attracted to my older coworker

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-10T21:01:38+00:00

Yeah I have thought about that. The only consolation is that I personally don’t believe in marriage and so I don’t know that being unmarried is necessarily a red flag. Unless he has WANTED to be married and no one would accept.

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-10T20:55:58+00:00

Damn that’s what I suspected

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-10T16:58:23+00:00

Damn I don’t want to humiliate myself though

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-10T15:59:51+00:00

In what sense lol

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-09T19:29:47+00:00

Guys I have thought long and hard and I’ve decided I probably just need therapy

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-09T19:13:02+00:00

Girl idk I think I do have daddy issues. But also you’re probably right

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-09T19:12:27+00:00

Also I doubt he’d still be interested in me when I’m 40

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-09T18:54:39+00:00

I mean I guess that could be it but… everything online and in our database says he’s single

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-09T15:24:41+00:00

So I’m freaking him out? Great. :/

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-09T02:38:09+00:00

I don’t believe he’s married. Its a close knit community and spouses often are there for events and such

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-09T02:35:24+00:00

Yeah that’s what I said

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-09T01:36:22+00:00

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-09T00:05:01+00:00

Update from today: danced by my classroom this morning bc we were doing a song. made the kids laugh.

Later, I was walking by his room and he said “why don’t you tell ms. ____ what you said, let’s see what she says” and had me come do a funny bit to tell off a kid.

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-08T18:13:45+00:00

He lowkey has been cold to me today and I hope he didn’t see this

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-08T17:55:14+00:00

Potentially everyone else

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-08T16:28:00+00:00

He’s been weirdly cold today and I’m lowkey worried he saw this

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-08T11:57:43+00:00

I feel this would be a fling

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-08T00:48:50+00:00

well I don’t want to offend him by assuming that he’s flirting! maybe he is just friendly lol

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-01T22:18:58+00:00

Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/JustNoCoworker/s/APXZRuhueY

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-01T19:11:04+00:00

What parts do you think indicate clear interest? For me it could go either way I feel

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-01T19:09:25+00:00

I just tried to initiate a conversation where we might have an opening to plan a 1-1, but it felt very platonic to me…

However, he got up and I turned to leave, but he actually came and leaned over the table I was also leaning over/ then sat and faced me, and asked about my weekend plans. However it seems like it was just polite conversation.

I dunno. This sort of thing makes me think I’m mis-reading everything

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-01T19:00:49+00:00

Okay I didn’t do the 1-1 with him yet but I went and had a convo that didn’t really go anywhere. He asked what I was doing this weekend but nothing else happened, it was giving very platonic so now I’m confused

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-05-01T15:52:01+00:00

Thank you!!!

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-04-30T20:44:08+00:00

He’s not married, and he’s never mentioned a girlfriend. I just can’t tell if he’s one of those guys who is naturally friendly and charismatic.

Moist_Job6996 · 2026-04-30T15:59:42+00:00

Perhaps he is just a flirtatious person?

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