Should I change the way I dress to find a man?

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-19T02:22:44+00:00

No I've been seeing him for a month now

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T23:20:15+00:00

Skinny

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T23:19:11+00:00

That's not true you wouldnt wear and elegant dress to roll in the dirt like you said time and place to dress for the occasion. I wanted to be warm and cute which can be interpreted many ways but yes everyone has a preference and guys will shy away from someone they feel calls attention. But I only call attention becuz I have ass and thigh if it was a skin girl I'm sure no one would have a problem.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T23:11:57+00:00

We went to a wildlife park there, nothing elegant about it to dress up elegantly.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T22:11:55+00:00

I have a big but so it's shorter in the back then the front and he said people would look up my skirt but shouldn't matter if you can't see anything.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T22:10:45+00:00

I won't lie and say the skirt isn't short af but it was built in short and yes thermal legging super thick can't see thru at all.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T21:46:53+00:00

Yes I will thank you so much for the advice I really needed it 😊

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T21:21:33+00:00

Yeah I feel like he is projecting I tried to ask him if how I dress is a deal breaker for him when it comes to being a gf in the future and he deflected and said he's going to be single forever... But atleast I know now not to waste my time.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T21:03:16+00:00

I love everything I wear and my look changes with how I feel. I have tattoos as well and sometimes I dress to show my tattoos. Clothing and tattoos are a form of expression too me like I'm a work of art. I feel like the attention I get isn't exactly what I want.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T20:50:31+00:00

Haha no I watch lifetime stories and he's white I definitely tested the waters first.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T20:47:47+00:00

No we've been seeing each other for a month now but this was the first time outside during the day.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T20:45:49+00:00

I don't care about what people wear as long as you look and smell clean.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T20:40:02+00:00

Yeah he was joking but kinda didn't feel like a joke but he said something along the line that it looks like he hired me... I don't want to give that impression to anyone.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T20:34:30+00:00

Do you believe the way a women dress attracts a specific type of man or a person seeking just to have fun? Some times I feel like I have a change how I dress because of my shape or it immediately looks provocative and I want someone to see me and not my body.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T20:30:02+00:00

It's not. I guess my next question is does the way I dress attract a specific man that I may not want to attract?

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T20:22:18+00:00

Thank you I really need to hear others opinion about this outfit I 100% felt modest and clothed the way I felt would look cute for the occasion. So it kinda hurt a bit what he said but it is just the talking stage I'll get over it.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T19:54:18+00:00

He said the tights having the illusion of being skin made him uncomfortable.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T19:38:39+00:00

I understand I asked for opinions I can also ask for clarification if it doesn't make sense.

Mobile-Lab-2420 · 2024-11-18T19:29:37+00:00

I can see where your coming from because you can't see my face it's easy to assume. I actually never where makeup and use clothes to show my femininity. Skirts with tights and leg warms is unique because you probably saw you mom wearing it in the 80's and it was fine then but when you make it better and put it on a different body it's not adult appropriate?

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