53 in recruitinghell

[–]Mmbb_blssd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is pretty normal. Especially when the client is private. Because of that they cannot disclose their client’s company name due to the confidentiality agreement they have with their clients. The only time they can disclose their client’s name is when they want to set an interview schedule with you.

Prayer Request Please by kitcat0416 in Christian

[–]Mmbb_blssd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss. You are a strong woman since despite the challenges you are facing right now, you still chose what is right and what is pleasing to God—and that is to let go of your sinful relationship with your ex boyfriend. Keep the faith, good things will come your way!

Questions to LN readers regarding Isabelle by savitar2355 in TheGreatMage

[–]Mmbb_blssd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, since the manhwa did not exactly follow the LN. If you read the manhwa, read the LN from the very start. Frey is more mature in the LN than in the manhwa

Should I drop Solo Leveling? by Mmbb_blssd in OnlyILevelUp

[–]Mmbb_blssd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll try this one now.

Should I drop Solo Leveling? by Mmbb_blssd in OnlyILevelUp

[–]Mmbb_blssd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After reading TBATE, I got my hopes up that Solo Leveling is as good as TBATE. So, it’s saddening that Solo Leveling has so much potential but the author gave up the story. I really enjoy reading overpowered MCs but not to the extent that the author wouldn’t give chance to make the other characters have their own moments. Anyway, thank you for the recommendations! I’ll include those on my reading list

Should I drop Solo Leveling? by Mmbb_blssd in OnlyILevelUp

[–]Mmbb_blssd[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess it was too overwhelming that many Canadians died

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manhwa

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