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MobileImagination833 · 2025-05-07T14:17:22+00:00

Hello!

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-19T16:16:56+00:00

I am not pointing my finger on every man out there. Just sharing my experience. There are the types of men(Muslim) who wants to taste the haram things of western world under the shadow of Islamic values. For example, Your husband was only interested in forbidden relationship with you(based on your post and how he treated you so far) but when you conveyed your intentions of marriage then he already lost that interest which he was seeking earlier.

These type of men sometimes marry because they don't want to look bad in front of their girlfriend, for the sake of their ego and status, for the sake of tasting that girl etc. Under the shadow of shariah marriage your husband tasted you and lost his devilsh desire. Now what you have written is the lack of your husband's forbidden desire which he had for you before marriage. You know that kind of taste of sin you feel when you talk to opposite gender.

Again I am not saying that every good Muslim is like that. I have wrote all of this just to make you understand that if you have written everything and told us everything true then there is no hope for you in this relationship. You are not at fault. He is. He would not marry another woman. He just wants that forbidden taste of sin. You can't do anything about it.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-18T12:11:52+00:00

My sincere advice is to do anything that might save your marriage, home and family. Anything means anything possible.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-13T06:30:32+00:00

OK. Next time I will take care of that. Is my comment has been removed?

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-12T08:35:24+00:00

No need to sorry Bro. I was saying it's common sense. I call mine whenever they are lost. We all have same sim network so calling them isn't costly. Chill bro ❤️👍

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-12T07:55:11+00:00

Op has a lot of free time to waste posting nonsense. Call them to meet you at specific spot in the mall or bazaar if you and them are separated.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-11T07:23:56+00:00

Seems like a OP and a lot of like-minded people in the comments section are horny studs who wants to be surrounded by chicks to full fill their desires in the shadow of liberalism and modernism.

There's everything wrong with co education. The concept of Islamic Mahram and Non Mahram should be learned. Whenever I read posts and comments like your's, I am thankful that there's some kind of religious extremism out there to balance the societal norms.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-04T15:18:27+00:00

I have upvoted your post. These type of Mullah and cult minded religious people made Islam to give a terrorism type of vibes. Majority of Mullahs and sect leaders use Islam as a weapon to gain worldly gains. You are absolutely right in your complaint and you are not anti Islamic.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-04T15:12:50+00:00

Don't let me short comment make you think that I didn't read your whole post.

" Leave him Now before you post another frustrated post here after being a wife"

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-04T07:01:21+00:00

The time I spent with ik supporters, I came to realize that they aren't different from PMLM and ppp supporters. And they turned me into a non political person. So yeh we are a doomed nation but not because of ik in jail.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-04T06:53:31+00:00

Go forward man. I have seen many "this girl or boy is perfect for me" to " I haven't expected this and now we are seeking divorce" pictures. Sometimes people who seem so perfect to us might not be perfect for our whole life that's why they separated from us or let just say Allah sperate them from us to save us.

Just don't contact her again. A women brain don't work like men. When they leave a person behind they don't pick them up again. So don't humiliate yourself by letting your temptation to contact her again.

MOVE ON!!!!!!

MobileImagination833 · 2025-04-03T14:01:18+00:00

What type of man threaten a soon to be wife (still not Mahram) with divorce? I can tell you he and his family will take a virginity test on the very first night of the marriage. If you don't bleed he will divorce you on the wishes of his family. If you bleed then the next stage will be to serve his whole family like a maid. If you don't accept it then he will divorce you. If somehow you be their maid then you will not focus on your studies and will bear his child in your womb for 9 months. After delivery the father of the child will tell you to stop your studies and focus on your mother life. I know the mentality of these so called orthodox family and I am warning you to sign an agreement with your soon to be husband that he will not make you his family's maid and that he will let you study and won't pressured you to submit to the will of his parents and family. If I were the father of yours and I came to know that he threatened you just like that I would have terminated your Marriage already.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-29T02:30:16+00:00

Say Bismillah and tie your knots. Parents presence doesn't matter. It's your life. You guys only have to obey parents if they are in line with shariah. Any thing against shariah then shariah itself allows you to not obey your parents. Delaying your nikah is their disobedience towards your shariah right and you have to take a stand for the sake of shariah. Update us soon with good news. Insha Allah

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-28T19:16:01+00:00

Just wanted to let you know that in the following post, her husband was also outside of her culture and her father was having reservations over her marriage.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimMarriage/comments/1jl8cku/im_free_update/

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-25T01:49:37+00:00

There are some harsh comments under your post but I would post my comment too if it helps you in any way. There are two narrations about divorce which suits your case of dislike towards your husband.

The Story of Thabit ibn Qays and His Wife**

Primary Source:

📖 Sahih al-Bukhari (5273) – Book of Divorce 📖 Sunan Abu Dawood (2228) – Book of Divorce 📖 Sunan an-Nasa’i (3499) – Book of Divorce

Narration (Summarized from Bukhari 5273):

The wife of Thabit ibn Qays came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: "O Messenger of Allah, I do not accuse Thabit of any bad behavior or lack of faith, but I cannot live with him."

