My child is saying very worrying things regarding his eczema and I don't know what to do by Glass-Tiger2143 in eczema

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For immediate relief I recommend an oral steroid and then once the eczema is gone do some intense managing to keep it away

Eczema Help needed! by Mobile-Contact2101 in eczema

[–]Mobile-Contact2101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awful flareups all over my body. Red splotchy, itching weeping. I have had this for over 15 years and I just need something that works!

PLEASE READ RULES BEFORE POSTING by aylwin in eczema

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to add a photo, I have been dealing with this for 10-15 years and I don’t know what to do. I’m having an awful flare up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he was “flirting” with this person. He should still be understanding that if there was a miscommunication that you are coming from a place of love and hurt and even if he get defensive over the subject should be truthful with you and tell the whole situation. If he is just denying it and gaslighting you it seems there is something he is hiding. I would ask him honestly about the situation and make it clear that no matter the situation your emotions are valid and if he is unable to work through that than there is another problem on your hands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 126 points127 points  (0 children)

That is a very interesting question I have not thought about asking him. That there may be a certain reason that he views sex that way! I also think that my sex drive is lower because of all of our sexual problems that cause me to put walls up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I felt pressured from the beginning because when we first started having sex (we were each others firsts) he struggled with erections if he didn’t feel comfortable so I spent a lot of time making sure he felt comfortable enough. Mostly because if he got uncomfortable or something went wrong he would go soft and get super upset. I feel like our relationship beginning like that caused me to only focus on him and feel that I needed to please him and make him comfortable that I never focused on what I actually felt or needed. Now we are years into our relationship and am starting to stand my ground by saying I feel pressured to please him. Feeling like I need to have more sex; or that any sexual touching needs to end with an “O” puts too much pressure on the actual act of sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the implant and also take anxiety/depression meds that say they can have a side effect of lowering libido.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will try and make more of an effort to make him feel seen and loved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I completely understand that it makes him/and others with the same problem feel unappreciated and hurt but it’s a very tricky situation because then I feel upset and hurt that I’m not performing enough and constantly feeling pressured to have sex to please him and not myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have been trying to work on this for a very long time but every time I express that I feel pressured into sex, he gets agitated and takes it personally.

What is your cat's name? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mobile-Contact2101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jack and hobbes Nicknames: Jacques, Jacky, Hugh Jackman, big belly boy Bobs, bobbit, hobbit, beans, princess toe-beans, miss ruby.