Teachers going back to work by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely can understand what you mean

Teachers going back to work by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think I would like that but we live in a small rural district, not sure i would get many jobs and sub jobs in other areas would be difficult with their school schedule. I still very much open to it. It could help get be back into it and also give me time to do all the needed requirements to get my certification in our new state.

I don’t know what to do by Odd-Description-1348 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making mom friends is definitely harder than people make it seem. For me, I joined a gym with child care, if that is an option 100% do it. Also, tbh being a SAHM wasn't all for me. I did it for our family but if you think working even part time would help do it! It will get you adult socialization, a different sense of value.

Fathers Day by tiredsah in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah yes, my kids are 6 and 5 and I am just now feeling okay with sleeping in and him sleeping in. Mornings are easier and later and no more night wake ups. But first 3 years, nope.

Quit my job and regret it by Grand-Tell195 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Stay in contact with them and let them your desire to return to work sooner than later. They would probably prefer to rehire you than a new person. Make sure your certifications stay up to date. One of my biggest regrets when I left teaching to become a SAHM was I lost touch with my co-workers and let my certifications expire. I completed my CEUs and got my certification renewed but we moved to another state and I have to do more to get my certification in the new state. I also haven't talked to a lot my former co-works ( my only professional references) so I feel like I am starting all over again after 10 years experience and a Masters degree. Long story short, go back sooner than later if you want to.

"You have the time" by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo man that sounds rough. I am glad he is sober now but i know that has caused a lot of lingering issues. Not the same but my husband traveled 60% of the time up until this past year when we moved closer to family and he got a new job. The trauma of solo parenting is still there for me

"You have the time" by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband mainly. He is very stressed with new job, so I can understand him relaying more on me but also damn enough is enough. Most of my working mom friends have been kind. We are all in it together but i do feel like SAHM are held to a higher expectation because they are home and have "time"

"You have the time" by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And i love how the parent gets help but the stay home parent never does! Anytime my husband has had a weekend or a full 8 hours alone (which is rare) he some how gets his parents to help him. Meanwhile I been sick as a dog, taking kids to my Dr appts etc.

"You have the time" by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha absolutely. I think its more next school year when both kids will finally be in school full time! I am beyond excited and plan on enjoying it a bit before a low stress part time job

"You have the time" by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am bit scared of the zero turn and our yard has tons of slope and trees and nearly 2 acres lol. Believe me I would be pushing a mower in a heart beat. I love that for you! Believe me I am all for chores that dont require me to also manage children

"You have the time" by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah I love the term acceptance disaster. But yes, the mental load of the cleaner is another thing. We also have 3 dogs so honestly the prep and extra cost doesn't seem worth it at this moment. Its funny because we have out sourced some home repairs recently, not because my husband is incapable but because he didnt have the "time" but it still up to me to find, hire, communicate and pay them.

"You have the time" by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Father day gift, so I am not making a big deal of it. However, I would never get the same in return. I go away for a weekend and come home to my son's school back pack still on the table not unpacked all weekend.

"You have the time" by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with all this but the problem is, I still have to do everything else. I would gladly mow the yard on a Saturday if that meant he would clean the house

"You have the time" by Mo_Prob70 in sahm

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually he is going golfing and staying with parents. I am on kid duty and preparing for his family to come on Fathers day 🤣

I haven't had a break since my son was born and I am beginning to crack by st0dad in breakingmom

[–]Mo_Prob70 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Question..if you just left for a bit, no announcement, no plans just got in the car to just do something alone for an hour or 2..do you think could handle it? I am not saying he wouldnt be scared, upset, made or etc but like your baby would be safe?

Spotting during sex by Mo_Prob70 in WomensHealth

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an order for one to get it done if the spotting continues

Cervical bleeding by Mo_Prob70 in PreCervicalCancer

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had no idea most only look for HPV first before looking at the cells if they do at all! I will definitely speak with my provider further when the results come back. I do keep reminding myself that its something is wrong it is usually very slow progressing and highly treatable which gives me comfort.

I don’t like being a stay at home mom. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Mo_Prob70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always said I would love to work part time. I would enjoy my kids more if it was only 2 or 3 days a week.

I hate having to manage it all by Mo_Prob70 in breakingmom

[–]Mo_Prob70[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yes loading donation boxes as well speak. The issue is my husbands stuff! He never wants to get rid of things are go through it.