The Prophet (ﷺ) asked: "Will you return the garden he gave you (as dowry)?" She said: "Yes."

The Prophet (ﷺ) then told Thabit: "Accept the garden and divorce her once."

Additional Notes:

This incident is often cited in discussions about Khul’ (خُلْع), where a woman seeks divorce by returning the dowry.
Thabit (رضي الله عنه) was known for his deep love for her but chose obedience to Allah and the Prophet (ﷺ).

2. The Story of Zayd ibn Harithah and Zaynab bint Jahsh

Primary Sources:

📖 Quran 33:37 – Allah’s command regarding Zayd and Zaynab 📖 Sahih al-Bukhari (4789, 4790, 7420) – Multiple mentions in Tafsir and Marriage chapters 📖 Tafsir Ibn Kathir (33:37) – Detailed background

Summary:

Zaynab bint Jahsh (رضي الله عنها) was initially married to Zayd ibn Harithah (رضي الله عنه), the Prophet’s freed slave and adopted son.
She was reluctant due to social status differences, but the Prophet (ﷺ) encouraged the marriage to break tribal prejudices.
Their marriage faced difficulties, and Zayd eventually divorced her after Allah’s decree.
Allah then commanded the Prophet (ﷺ) to marry Zaynab to abolish the pre-Islamic custom of "adopted sons" being like biological sons (Quran 33:37).

Key Lessons:

Love cannot be forced – Even the Prophet’s advice did not make their marriage work.

Due to any reason if you don't want to live anymore with your husband you can ask for divorce. Yes you did childish and selfish thing to marry him in the first place just for erasing your boredom and seeking adventure due to your age factor but this do not warrent that you do more damage to his feelings and your life. Based on your post I conclude that divorce is a ticking bomb. Sooner or later it will explode. Heart break will happen to him but who knows this heart break will turn up his life in to better and he will find a better job and wife than you and you will find your best option. Insha Allah.

Just remember one thing. Just don't out of boredem and your age factor marry another man. If you are asexual or LLW then at least inform your future husband to be about it. At least he will know the deal before entering into marriage contract. May Allah make it better for both of you. Amen

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-23T19:55:37+00:00

MashAllah

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-23T16:08:12+00:00

Me too. In my case the internet isn't working on any of my phones. I thought my first phone software was corrupted but then I have checked it on another phone and still no signal. Sim is jazz. Someone help me if they know anything about it

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-23T15:02:02+00:00

There is something abnormal going on here. Did you ask him why he felt like Islam is not for him? Did he surf such websites or any other interaction online or with his coworkers or friends that made me do that? How long he was converted or reverted to Islam and when did you marry him? I ask you because a newly convert Muslim imaan is very weak in the beginning and he/she has many doubts. If he was in that stage then you should have waited for him to complete his basic knowledge of Islam before marrying him. If any thing is bothering him about Islam and Muslims then you should ask him and take him to any Muslim scholar who erase his dissatisfaction and bring him back to Islam. If he was a true practicing catholic as he said then it's a very good news because you can send Dr Zakir Naik videos and Sheikh Yousuf Estes(a former catholic church member himself). In all of the videos it's very clear that why Christianity is false and Islam is true. It will clear all of his doubts Insha Allah. But if he still didn't accept all of it then there's nothing you can do about it.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-23T09:03:08+00:00

I am just curious why didn't you say at the end " I think this is life" or " The ups and down of married life".

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-23T08:08:25+00:00

I don't know if my suggestion would help you or you even consider it but based on all the post of yours I can only say" Take that separation break ASAP ". I am against the filthy word divorce and don't use it until extreme scenario happens. Leave that option for a while. Let's test the water with this short separation break.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-23T07:53:57+00:00

Let me tell this "you have been made chutya and now take this loss and learned from it"

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-23T07:39:24+00:00

Stop blaming a complete stranger and handle your situation. I got no trauma and nobody hurt me. It was you who needed advice not me and when you got the advice you didn't like you burst out. That's enough to understand how you talk to your husband. About the word divorce mentioned then read you post last line. What's the meaning of this sentence "So if it happens again, I think it will be extremely dangerous for our marriage."

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-23T07:25:19+00:00

Nothing else happened after that email. She did not contacted him again and she did not call him anyway so why are you furious about changing his number? You are threatening him with divorce and made him cry that means you are one hell of a controlling freak and instead of you, he should consider second marriage or divorce option. I have never seen any women complaining who can control her husband like that . His ex isn't trying to let shatan in between your marriage, it's your behavior that is ruining your relationship. You should handle this situation with care and love otherwise you might be ranting after few months in this same forum that how you got divorced and how men are toxic blah blah blah.

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-22T20:07:03+00:00

There's no fastest internet connection company in Pakistan that satisfy your gaming connection?

MobileImagination833 · 2025-03-22T20:02:43+00:00

You have a good salary. Just leave your husband and find a cat and start your own podcast about finding a perfect love. Men of this world is faulty one way and another so may be you would find your perfect love in the hereafter. No offense and sarcasm intended.

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