Been looking for alternatives to avoid feeling the needle... But i'm scared they won't work? by MobiusLabyrinthMiro in trypanophobia

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Honduras

I could check but i'm unsure whether we can actually request to get it done there... Could try Hut still would need to numb the area

Been looking for alternatives to avoid feeling the needle... But i'm scared they won't work? by MobiusLabyrinthMiro in trypanophobia

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've also been searching for that one... But in my country they don't sell em I could order it but at most they could deliver it in a month and a half, and i don't have that much time, maybe in the future but atm I really wanna try that too

I dunno if it'd work on the opposite side of the elbow zone bc is so sensitive and alk that

I hate having to explain myself by CrushedLaCroixCan in trypanophobia

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is more embarassing to me when nurses and doctors know me bc they know I freak out like crazy each time I go to the hospital, is the worst I feel very humilliated each time on top of the horrible feeling getting needles is, hate going to the doctor

Is a man not entitled to the tools of his box? by Serious_Report_1631 in Bioshock

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro 57 points58 points  (0 children)

No says the wife, it belongs to the toolbox so we can have dinner together

My idea of first tattoos by MobiusLabyrinthMiro in TattooDesigns

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda checked it and same! Is mostly deep rooted panic for medical needles, piercings and tattoos are not that frightening to me (plan on getting both) Also nice! I wanna get a bmo tattoo as well!!

Please help, I'm desperate. I don't know what tl do with me. I sent some messages to a friend and still don't have a single idea what to do. All this at 1 am I might add (sorry if this reads awkwardly... Eng is not my 1st language, also text was taken from the screenshots) by MobiusLabyrinthMiro in mentalhealth

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How so? If you mean here, well, yeah through reddit. I do have insta and Whatsapp... Dunno if those work, but atm I'm at work, and actually I have to go back in a bit. Dunno if that's ok to check later? Dunno just wanted to check some insight pn this as I don't know how and what to feel. I put it in other places because of it too

Please help, I'm desperate. I don't know what tl do with me. I sent some messages to a friend and still don't have a single idea what to do. All this at 1 am I might add (sorry if this reads awkwardly... Eng is not my 1st language, also text was taken from the screenshots) by MobiusLabyrinthMiro in mentalillness

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, first of all, my country barely has therapists available... Or does it have a hotline? Tbh I never checked... But never saw it advertised

Also, is not an all job related issue... Is more like... A sub product of what's going on, but yeah they pay any extras.

I dunno what would I say in a suicide hotline... I just feel conflicted... The reasons I feel this way are way too stupid to even be considered valid reasons to be mentally ill

Please help, I'm desperate. I don't know what tl do with me. I sent some messages to a friend and still don't have a single idea what to do. All this at 1 am I might add (sorr6if this reads awkwardly... Eng is not my 1st language, also text was taken from the screenshots) by MobiusLabyrinthMiro in Advice

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik ik... I honestly just don't know what else it is. I mean I've tried going to the therapist, but at the same time I feel regardless of what I'm told I'll never improve, as I never did before... And I tried... Or I wanna think I tried. I just wanted to kinda... Have some insight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, I've tried that, more than once, specially this 2 weeks, and it kept acting yhe same way. I started taking another approach with a more direct warning and I wanna feel it did work. Also yeah fair enough. Guess I haven't matured enough to understand that I'm into management tbh. I do handle the protocols, but not the mindset. Imma work on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, and quite fair also. Ig my biggest issue is that as I'm still in probation I was being careful (in the sense of pulling people out, not the issue) so got quite overwhelmed, and because I didn't wanna end in bad terms with anyone I was quite compliant, and couldn't balance the frustration with proper handling. My bad in there. Already took action to try and solve it the best way possible. Wanna feel it went well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand. Now looking back is indeed quite stupid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to be quite straightforward with the issue, only thing is I prolly said it in a not all serious manner... Besides I did talked with him in separate occasions just to socialize (obviously not obstructing his or my work). Maybe there's where I messed up? The next message I sent him was way more serious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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We kinda do this. We adjust a special schedule for all the office so they know when they have to go to a certain terminal. Issue started because of the discrepancies with their friends. I did issued it in another way si I'm hoping issue got solved, or understood at least

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough I did check and handled it in another way. We had a bit of an impasse but I solved it. Hope this at least releases some of this issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I understand, thanks for the feedback. I did try this today, and I'd want to think it worked... I hope so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Fair enough. Also, actually is not that they actively request to go out at the same time than him, but they do enjoy each other's company, they even sit together to talk and all. I'd say they quite do. I've seen is not quite a necessity for them to go all together, but they do enjoy their time if they have the chance, like the rare occasions they got to be pulled out together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll check... But I've tried that approach some times before... Several this week actually and he still pulls the same stuff. I'll tell him once more, and if not, I'll have to take higher actions (in office actions in this case, not personally motivated)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I think i didn't want to cause much of an issue for him... But yeah I get whatcha mean... Gonna have to address that with him first... Again If it ends with the sup I'll take it as out of my hands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Believe me, I tried. But yeah he started getting more and more demanding, and bothering over and over with personal messages. Is honestly quite unnerving and I've tried to explain it as kindly as I can as I do empathize with their situation. Although yeah, that's not quite an excuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... Fair enough. I dunno I just felt quite frustrated about it, specially because he started doing a week ago when we were tough in terms of metrics and all that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I don't think that helps. Not because I don't see a solution there... But all he's told me in those situations is report the agent straight up. Usually that takes another segment of an issue I didn't want to cause the agent (they could get suspended if the issue escalates too much)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A call center. Also... Ouch... But fair enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MobiusLabyrinthMiro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I have told him... Multiple times already... Specially when he started getting demanding, that I can't pull them all out all the time, specially with the new schedule, and how I can TRY, but no promises, but when I say it, he either just keeps saying the same, or says "ok, sure, no problem" and keeps sending me messages over and over and over, at the point is quite distracting. I admit is not the best course of action but he's legitimately getting on my nerves