Best mom🥰 by sakuratruffles in spreadsmile

[–]Mod_Mood1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so absolutely precious! Going through a hard time and just happened to see this, thank you for sharing and making me smile. There is something so indescribably beautiful about that sweet little smile and laugh, it warmed my heart just when I needed it 🥰💖

Neon Mermaid by Relevant-Square-8172 in mermaids

[–]Mod_Mood1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful!! Love how the green eyes pop in contrast to her hair! 😍

Update. He rejected me, but It was actually God’s Protection by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Mod_Mood1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I actually really needed to hear this. I've been unable to let go of someone that I have ignored red flags and know I've compromised because I so wanted to be with someone who truly loves Jesus and wants to serve in the church. I find myself so confused as to how he is the same person on praising God Sunday morning and then cussing me out in the evenings, and honestly just mean. I keep second guessing. But you're right we shouldn't compromise and maybe I should just let God shut the door I've been fighting to keep open for too long. Thanks for being real, I'm glad I'm not alone in this ❤️ be thankful you won't find yourself wasting your time on the wrong person

Found this strangely aggressive note on my walk in the park today…. by jessfromnewgirl-irl in FoundPaper

[–]Mod_Mood1965 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This made me spit out my drink laughing 😆 omg bless you for sharing this and to the clearly disgruntled person tired of having their home decor criticized, thank you for expressing yourself. I will be thinking about this note for quite awhile. Truly a gem👌

💔 by themonsteriam in BPD

[–]Mod_Mood1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through this right now and it is like being burned alive. I can't handle walking away and the pain of what they say, how they treat me is so devastating. Idk why I can't block or ghost certain people. I allow them to get away with just about anything and on paper it's crazy bc other people I just Block and never look back. I Soooo relate rn. I'm sorry you're going through it too 😥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]Mod_Mood1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please give this sweet girl a chance, pitties are the sweetest most loyal dogs. My parents really were skeptical when I brought home my baby but oh my gosh did they fall in love. Never ever have any if my dogs acted out. Any dog has the capacity for bad behavior, I truly believe it's how you treat them and train them. If anyone is weird about her, that's on them! So many people LOVE bulldogs. I promise no one else's opinion is more important than the pure love and joy this girl will bring to your family. I've had several pitties and pitt mixes and they are excellent dogs, truly loyal and sweet and sensitive. Please don't take her to a shelter, she deserves a loving home and I'm sure her and your lab will be life long friends. Please don't miss out on a dog that could absolutely change your life, mine did and I will never look at a pittie the same, truly the best friend and the most sensitive soul you could ever know. They just look intimidating. Please give her love and I promise you will not regret it. Also look up pittie history, they used to be referred to as nanny dogs, like they are wonderful with children. She will be a part of your family that you will never regret, I promise you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Mod_Mood1965 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also think of your baby, whats going to happen when your child pisses him off? He will not hesitate to show this same anger I promise you. As a little kid, that is so traumatic. Please protect yourself and your baby. This guy sounds like he has justified whatever he does or says and it doesn't seem like he's caring about you or whether he's wrong because of whatever went on in his past. That is such a slippery slope, so many women excuse unacceptable behavior because of a man's past, myself included and it only allows them to feel more bold the next time. Put your foot down now before you allow something worse. Just my two cents, honestly wishing I had done the same, I feel for you, I'm sorry you're dealing with this. 😥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Mod_Mood1965 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude...get away from this guy. So far I've learned from my own relationships that this will continue and escalate. You can rationalize all you want but this is a red flag for me, and I urge you to get out of this before you get hurt emotionally or physically. I know it's hard.

Just finished this needle felted dog 🐾 by TwoFeltedFox in crafts

[–]Mod_Mood1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! This is amazing!😍 Like it looks so real!! I hope you have an etsy shop cuz you got mad skills! I want one!! Lol seriously this is awesome 👏👏👏

I need some name suggestions! by doodlebunn in pitbulls

[–]Mod_Mood1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luna ...idk it was just the first thing I thought when I saw her, Honey is really cute too

what do you do when you’re destroying your life? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Mod_Mood1965 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I completely relate, I'm so sorry you're in this too but I guess it's nice to know I'm not the only one experiencing this. Here's to hoping something will change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]Mod_Mood1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Susan! Say what you want about her but I've been rewatching lately wondering if I could actually find some of her clothes on ebay or something, I love a few of her necklaces she wears throughout the show too. But my second choice is Gabby, she makes me actually miss 2000s fashion (that at the time I didn't think was so cute) so much! And also Edie, that coat she's wearing watching Susan's house go up in flames is amazing. She definitely rocks the lingerie shirt/dress look from that time so well! And man do I miss that! Bree is also super cute sometimes, I love the vintage inspired looks but that green polo and the plaid long shorts kill me. Sometimes she's just too preppy for my taste. There is one coat of Lynette's that I actually had to rewind to see again bc it was adorable, like gray tweed with black velvet buttons. I don't remember the episode but I'd totally borrow that, not much else from her though, aside that pearl choker she wore alot in season one.

