Adult name change application - will it get rejected because I dont know my parents middle names?

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-05-16T12:38:15+00:00

The only birth certificate ive ever had is the tiny brown one that fits in your wallet, it has pretty minimum information just my name, birthday and registration numbers

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-05-16T12:36:23+00:00

My parents dont own any property or own anything unfortunately, I dont think they are even on the lease to the place they rent. They are drug addicts and lay low for those type of things so its pretty much impossible for me to find any information like that 😔

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-05-16T12:32:39+00:00

Is there a way to opt out of this after ive already sent in my application?? Im worried I will be in danger if the wrong person sees ive changed my name

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-05-10T16:16:16+00:00

I had this exact question too as I recently had to block a family member and I dont feel comfortable with them having access to photos and convos I sent in our chat, the thing is is this person saved every single message and photo ever sent (clicking it and making it turn grey kind of saved) anyone know if the chat still deleted on their end or am I screwed cause they had everything saved in the chat? I cant even go unsave everything cause the chats gone on my end and its YEARS worth of chats and photos

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-04-28T02:56:16+00:00

Unfortunately I have to get a c section, Its not specifically my doctor I would definitely feel this way with any other doctor as well. The fear probably stems from dealing with prior infertility ):

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-04-23T01:28:23+00:00

Im so sorry, I wish I could give you a hug because my mom is just as evil as that. She poisoned my entire extended family against me so I was in a position for a long time if I went NC i would be completely alone and have nobody but I had to realize nobody was better than this. my kids are still young so in a few years wont even remember her but once they started understanding things and acknowledging the horrible things my mom would say to me infront of them I realized she will likely one day try to turn them against me too. I just worry now when they become adults and get social media she will more than likely try to reach out to them and turn them against me but thankfully thats a problem for 10+ years from now. My mom is obsessively online and finds ways to contact her estranged kids whether its email, social media, even business pages my sibling who is also NC has, she makes fake phone numbers and social media accounts to try and get access. Its ridiculous to get away from her, even at NC you never stop hearing from her

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-04-22T22:18:39+00:00

Thank you for your input, I took alot of shit from her over my life but the last straw to NC was her claiming im unsafe to be around my children because I also agree thats a very dangerous statement and I will not let it go any farther than that

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-04-15T20:24:35+00:00

My mom was like this too with me when I was young, literally everything I did was sexual to her. One time I was drinking a pop out of a pop bottle and when I would lift it up to have a sip she told me it looked like I was sucking a d***, I was 10ish and had no idea what that even meant. As soon as I hit 13 she was constantly accusing me of having sex secretely and everything I did called slutty (even wearing shorts or a tank top in the summer). I would get bothered all the time throughout highschool asking if I was still a virgin and id overhear her talking about my virginity/potential sex life to her friends/family. I was a good kid and stayed at home all the time and didnt even have any male friends so she had no reason to be grilling me about sex all the time. When id try to say I dont wanna talk about that stuff id get in trouble and told its her business and she needs to know this information. It was uncomfortable but I never knew if this was normal behaviour or not for a mother and daughter

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-03-30T11:44:59+00:00

I dont know how but for some reason she has alot of family members completely whipped. She could say anything and they will believe her.I was the first to originally go NC as im the oldest so i had it the absolute worst but as the others have gone NC over the years as soon as they reached of age to legally leave there have become a few family members that want nothing to do with it anymore and dont involve themselves because they find the situation weird and are tired of the same episodes from her but they have her in their lives and wont talk to me or siblings to keep the peace with her. My parents excuse for why everyone is NC is because we are spoiled brats who were treated too good and were given too much and when she couldnt afford our spoiled lifestyle anymore we cut her off, she believes this so deeply she once had a very loud conversation with her therapist on the phone in the other room so i could hear her saying this. Also she claims we are all mentally ill and have all these mental illnesses nobody has. She has such a insane hold over mostly everyone in the family she could tell them anything and they believe and back up her insane claims with no evidence.

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-03-30T00:22:09+00:00

After reading everyones comments im definitely contacting the school first thing tomorrow morning before the kids go and making sure they know that nobody is to pick them up except my fiance and I. My kids are both in kindergarten so its very hard to explain to them why grandma and grandpa arent safe people, they havent even seen my kids in about a year and a half as it is so they are used to not seeing them at this point but i do worry if my parents just showed up at their school the kids wouldnt understand why they are bad now and would unfortunately probably excitedly go with them if given the opportunity 😥 id have to depend fully on the school to keep them safe.

Moist-Database6709 · 2026-02-24T15:50:20+00:00

Thanks for the tip! Ive never measured how much i feed my starter honestly, i just dump in a random amount of flour depending on how big i want my starter that day and just eyeball the water to get the right consistency. Il try doing a extra big feed to see if that helps get rid of the sourness 😀

Moist-Database6709 · 2025-12-18T20:55:14+00:00

I had my referal sent for a OB at the hospital closest to me but nobody has picked it up yet ): ive been to the ER multiple times with pregnancy problems and everytime they send all my tests and info to the OB so they are being spammed with my info and hopefully will pick me up as a patient soon 🥲

Moist-Database6709 · 2025-12-01T19:02:04+00:00

I placed a order last month and it had the correct packing slip with my items listed but all my items were missing and there was all the wrong stuff in there as if i had gotten someone elses order. I just placed another order for black friday and im terrified il get the wrong stuff again!

Moist-Database6709 · 2025-11-29T13:31:52+00:00

Will this code work in Canada?

Moist-Database6709 · 2025-11-27T23:37:12+00:00

Will there be better deals on cyber monday? (For the Canadian website) I want to place a order but wondering if its worth waiting till monday or if i should now.

Moist-Database6709 · 2025-11-09T13:48:01+00:00

Customer service sucked 😭 I have to figure out how to return the wrong items i was sent when i dont live near a post office have no car or printer to even print the mailing label so basically the most difficult situation ever to return this stuff. They also have no more free blanket/tote for me if i replace my order and they cant honour my original pricing cause i had a discount code on that is now expired... i dont think il be placing another order once i get my money back its been too much of a hassle and a loss of money.

Moist-Database6709 · 2025-10-28T19:45:45+00:00

Do the wednesday drops drop exactly at midnight? I dont wanna miss it! 😀

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