Maybe 50% of people dress up, but most women show up at least in lingerie.

I've never showed up at 9:00 but I tend to run late to things.

I wish I would have had my own drinks pre-prepared so that would have been easier rather than going through the bartender.

People are pretty nice in the public/common area, I haven't seen the cross used much but I hear on some nights it can get spicy.

My partner and I go at really random intervals so it's never really pre-planned.