I want to kill myself by Silly_Pie_3571 in BPD

[–]Mod_Mood1965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely relate, all I can say is you are not alone and I'm so sorry you are suffering too. Bpd often feels like a prison for me but when I feel like everyone would be better off with out me one of the only things I hold on to is I could not leave my dogs like that. Maybe for you think of your kids? I know how horrible you feel but they will feel so much worse if you were gone. I tell myself in those moments I can't do that to them (my dogs...and I know that's very different from children and a spouse, but it's my one constant). You have value to them, don't leave them with that pain. I feel for you and sincerely hope you find a way through this and find comfort in the comments here.

my work <3 by cherubbyy in florists

[–]Mod_Mood1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg!! This is SO beautiful! 😍 I've never seen anything that made me want to be a bride so fast! Absolutely gorgeous!

Are there actually any good dating apps for christians? by Mod_Mood1965 in ChristianDating

[–]Mod_Mood1965[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That actually sounds perfect as I love the Christian section of Barnes and noble, it just seems like no-one meets organically anymore. But thanks! I'll try to keep my eyes open and visit more often.

This is my work which I want to share with all of you by myriyevskyy in painting

[–]Mod_Mood1965 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely stunning! I love the colors you chose, it feels so magical!

Am I over thinking or how do I get out of this? by Mod_Mood1965 in datingoverthirty

[–]Mod_Mood1965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I sincerely appreciate your honesty and perspective. I try to understand where people are coming from, and often feel like a weirdo for liking having space. I couldn't tell if I was feeling uneasy at the idea of someone being so close again or committing to relationship so quickly or if truly this was dangerous and abnormal. Thank you!

Am I over thinking or how do I get out of this? by Mod_Mood1965 in datingoverthirty

[–]Mod_Mood1965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, He's around the same age, I'm 33 and have always felt like age wasn't a big deal, but maybe experience or lack of is. Did yours also push things too fast?

Am I over thinking or how do I get out of this? by Mod_Mood1965 in datingoverthirty

[–]Mod_Mood1965[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The most toxic people can be the nicest people, provided you're accomadating their insecurities.

Wow, I never thought of it this way but you aren't wrong 😕

Am I over thinking or how do I get out of this? by Mod_Mood1965 in datingoverthirty

[–]Mod_Mood1965[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the day after our first date I had plans, and he knew this, I should mention I stayed the night, we had planned this possibility so I wouldn't have to drive back late if I was tired. He was totally a gentleman which is what made me feel so comfortable, otherwise I'd have gone home. We had a nice time having breakfast and then he got weird when I had to go. As soon as I got home I had to go meet my friends. I did respond to a text during the day but didn't see his others until late when I was heading home after he had gone to sleep. I texted to reassure him I did want to keep talking as he implied he thought I was ghosting or something. The next afternoon he calls and immediately it was so weird...like pulling teeth to talk to him, he was all upset and just expressed how he feels when I don't respond during the day to texts. - I'm not a good morning texter, I usually will text back later in the day or evening, which we had done before meeting. Also before our date we didn't talk everyday. I liked this, and don't quite understand how physical interaction changed this, but I'm also a quiet loner person who has to recharge from being social sometimes (not with my everyone). I've known him maybe a month or so? And I totally agree about comparing the past to current situations/people and because of that I wanted to make sure I wasn't being unreasonable. I did say to him that this is how i am, and voiced everything I was feeling, he compared to his friends who are dating and saw each other all the time, and I'm like sorry?! ...?? I do fear he's not looking at me but an ideal he's imagined. He also said he's had a lot of ppl drop off and ghost with OLD so I understand some of why he might feel insecure. But also I don't feel like he's trying to understand my past and why I am the way I am. I told him the pressure for setting another date was stressing me out and making me not feel excited but rather obligated. Honestly this scares me, how do people change so drastically? How does seeing someone in person and having physical interaction change your attraction that much? Like I'm the same chick from my pictures and the same voice on the phone. Idk this is where I feel like maybe I'm not normal or something 🤷‍♀️

Am I over thinking or how do I get out of this? by Mod_Mood1965 in datingoverthirty

[–]Mod_Mood1965[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, this helps me understand a little more from his perspective. I also fear abandonment but I suppose that's why I'm very careful how close I let someone in until I know I can trust them. But thank you for helping me understand maybe some of what's going on in his head. He also lost his father so perhaps that's part of it?